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  1. 7 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

    Best to ask the provider that question.

    For some, it means penis to anal penetrative sex.  For others, it means a blowjob.  While for some masseurs, it means they'll massage your feet and scalp!  There really is no standard.

    But more often than not it means full on penetrative sex. But as above no universal definition. 

  2. On 9/28/2023 at 8:40 PM, ChasingGirth said:

    I trust your judgement as you met lots of guys. 

    But I heard the worst things about  him talking to other guys that met him via DM’s.

    Expensive $500, acting like a robot (just like in his videos), blank personality, dirty place (dirty bed), dick not as big and that he was using Trimix injections to get hard.

    Was he already hard the minute you met him?

    I don’t hold the trimix against him anymore than I’d hold using cialis against you as a hypothetical. If he has ED issues in glad trimix is available to him. 

  3. On 4/4/2024 at 6:13 AM, pubic_assistance said:

    Someone needs to  check the expiration date on this one. I think he's way past his shelf life .

    That and the criminal legal history is a problem for me. 

  4. 3 hours ago, d.anders said:

    I don't expect anything from gay massage ads.

    I have never been blocked. No one stopped responding. The issue is first-time emails being ignored.

    I don't use rentmen.com to inquire about massage.

    Then you should be in good shape. Enjoy!

  5. Of course there’s always the exception but to expect it is unrealistic. Why you got either blocked or the guy stopped responding to you. I’d estimate 97%+ don’t have licenses. People with licenses don’t go on rentmen. 

  6. He’s not my type at all as I don’t like hairy and corpulent types. That said he gave me a great massage and I asked for edging and it was a MEMORABLE experience. Even at that over the top (pun intended) rate I considered it worth it and wanted to repeat. But it was not in the cards as—despite two separate attempts on my part to repeat—he said he just doesn’t like doing erotic massages. 

  7. 15 minutes ago, BaronArtz said:

    I nominate:

    Gingermuscleboy - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen

    His ass is round and plump, yet firm.  Perfectly groomed crack with a tight pink hole.  This guy works hard at staying in shape and enhancing his natural ass-ets.

    If you want to explore further before hiring, I recommend looking at his onlyfans and twitter profiles.

    This guy is an enthusiastic bottom, whom I have hired repeatedly pre-covid.

    @BaronArtzhow would I get his twitter handle or is it the same name?

  8. On 11/10/2023 at 11:33 AM, Simon Suraci said:

    Sorry for the cold shower on your hot fantasy, guys. I’m just trying to inject some realism into this discussion so you can develop appropriate expectations and also delight in the unexpected when it happens. Value your providers and pay them accordingly.

    Please keep in mind we are not cum machines. I completely understand the client fantasy of a massage scenario morphing into a porn set. That scenario assumes your appointment is the only thing on your masseur’s agenda for the day. However, it’s just that: a fantasy.

    I can’t deliver cum for a massage fee for every client that darkens my door. Some days that means I would have to get hard and ejaculate six times back to back. Never mind the fact that I may have a legit escort client I have to perform for on that same day. I just can’t do it consistently and still maintain quality or sufficiently pace myself.

    If you want your masseur to cum as part of your massage session, please ask for it and pay his escort rate, or at the very least, tip very generously when you fail to discuss an appropriate fee prior to starting the session and he does it for you anyway. If your guy is already way overcharging for massage (like, $200+/hr), it’s safe to assume these services are already baked into the cost and I wouldn’t worry about it.

    $160/hr or less I would assume nothing more than massage, and enjoy the possibility of some extras if he does them. Happy endings are very common and normal, but not guaranteed. Do not expect full service, oral, or your masseur to cum for you. Some guys might do these things for their regular massage fee, but please respect masseurs with boundaries around what they will do for their standard massage fee. Boundaries vary. Clients are not entitled to anything they didn’t already discuss with their masseur.

    I want my clients to understand the value of each of the services they hire and pay accordingly. Massage (even erotic massage) is NOT discount sex work. Blowing loads all over clients with no discussion of rates beforehand is, in my mind, asking the client to expect discount escort services.

    We can debate at length about what is and isn’t sex work and many other threads already hash it out. IMHO, having to deliver cum - in one way or another - is well within the sex work category. Others can charge whatever they want for it. If your guy can consistently cum for you for a massage fee, enjoy the discount service, but please do not place the same expectations on other masseurs.

    I can do six massages a day. I can’t possibly take six escort clients a day. So I charge higher for escort service and lower for massage. Scarcity over a given time period is among the many reasons I charge the way I do.

    Thanks for this. I’m so turned off by the marketing posts disguised as “genuine” impromptu posts. 

  9. 1 hour ago, Trick said:

    Are you trying to say he is past his prime?

    Depends on what each client wants. He’s not my cup of tea but a terrific guy. For another, no, not past his prime. To each, his own. 

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