EastbayMike

I nominate you. Be sure to report back to the rest of us. 

I nominate you. Be sure to report back to the rest of us. 

Whenever I see a provider state “Negative” instead of “Negative on PReP,” that’s a clear indication to me that while he may have tested negative at some point in his life, he is not on PReP. I also assume, just to be somewhat sensible and realistic about it, that all providers may be positive and not necessarily honest about it, and I base my actions and behavior on the most clear headed thinking I can muster. My two cents. 

Those are purposeful acts and adaptations that someone chose to perform and implement: 
One’s uncircumcised penis is something that they are born with. And one’s circumcised penis is something that they more than likely did not choose. 
This is why using pejorative terms to the latter is considered offensive and inappropriate. 
You don’t have to like it, but you don’t need to verbally describe your disgust for it in an insulting manner either. 
 

Can’t people just enjoy… men? Really? Latino circumcised bottom sounds a bit too specific for me. Since it’s sooo hard to find them, I guess it tells you what the problem really is

Do tell: How is asking a service provider who deals with the public why he charges different rates—which are publicly posted, incidentally, in client reviews that he likely solicited—“invasive”?

Let’s see who needs this more, Jarrod or Trick
Jarrod:  Has been insisting on requiring deposits for sessions for years, but still always complains about flakes and time wasters.  Deposits haven’t solved his problem with flakes.  Always unhappy with his escorting experience.
 
Trick:  Has NEVER sent a deposit for years; has met the likes of Tristan Baldwin, Mike Gaite, Cade Maddox, and lots of other well-reviewed providers who don’t require deposits. Very happy with his hiring experience.
 
Who needs it more?

I won't pay a deposit to a provider I've never met in person. If a deposit is requested, I'll just move on to another provider.
It's more than fair to ask for a deposit given the challenges a provider faces. Those providers, however, just aren't for me. Am I missing out on a great provider because of that decision? Yes. And I'm okay with that because I'll always be able to hire a provider without paying a thing in advance.

My point is, I don’t care about the employees’ circumstances when picking a business. I find the business that suits me.
When hiring an escort, I don’t care about his circumstances, his hotel bills, or gas expenses.  I hire him to provide a service, I pay him at the rate he sets and I never haggle. It’s not my responsibility to keep flakes from ruining his business.  My responsibility is to be a good client and not be a flake. But I will NEVER send a deposit. 
 
 

Henry Ford didn't say "colour", he said "color". 😉
Ford's limitations on color only lasted from 1914 to 1926.  Before 1914, red was the most popular color of Ford automobiles.  In 1926 Ford began offering automobiles in various colors to meet consumer demand with an improved painting process.
I learned to drive on a blue Ford Taurus.  No, my family did not pay an advanced deposit before arriving at the automobile dealership.

The only solution for me is NOT TO GIVE ANYTHING UPFRONT.  It’s working for me and the providers I like.  Period.

I’ll just remind you that I’m the client here.  So I do what I like.  Why would I consider the other side when I’m happy with the side I’m on.  I don’t care about provider’s circumstances, that’s their problem.  I’ll pick the providers who run their business in the way that benefits me.

I would add the tattooed bra straps and garter belts as a huge negative.

For some reason, it's very hot to me.
Thanks in advance.

Definitely a turnoff.

Here's what Conan said about Jay_Zeus 
"Very handsome, I need deep drilling from him... anyone knows does he offer more than standard massage? 😃😍"

"Very disappointed because he was not careful i was prepared. I enjoyed it but not worth what I got after. It’s a long story and have spoken to others because he was recommended althogug i was told to be cautious and didnt listed -"
 
What does that even mean "he was not careful but I was prepared" - prepared for what?    
You guys are amazing - one mention of a totally vague "I caught something from him" post and everyone goes in for the kill.   No details about what the socalled "Client" caught - covid?  cold?  STD? - and everyone jumps of the bandwagon of "don't see him...he's bad" - but a real client with a recent experience is totally not taken into account.   SAD.

Never mind. Quoted me $400. I know some of you would pay it but that's over my limit. 

Never mind. Quoted me $400. I know some of you would pay it but that's over my limit. 

Findom? No thanks. Although he tasty.

The finger tattoos are also another turnoff.

Tattoos of any kind are a turn-off.

Thanks for the clarification. I wasn't getting at his looks, rather the fact that he's a liar. Why would anyone trust him or hire him?

Thanks for the clarification. I wasn't getting at his looks, rather the fact that he's a liar. Why would anyone trust him or hire him?

Thanks for the clarification. I wasn't getting at his looks, rather the fact that he's a liar. Why would anyone trust him or hire him?