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Not that you were in the wrong, but when contacting someone I haven't seen before I phrase the question as, how much advance notice do you prefer people to schedule an appointment. 

Not that you were in the wrong, but when contacting someone I haven't seen before I phrase the question as, how much advance notice do you prefer people to schedule an appointment. 

I see that some US members still do not know how to use free VPN to gain access to read the written portion of RM reviews.  I was clueless in the past as well.  After much trial and error, I figure out this method.  It’s totally free and I assume it is relatively safe and secure.  Here is the step-by-step breakdown:
1.     Go to: https://www.proxysite.com/
2.     In the middle of the page, choose a random EU Server, type in https://rentmen.eu/ and click GO

3.     Keep choosing the RENTMEN.EU option on the pop-up screen(s)

4.     On top of the page, type in the provider name you like (I’m using Dominus as an example only) and click Go

5.     Scroll to the middle of the page and click on “Read All Reviews about Dominus”

 6.     You have arrived at the final destination.
This method works for me every time.  I hope it will work for you too!
Disclaimer: I am NOT the most computer literate person.  So if you see any problems with this method and/or if you have better suggestions, please feel free to enlighten me.  Thanks in advance.

In my knowing that my time with the providers was only for a limited time, I never was in love with any of them, but I did enjoy being with these men conversing and fuckin'!  I think some of them liked me as well, but in retrospect, we knew our boundaries in terms of our bonding and connecting.
One very intelligent, dapper, and quite hung and uncut young guy who was a naturalized citizen seemingly enjoyed my company, for he would always avail himself when I requested.  We had super-great convo, and when it came time to become passionate and sensual/sexual, he knew how to fulfill my needed sexual appetite.
One year when I went to the Dominican Republic, I had an accident by falling in a wide drainage hole that was between curb and street and tearing a ligament in my knee.  After I flew back to the States and had my surgery and had returned home to recuperate, I rang my tall, dark, handsome, and heavily hung East Indian/naturalized American.  He drove from the San Jose area to Monterey to give me what I needed, and of the times that I have been fucked, he rendered one of the better ones for me at this particular time.  
I appreciated him and still, at times, mentally recapture the times that we were together--enjoying each other's company as well as the sex.

Sooo, wanna have fun?
send him back a response that says “ I don’t appreciate your fraudulent attempt to get $815 from me.  I know you used AI to manipulate the notice to look real, but it didn’t work since I don’t use PayPal. I’ve printed all the documentation and filed a report with the FBI Cyber Crime unit since I’m sure they’ll find this case easy to prosecute.”
let’s see him squirm…post his response for us to see
And yes, FBI Cybrr Crime complaints can be filed online 

I fell for my masseur. Twice we even worked out together, and he became my motivation to get back in shape. I thought he was single… until I found out he has a wife and child living in the same apartment I used to visit. I was shocked, heartbroken, and overwhelmed. I’ve deleted his number and our chats — no more seeing him, for my own peace. Still, he’s the only masseur who ever did massage the way I needed it.

I agree with the above.  For that reason, I do offer my opinion on a provider when the question comes from an established forum member.  If the inquiry comes from.a newbie, I just won't respond.  You just never know.

I've tried to connect with him probably 10 times over the past year or so.  His schedule changes continuously (sometimes hourly) and every time we have set a date and time, he somehow is never in town despite what his ad shows.  If he is, confirmation emails all go unanswered.   I know others highly recommend him but for me it's just not worth the hassle.  

I noticed it appears he's back after an extended hiatus
https://rentmen.eu/Mister_Mister

Sounds like a histrionic fit coupled with emotional black mail.  I’d move on.   He crossed a line. 

I saw him several years ago in DC. Not the warmest person. 

If you were paying him what he asked for, why would he be disappointed?
If you were to pay a lower fee to another provider, will he then lower his fee?
Tell him to grow up or find another client.

I had seen Warren several times for a massage, the last time being November 2019. Then I was priced out of his services. 

I saw El several times when he lived in NYC. He would come to DC in occasion. I haven't seen him in a good 12 years or so since he moved out to the west coast. 

90 minutes. I've noticed I can't be on my stomach for more than 45 minutes before I start feeling uncomfortable. 

90 minutes. I've noticed I can't be on my stomach for more than 45 minutes before I start feeling uncomfortable. 

I have met up with HotTopNine 2x. Both were great.  We had good chemistry, and pretty much from the moment he walked in, we started making out and were off to the races.  Great kisser, passionate and edgy, great meat, and when he came, it was an honest holy sh*t moment.  

