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Walk ins?  Or appt. necessary?

Went yesterday.  Place is a little dated and run down but that is the only negative I had.  My masseur was friendly and already had a client, so I asked to use the shower and did.  Had to wait only about 10 minutes for him in the room.  Got to say the massage was great, really complete.  Very satisfied!  Will repeat. 

I agree. He is hot, but things always seem to go the same way (like the way he folds the towel into smaller and smaller squares, etc)...
 
I’m a fan of these Czech Massage videos: https://www.xvideos.com/video25734037/02
 
This one has silly acting and little massage, but I think it works somehow: https://www.xvideos.com/video31676849/rb_-_scotty_marx_and_jordan_levine_-_requested_by_member_-_pornhub.com

A perspective from someone who first bottomed just after his 18th birthday and has been mostly a bottom since then:
It's mostly mental.  Does the dick feel good inside?  To me, yes.  It's difficult to describe what the actual physical sensation is like.  As I think about it, most words to describe it just don't quite convey the sensation.  Pressure.  Fullness.  Definitely the incredible feeling of pleasure if someone is able to stimulate my prostate, but that doesn't always happen.  I think for me the main pleasure is the sense of connection.  I just enjoy having someone inside of me.
I've never understood the discussions about how it takes time to "train" oneself to like it.  Or that it takes an incredible amount of lube.  My first time bottoming (with my first real boyfriend when we were both 18), we didn't have any lubricant other than spit but we both wanted to try it so we did.  I enjoyed it.  A lot of the time he fucked me after that, we didn't use lube.  I was just hot for him and had no problem relaxing and letting him in.  Surely since then I've had partners where lube was required, particularly when using condoms because that changes the feeling of friction for the bottom.  And guys with very large cocks definitely need to have skill in terms of knowing how to enter at the right speed.  Attempt to thrust too fast too soon and I will feel pain, not pleasure.  With the right foreplay, though, even a big dick can enter me with me feeling like I'm finally getting what I've been waiting for.  A rush of pleasure, with me thinking, "ahhhhh."

I have never felt good with any dildo, regardless of price/size/realness etc. I even tried the ones with self-warming function and artificial skin that supposed to feel like real. Nope, not the same. Self-administered friction adds to this awkward feelings.
The real dick feels better because it's hard and flexible at the same time, warm and smooth. Silicone creates more friction (regardless how smooth it is + lube) and it gives this artificial sensation. Plus, real dick is attached to a living, breathing, passionate person. That means more that dick itself! Waaaay more.
Go for the real thing. Start with average size (or average+) and work your way up. Don't go for monster dick as a novice. It can end up NOT the way you imagined and it'll ruin your anticipations/expectations. I noticed, you just need to find the right dick for YOU. It's hard to explain but you'll feel it that it's just the right size.
As of the feeling... it feels awesome! Absolutely f...ing awesome! There's no comparing with anything else. I have much stronger mind-blowing orgasms when I bottom. I also feel "fulfilled" in both meanings of that word 😝 (I know, sounds silly). This warm feeling, I'm in the clouds and I don't want it to stop. Ever. Or... I can take a break and go in again.
You should try.

It's not a weird question, but it's very hard to give anything more than a general answer.  It's highly dependent on the guy who is topping you.  Skill, in my experience, is more important than size, but a big guy is going to feel a lot different than an average guy.
You've taken dildos before, so penetration isn't going to be new for you, but a real cock does feel different because flesh can flex and squeeze in ways silicone won't. 
The best advice is find a guy who you can trust to be your first, it's important for him to be patient and responsive to you when he pushes in.  Use plenty of lube and take it slow.  It is probably going to hurt at first since you're inexperienced, but a good top will let you get used to him inside you before he starts thrusting.
Size is mostly going to affect how "full" you feel.  Guys with longer cocks can actually feel better since they're less likely to accidently pull out all the way and re-enter unexpectedly (that can hurt).  Guys with thicker cocks may be a bigger challenge, even if they're not particularly long.  If they're curved they can feel different than a guy with a straight cock, just because they may hit your prostate differently.  
You should probably give more thought to who would be your first top.  It's probably best to avoid a first time hookup, find someone who you can take your time with.  

Hi NYCboi,
There's some dildos that have a more realistic feeling, although they are, in most cases, expensive. Nevertheless, I recommend always to use condoms with dildos & with a real penis also use condoms. If you practice, I would use a realistic size dildo. In my opinion it's better to throw all plugs & unrealistic large dildos. As a top (I was versaltile until some years ago) I beg you to don't ruin your butt with large toys. 
A good penis is hard, not soft. A good erection has to be as hard as a dildo. If you put your realistic dildo in warm water (not too hot) you should have to get the same feeling. The difference between a dildo an a real penis is the guy, the way you feel his body & only when you're on PrEP or in a safe relationship, feel is cum inside you. All the good stuff in the sperm get in your blood stream & some guys say they can feel that.

