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Don’t be embarrassed. The masseur wasn’t embarrassed or he wouldn’t have cleaned you up. It could be a sign of encouragement. Maybe next time say “sorry but I just find this exciting.”

I wasn’t suggesting touching my cock until he sprayed oil all over my cock, balls and pubes. Wouldn’t his action be harassment? Haha (Of course I liked it and was hoping that was a sign the fun was about to begin  then nothing).  

OTOH, how does one bring up happy ending with a masseur in a spa such as HK Men’s Spa? I would find it a bit awkward but maybe I’m being too bashful about it. 

I’m a gay guy in my 60’s—somewhat straight acting but 100% gay. Decided to go to HK Spa for a massage last week—my first time at that spa but not new to these type of spas. Made an appointment with a guy discussed here on the board who people recommended. 

The massage (60 minutes—only availability during my availability) was good but not too sensual. He got close to me in the beginning and I touched his thigh via his athletic wear. He avoided massaging my thighs so it wasn’t too sensual. I never got an erection. Toward the end he aimed the massage oil and squirted it toward my cock, balls and pubes but maybe because I never got hard never touched me there. Ended the massage with nothing sensual. It was the oddest thing. Did he expect me to begin to jerk myself off? I should add that in a massage when I am relaxed, I often don’t get hard unless a guy starts handling my cock. In the spa thread others have said he gave them a HE and a very sensual massage. 
Thoughts on this and what I might have done differently to have made it more sensual ending in a HE?

Thanks!

On 5/4/2024 at 10:26 AM, Strosj7 said:

Can second this. Had a massage with Cody and it was incredibly sensual and gave me some 50 shades of grey vibe in a good way. Left very happy

I had a massage from Cody today and nothing sensual nor a HE. My first time with him. What gives. 

28 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

Since I made my post yesterday, @MiamiDad1 has deleted the relevant posts that confirmed he was, in fact, HungMatt. In the linked 2020 thread, he replied to @T_dl explaining why he blocked him. In this current thread, Miami was posting about a fantastic meet with Matt. Unfortunately, all posts are now gone. Busted!!

Thanks for the great detective work!

3 hours ago, Nyctravelers said:

I was trying to say he gives a good “traditional” massage if that is a deciding factor for some. The extras are available but he gives a good massage regardless of the extras.

 

I see. Makes sense and thanks for the clarification. Good to know. 

43 minutes ago, musclestuduws said:

Sorry but I don’t understand what’s going on here. Did @MiamiDad1 delete his comments on this and the other thread? Are his reviews fake? 

Same. I don’t understand. 

5 minutes ago, Nyctravelers said:

I had an appointment with him. He gives a very good therapeutic massageand, as people said before, charges more to give the massage naked. He did provide a HE. He was also okay with touching. If that is what you are looking for, he is a good candidate for you, if you are hoping for more, I would say he is not.

If there’s MT and a HE, it’s not a “therapeutic” massage. 

4 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Yup. I finally blocked some of the worst offenders because they make being on here miserable. I really wish the moderators would take a heavier hand toward this toxic behavior. 

You’ve just given me an idea. Thanks. 

On 5/20/2024 at 5:17 PM, KensingtonHomo said:

Since you're a provider, I will take your word for your experience. I do not expect a provider to comment on my appearance. I'm just letting them know what I look like so when I buzz their apartment, they'll know it's me and not the Amazon delivery guy. 

Based on many regular posters here, your first concern about people assuming a complimentary provider is disingenuous seems very real. I'm not an ego maniac but I'm very confident that I am conventionally attractive. The second concern seems odd because I don't think someone genuinely complimenting a potential client is unprofessional. If a hairdresser said, "Wow, you have very thick hair", I'd think that was nice but also irrelevant. 

Regarding your third concern, I think the best response would be, "Thanks for sharing the photo; I look forward to meeting you." 

But it does seem that some people on here are convinced that you and other providers are disgusted by most of your clients. No provider can win over someone with that mindset. 

Completely agree. First, I could care less what the provider thinks. I certainly don’t need their validation. Second, any gushing of compliments in an email or text I’d take to be disingenuous. 

Anyone see him?

Texted me too. Said he was at Central Park Hotel. 

Not trying to be insulting to the OP, and with acknowledgment to the excellent points raised by the responders, the type of ignorance (SDT) and simple minded thinking (legalization) represented by the OP is all too common and frequent in the population and among men who hire escorts. Let’s not ignore this fact. 

Doesn’t bother me 

Cody is lucky he didn’t get the OP as a customer from the irrational rant above. Reflects more on the customer than Cody. Makes me want to book with Cody lol

55 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I don't agree. 

If you're not into bareback sex...then why should you care ? 

To be deaf and blind as a gay man in the age of HIV is pretty stunning. Your comment is as revealing as it is stunning. 

Old fashioned and out of date. Just sayin’

Mauricio is totally out of the picture in every way. Giovanni is now entirely in his own. 

On 11/2/2022 at 5:06 PM, TexasTop said:

Well, the "Safe Only" is a turn off. And sometimes the pretty boys are only pretty in their pictures.

I’ve found many put that solely as a marketing ploy who have no intent of using condoms unless certain clients request/require it. 

So then you repost the number so even more people can see it. Smart thinking. 🙄

I like the edging option. 

You’re hiring; you’re in charge. Take charge. “Woa! I cum very easily. Let’s slow down. I don’t wanna cum too soon.”

And some might be on an every two month injection. 

In 2024 , in the era of prep, this is still an issue?

Must be boring always going to the one trained and licensed guy on RM 😂😂😂