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He’d have to pay me $1000 for 90 minutes.

Yes. Mr. Number. Discussed here. Search Mr Number 

Not true. No one has ever discussed a tip with me. 

Same for me….

Not true. No one has ever discussed a tip with me. 

just do it... and enjoy it

You're not on prep and you called someone else a dumbass?

Everyone here should preach and do as they see fit. But you know you're totally living in an alternate universe right? Like those preachers on the subway platform wailing at the top of their lungs. They may not be wrong but they're living in somewhat of an alternate universe just as I propose the theme here compared to the lives of 98% of gay men. And in 2026 thank god they're not dropping like flies. 

You evidently don’t fully understand the dynamics involved in being a bottom and what constitutes sexual desire and what satisfies or quenches the thirst for close physical connection expressed in anal intercourse.

Why am I not surprised by your assessment?

I've never had a bad experience but shout out to Andoni as consistently one of the best. 

I didn’t know that 8 comments on a person constituted a critical mass. Gee. I thought more input was better. Silly me. 

Reading this thread, I feel like I've entered into a time capsule with posters living in a time warp in which it's about 1991

Reading this thread, I feel like I've entered into a time capsule with posters living in a time warp in which it's about 1991

As others have said, in this day and age, BB is default! 

Sorry that happened. Not sure why that's weird. Honestly, this is the year 2026. The 90s are long gone. Condoms are an option for people to wear if they choose, and many choose not to use them. The 90s mentality about it should stay in the 90s. I also remember that in the 90s there was a lot of negotiating safer sex and conversations about condoms before having any. A conversation about it like we used to back then would have avoided the weird interaction. Seems like that part of the 90s didn't make it to 2026.
A 20-something Bel Ami - looking guy was not alive in the 90s, so it's not realistic for him to magically get where you come from about condom use.  That should have been a discussion. RM even has a section where providers state their preferences around condom use and safer sex practices.

From his vids it’s clear he’s into edging which I’m also into. 

He’s not my type at all as I don’t like hairy and corpulent types. That said he gave me a great massage and I asked for edging and it was a MEMORABLE experience. Even at that over the top (pun intended) rate I considered it worth it and wanted to repeat. But it was not in the cards as—despite two separate attempts on my part to repeat—he said he just doesn’t like doing erotic massages. 

ANCIENT photos.
 

I can’t get him to reply to my inquiries. 

I agree, that the illusion should be professionally maintained within the confines of a session. But if you're busy stalking an escort's personal life and you're sad to discover he doesn't actually crave the company of old, fat men, thats on you. NOT his fault.

What breaks that illusion is the client's inability to separate his fantasies from reality. 
Under no circumstances have I ever fucked a five-star escort  had him cum buckets and tell me I'm a "hot daddy"..then left that encounter actually believing he thought I was such a hot fuck that he was really into me and wouldn't have wanted to be paid if we had only just met on Grindr, instead. 
The reality check is on YOU, the client, not the provider. 
I am well aware that five-star-fucks are seeking other five-star-fucks in their spare time.

Seems like a little from column A / a little from column B.
Its a perfectly reasonable topic to be curious about....but yeah it reads as though that hurt a bit.
To answer the question of how people feel about this....MY feeling is that someone who is fucking a lot of old fat gays for work, is definitley NOT interested in doing the same in his spare time.
Yes, hes selling a fantasy and listening to those words brings a reality check moment really to the front. But in general, the business is always about fantasy and the client needs to accept that and not be upset when he's confronted with the fact that there is no Santa Claus. 

The naïveté and narcissism in this post is all consuming. Providers aren't supposed to have personal preferences? They aren't entitled to their own likes and dislikes in their personal life. Give me a break. The magical thinking and entitlement in this post is astounding and frankly nauseating. 

The naïveté and narcissism in this post is all consuming. Providers aren't supposed to have personal preferences? They aren't entitled to their own likes and dislikes in their personal life. Give me a break. The magical thinking and entitlement in this post is astounding and frankly nauseating.