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I find the idea of twins/lovers incredibly hot...kind of like fucking yourself...the ultimate masturbation. I have definitely jerked off to the Peters twins more than once. Some decades ago, I had a BF who was an identical twin. He said that when they were teenagers his "straight" twin would come back from dates horny and fuck him silly. Fast forward to today and the brother is fat and sloppy, thrice married to women, and my friend is still one hot fuck...I know, we tried it again recently for old time's sake.

Medical procedures in the USA are the most expensive in the world. I had a friend who has had several face lifts in Mexico...but not worth the discount, IMO. I know a couple of people who get their dental work done in Mexico and are happy with it. I also have a friend who had a nose job and some other work done in Seoul a few years ago...excellent results, a fraction of the cost here. It was a high-end luxury clinic...but with Korean prices not American.

I had my eyes done in my mid 40s and the result was dramatic then, and thirty years later I still look "good for my age." I got botox for a few years afterwards, and that helped too. If I had it to do over again I would continue getting touch-ups as I aged, but a dramatic change today would look obvious and silly.

Maybe around 70 I found that I was losing body hair. I never had a lot...one of my first boyfriends used to amuse himself with us lying in bed and he counting my chest hairs. But now I have no chest hair, no armpit hair, and less pubic hair than I once had. My doctor says my testosterone levels are fine, but clearly a switch has gone off somewhere.

I really have found that the "use it or lose it" is true. My pattern is an orgasm a week...with one of my hot young boys, or my right hand...keeps me horny. If I go longer than that, it's a bit "out of sight out of mind." A far cry from the orgies or cluster fucks of my youth, but still delightfully pleasurable.

I have had 3 prostate organisms in 50+ years of getting fucked. Nothing special about the top. But there experience? Exquisite. Rare. Memorable, even though forty or more years ago.

I get Sildenafil 20mg. tablets, 24 for $6.62, from Kaiser pharmacy, 27.5¢ each. Recommended dosage: 3. Glad I take them. I imagine my massage boys are glad I take them also.

One of my first boyfriends had one undeveloped ball. When he was a youth, he got some kind of infection, one testicle blew up like a baseball, and then never grew with the rest of his body. Didn't make any difference...he was the one who taught me lots of what a 20-yr old needed to know about man sex.

I used to go to a sex club that had a vacuum pump room, where there would be a group of guys who brought their pumps and went at it. I never tried a pump on myself but I played with plenty of pumped up cocks. The pumps definitely enlarged the cocks a lot, but they looked and felt somewhat strange...somewhat spongey...huge and erect, but not rock hard on the outside. It's like the rock hard cock was lurking inside a soft outer layer that had expanded due to the vacuum.

My first erotic massage was my first massage period. I was in my early 20's, living in Iran, and visiting with straight American buddies. In those days (1960s) most people went to the public baths, even if they were upper class and had a bathroom at home. Part of the male bath ritual was a masseur scraping your skin with a stirgil and applying a depilatory to the typical hirsute Iranian man, and then an excellent massage. One of the buds went to the neighborhood bathhouse, and came back ranting and raving that, while lying on his stomach, the masseur stretched his arm behind him and closed his hand around the masseur's erect cock ("and it was a fucking little cock."). When Iranian men went to the bathhouse, they wrapped their loins tightly in a long towel made for the purpose, kind of like a diaper, keeping the family jewels out of bounds. When this masseur walked in on the naked (as we would expect) American, he knew what all Iranian men knew, that this was a signal that sex was desired. While my buddy was horrified, I immediately knew what I wanted and how to get it, and as soon as it was politic, took my leave and headed to the bathhouse. I laid face down on the table, naked, and before I left, got fucked by the masseur. In those days a massage was 25¢, and a fuck another 25¢ tip. You can be sure I enjoyed many a bathhouse dalliance for the next couple of years that I was there. I noted that all Iranian men knew this was the deal, and fathers always accompanied their teenage sons to their weekly bathhouse ritual, to be sure there weren't any extras. Not that the teenage sons were't doing each other...girls were essentially locked away in purdah...and what's a guy to do? Despite the reputation that homosexuality was strictly forbidden, like all things that are forbidden, it just means that no one is regulating them since they don't exist, and in fact they are rampant. When in 2007, then-Iranian President Ahmadinejad said in NYC "In Iran, we do not have homosexuals like in your country", all of my gay friends who had lived there were rolling in the aisles laughing. Of course, many of the guys were "situational homosexuals" who only had sex with men until they married a woman. However, there were also plenty of gay guys who were gay, if closeted to one degree or another, and definitely were lifelong adherents to cock.

It really has to do with the skill of the top. I generally prefer smaller, but recently I got fucked by the biggest cock I have ever taken, and it was bliss. We played awhile and got us both ready. He knew the right angle. He went in ever so gradually. And then, wham, bam, I screamed for more. On the other hand, I have had small cocks be very uncomfortable because he hadn't prepared me, the angle was wrong, and the entry was to fast. Try and pick them for their skill, not their size, but learn to enjoy all sizes and shapes. It's the greatest feeling on earth.