Some of you have noticed that my activity on the site has been more limited than usual for a while. Over the last six months, I’ve been pouring most of my time, energy, and sanity into a major project. The moderators have known at a high level what has been going on, but I’m finally at the point where I can share it openly with everyone here.
Eagle Medellín is my newest project. It is the first Eagle bar in Colombia and only the second in all of South America (the other being São Paulo, Brazil). It's located in Medellín’s El Poblado neighborhood... literally across the street from Club Oráculo and one street over from Bar Chiquita for those who know the area.
We’re building a space rooted in energy, masculinity, music, and freedom.  Think leather. Think connection. Think a night that belongs fully to the men who step inside.
Our goal is simple: deliver the experience people expect from an Eagle.  Leather. Fetish. Kink. Presence. Attitude. A place where men can show up exactly as they are.
Eagle Medellín is split into multiple zones, each with its own vibe:
Front mezzanine: an open-air second floor level overlooking the main street that is more chill and social.
Main floor: the main dance floor, the main bar, and a dedicated VIP zone.
Second floor play area: our full cruising space with its own bar. Yes, we’ll have tires, chains, structure pieces, and all the atmosphere you expect.
Back upstairs patio: an outdoor smoking and hangout area.
The entire concept blends sexuality and music into one continuous experience.
Alongside local and international DJs, we’ll feature:
Hombres del Águila (Men of the Eagle): dancers who embody the look, attitude, and energy of the Eagle brand
Guest porn stars
Rotating performers and themed nights
We want Eagle Medellín to become a must-visit spot not just for locals, but for travelers, working guys, and anyone who values a space that’s kink-positive and judgment-free.
Our grand opening is next Friday evening. There is still a long list of things we’re racing to finish, but at this point I’m confident we’re opening. Some details/features may evolve as we settle in, but the doors will be open, the music will be loud, the drinks will be strong, and the energy will be exactly what an Eagle should feel like.
I’m incredibly excited about this project and what it means for the community. I know some of you pass through Medellín and Colombia. If you do, I hope you’ll check out what we’re building.  This is something I’ve put a lot of blood, sweat, and tears into, and I hope it will live up to the high expectations of the iconic Eagle legacy.
For transparency...  I'm one of four owners who share an equal stake in the venture.  When I talk about "my" club, it's a venture with some of my closest friends.  We're all committed to making this an area that will be a destination for those who enjoy what an Eagle is all about.  
I'll toss out the social media links in case anyone is interested.  And before anyone asks... yes, I checked with the site owners here to make sure he was cool with this spamvertising! 🤪.  I also checked to make sure it was OK with me posting this in the Lounge instead of The Americas for South America travel!  🙃
Eagle Medellín (@eaglemedellin) • Instagram photos and videos
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hi guys - thanks for everyone taking time to post about me. 😀 
Just to reply to @KensingtonHomo - when he first posted this comment someone reached out to me to tell me about it. I was shocked and felt so upset that someone walked away from time with me with that experience, as I couldn't recall it at all. I reached out to him to see what I could do to remedy this and he was kind of rude and snarky in his reply. It felt unfair that I could neither make amends, or defend myself to an anonymous poster so I decided it was best to just let it be. 
However I just recently discovered our communication and now I am able to remember him as well as his husband. Now that I have all the information, I feel a little differently. Let me try to give everyone some context, whilst still maintaining his confidentially and discretion, (two things which can be difficult to balance in order to give context, but I will do my best):
Kensington made clear requests for a firm, passionate and dominant style session. He expressed desires to be tied up and otherwise restrained, double penetrated, and described himself as 'bratty sub' who wanted to have his partner watch him be 'plowed'. He asked me to bring 'Dom energy' and 'take initiative' and that he wanted me to 'be running the show'. He also complained that he had been let down by previous providers who were unable to meet these expectations, and about how that bummed him out.
These requests guided how I approached the session, with an understanding that strong dominant style was specifically what was wanted. 
Whilst it should appear self evident, let me confirm that he is correct that any discomfort experienced was not intentional. At the time it was downplayed and he had explained this had happened to him in his personal life previously as well. I can say that as a bottom, the situation has happened to me before also - so I took him at his word. I am glad to read that he has since sort of softened the language of later posts to describe it as 'over enthusiasm' instead of 'overly aggressive', which I think is a more accurate term. To be clear, I didn't just jam it in and pound away like a jackhammer with no lube or care in the world for his comfort and pleasure or with agenda to make it painful. 
He has mentioned here and on other threads that they were charged full price with no discount for the hour. He is forgetting that he had already received a reduced rate as I serviced both him and his partner. For transparency, they both participated and were charged the equivalent of a single client session, rather than a higher couples rate - which at that time ended up being only $150 each, and they did both stay for the full appointment.
I regret that 2 years later you felt the session was not to your liking to the degree that you would be compelled to come on a public forum and warn people of danger, recklessness, injury and harm to deter them from seeing me. It feels unfair and disproportionate to the actual events. While I respect your right to share your perspective, I also want to ensure anyone reading this understands the full context. I believe it is important for prospective clients who do read this to understand that the approach I took to our session was directly based on the instructions you provided. My practice is built on listening to clients' needs, honoring confidentiality, and delivering professional service.  I will continue to do so moving forward. 
I wish you well. 
 

On the surface level, it doesn't seem like you're compatible. You want a particular experience that he seems incapable of delivering consistently.  Is there something outside of sex that keeps you coming back to him? 

Another reason to favor life-time pensions or annuities instead of lump sum investments.  I tell my partners:  My money runs out when I do.  My income is only coming in while I'm alive.

I realize you don't care, but this assumption is offensive. I have no interest in getting off via conversations in text or on the phone. My interactions are a means to an in-person end...with the right providor. You've made this accusation before, and your contempt for your clients is evident. I can see why you insist on a deposit in advance.

Not that I ever saw Patrick Bogan, but I remember his profile well. He used to work with Jamie Ansaloni who I saw several times. 

As the person who founded this event some 20 years ago, I would like to express an opinion. We recently lauded @Oliver for reaching the age of 90, and it was an opportunity for us to show our respect and affection for him. It is with that respect and affection that I suggest he turn the next Weekend over to someone else. Oliver can attend without any responsibilities and simply enjoy himself. @purplekow  has expressed an interest in handling the next event and did a good job of ascertaining how much interest there is in the next one. A lot, it seems.
If my suggestion doesn't go over well with Oliver, then perhaps he can make it a joint project with purplekow, who is based in Palm Springs. Many people will invest time and money in making it to Palm Springs, and we all want the event to go without any problems. Having two people working together ensures continuity.
There, that's my opinion.

I think he was annoyed that you were messaging him just to say basically Hi I hope I can hire you sometime. I think it's best to wait to reach out when there is a true intent to book a session.