I have two regulars that I engage with pretty often that are unpaid. I’ve written about the straight 21 year old kid who’s virginity I took underwhelmingly. We’ve been hanging out regularly since then. It’s always the same. He comes over. Sucks my dick. Swallows a load and goes home. It’s not exciting or spontaneous, but it’s nice. He identifies as straight. Last time he was over, he mentioned that he wanted to suck two dicks at once. 
 
My other buddy is into every kink and fetish you can think of. We explore everything together. Toys, choking, objects in every orifice, groups, pool and hot tub sex you name it. He’s a once in a lifetime sex partner that we just have that chemistry and open attitude that leaves so much room for exploration and pleasure. 
 
He was over tonight and I told him about the other boy and what he wanted to do. He said have him come over. I texted the younger guy and he said he’d be right over. We had poppers lube toys harnesses scattered all over the bed and nasty porn playing on the big screen. My buddy also had hardened candle wax dried to his back. It was a scene. 
 
So the 21 year old walks in and is immediately in shock. He goes “what is all this?” We giggle a bit, clear the bed, and lay together so he can suck us both off at once. He starts to go down on us, and then I notice his eyes lighting up. He stops, looks at the toys and goes what are all these?  We do a little lesson, he’s curious but not ready to partake. He does ask if we’d go down on him at once. We do. He hangs his head off the bed and won’t make eye contact with us but is loving it. 
 
My buddy says to him. What do you want to see us do?  The kid got flabbergasted and couldn’t put a sentence together.  After some coaxing,  he settled on asking me to fuck my buddy while the kid sucked his dick. We obliged. All the while, the kid’s phone is going nuts. Calls, texts, beeps, vibrating on the dresser, all of it. We’re trying to ignore it but it keeps happening. He tells us to just ignore it, but won’t silence it. 
 
After 20 minutes of this I said dude, I think there’s an emergency. He said no, it’s my girlfriend, we share location and she knows I’m here but doesn’t recognize the address. She’s a jealous Latina. 
 
I said is she gunna show up at my house? 
 
He said no. 
 
She continues calling. 
 
I said you have to pick up. I don’t need her at my house. 
 
So he answers the phone. She says where are you. He says I’m at my coke dealers trying to score. 
 
I bust out laughing. She says he better bring some over to her. I hardcore don’t do drugs except occasionally hallucinogenics. I have no coke in my house. He said I need something or she’ll kill me. So the best we could come up with is Metamucil in a ziploc bag lol
He texts her a pic of our “drugs” and she says she’s tired and going to bed, but that they’ll party tomorrow when he goes to see her.
We go back to playing around. He swallows my buddies load and ate my load out of his ass. We cracked his sexual world view wide open. 

 

The masseurs that came into the room also seemed rushed like it was a cattle call. I will say that the whole set up didn’t feel like a place of relaxation or wellness. I remember the room lighting was pink (or were the walls pink?).  The reception area was pretty bare with no decor that emulated a spa experience. Just a table, phone and minimal desk accessories. I wonder if they had just opened and trying to get organized?  This has been driving me crazy for the past 6 years. If I had known that it was going to be a rotational introduction process, I would happily go back again. I would just feel terrible having to reject people. 

The code is "knock, knock." The other party says "who's there."
The correct line to follow is glory. The other party responds "Glory who?"
You say "It's not glory who, it's glory hole!"

had to look this up:  ABS is adult bookstore for those also wondering....
here's another story (safe link - I didn't want to clog up space):  https://www.reddit.com/r/gaystoriesgonewild/comments/e8cw3c/3_hours_at_the_abs_glory_hole/
 

Oh man, I remember places like this in the Wild West days of Times Square Pre-Disney.
 
There was a place right in the corner of 8th and 42nd which had booths with about 10” x 10” windows surrounding a large room in which there were various ladies in various stages of undress. The window opened at just below eye-level and I got more than a few $10 handies there.
 
They did not tell me about that in KS!
 
Oh man, the booths in the regular porn shops on TS back in the day were open for everything. As long as you put money in the slot, you could keep going at whatever. Women, men and transwomen were available. I remember getting blown by what I thought was a lady when she said, “Oh your dick is so nice. Not as big as mine but so nice!”

I massage naked, it’s more natural. I’d be naked 24/7 if it was possible!!
Some clients like me to start the massage in shorts or a jock. I think that works nicely too. I don’t wear anything on my torso. There’s three main reasons and benefits to do the massage naked: 1) body contact is better done naked. I mount the table and in parts of the massage I use my whole body, so nudity is necessary. 2) the oil tends to ruin clothes. Even if you’re careful it gets on clothes and stains them. So it’s simply easier to be naked. 3) some clients like to interact and touch me as I massage them, so they prefer me naked or in a jock that can be removed at some point. 
Of course this is all in a sensual massage environment. Delivering a therapeutic non sensual non erotic massage I wear shorts and t shirt.