I have two boys I regularly see for services. Before and after appointments we always send "really looking forward to it" and "that was really great" texts. We always send each other holiday greetings, give occasional token gifts, discuss real-life issues. While the relationships are at the most basic level transactional, there is an additional level that makes our time together personal experiences.

I have been in Bangkok...it was like RentMen or RentMasseur except you are choosing the real thing in the flesh, just not a photo that may or may not be accurate or recent. And I picked the fuck of my dreams and spent a week together. I'd go in a flash if it were available here.

I also want to say it's the skill more than the size. I have had small diameter cocks really hurt because the angle was wrong and jam into the sides of rectal canal. Cadence is also important...a little at a time, relax, the ring opens, go in more. I recently took the biggest cock (length and diameter) I've ever taken in fifty years of getting fucked and it was fantastic...a skilled escort who knew exactly what he was doing, went slow, and had me begging for more.

Yes same problem. You have to ESTABLISH A RENTMASSEUR ACCOUNT and after it has been accepted, LOG IN to RentMasseur site AND ALSO then use the email function on the RentMasseur site. If you just email them through the RentMasseur site without going through your account, you get the "no record of communication" rejection. They have told me that there has to be a record of communication through their site BEFORE the massage occurs, and not just after to tell the masseur you have reviewed him. It is a huge hassle but I know good masseurs appreciate a good review and the next time you get a massage they will remember and treat you accordingly.

My assumption is that if you’re advertising your feet, you are appealing to foot fetishists, just as if half your photos have your bare ass winking at the camera, you are appealing to tops.

One of the reasons I like Asian boys is that there is a good chance they’re not massive. No guarantees of course…every group has individuals who defy the stereotypes.

I have been to masseurs who do massage on a bed, which is fine as long as they have a head cradle, that fastens between the mattress and the box spring. The width of a massage table is more conducive to fondling the masseur. The bed is more conducive to, well, what one does in bed.

Adam, I love your lips. Love, love, love. I see those beautiful luscious lips and I just know they are made for kissing and sucking my cock. I can almost cum just looking at them. Enjoy them. Lots of other guys will.

Dinoseur is my go-to boy. Certified, licensed talented masseur. And as he says, every massage is theraputic, sensual, and erotic. Treat him well.

First it was emails. Now it is texting. These are mediums made to be succinct and fast. And very often they end up rude. A successful customer-facing business understands this and tries to train its employees accordingly. Masseurs and escorts tend to be young, tend not to have been trained in business etiquette, tend not to have an adult in the room supervising their customer communications. Like much in the modern world, courtesy is a casualty of rapid change and the pace of work. Providers take note. Your long term business prospects will be affected by how you treat your clients...and vice-versa. We are after all, human beings, not machines.

Bought a dozen eggs lately? Looked at your gas & electric bill? My Mani-Pedi has gone from $21 to $45 pre-Covid to today. Since pre-Covid, my favorite boys have about doubled for new clients, a little less for regulars. We were spoiled. From 2012 to 2021 the rate of inflation hovered between o% and 2%+. The US inflation rate in January 2023 was 6.5%. Those of us who are old enough remember when the US inflation rate was 13.55% in 1980. Be glad you're not in Turkey, where the January 2023 rate of inflation was 84.4%. It is just economics. Like everything else, cock finds its market clearing price.

I figure, you die with a million dollars in the bank, you lose. You die owing a million dollars, you win. I am happily but prudently spending down my portfolio. The one thing in life I am sure of is that I’m not going to take it with me. While I spend more on travel and boys than I did when I was younger and working, there are many expenses that are less…new suits, freshly laundered shirts every day, downtown lunches daily, commuting costs, etc. And while the stock market was in the long bull market I had more money at the end of the year than the beginning. Those days are over, but a young plaything now and then is nickels and dimes.

Gee I would have said countertenors are increasingly popular. Sorry you must live in the wrong city Unicorn. Come to the San Francisco Opera...in the 23/24 season Carlo Vistoli will be singing in The Revolution of Steve Jobs. Last year Albert Montenez did an online program on countertenors, and we heard Jakub Orlinski in La Traviata and in Orfeo and Euridice. In recent years we have heard a lot of Arieh Nussbaum Cohen (Orlando, and many other programs with other companies). I can also remember Logan Tanner, and back a few years, Roth Costanzo in Partentope. Arieh, for one, I wouldn't mind inspecting his balls.

Having visited Rochester many times, the story is mixed. Rochester is noted for its openness and and Universities that have been at the forefront of gay acceptance. That being said, it ain't Castro Street. I have found the baths mixed, the bookstores even less so, and the parks sometimes pretty good. Check Grindr and Sniffies. Rentmasseur and Rentmen look uninspiring. There is or was a Rochester Jacks that was great, although I have not looked for it in years. Toronto is not so far away, and so much more cosmopolitan in every way. Let us know how you do.