starman05

You have to walk away and not see the person; don't think that you can still see them if the crush is developing and you can control it. You can't. You can't control your feelings, but you can control if you reach out to see the person.
 
I wish I had the answer, but I think it just takes time for crushes to go away. It's not easy, that's for sure.

such a tough situation.
 
I knew a guy who fell for his massage therapist; I implored him to keep it professional and my friend would actually do that, but the more he did the therapist kept clouding things, giving my friend, as Debbie on Queer as Folk said about Brian and Michael, 'extra little tidbits of your affection - just enough so that he'll think maybe someday...'
 
It's a cruel thing to do to another person.

When a purse falls out ur mouth mine jumps back in my pants.

Just good?
 
Reminds me of that Will & Grace exchange when Grace asks Will how her outfit looks.
 
"Fine."
 
"Fine means good."
 
"It's good."
 
"Good means crap."
 
"Well, if fine means good and good means crap then does crap mean fine?"
 
(I think that's how it went.)

Ditto.

In this day and age of alternate facts, I assume everyone is positive for HIV, Gonorrhea and Hepatitis. As such, I proceed accordingly. Hence, I have no need to be informed of their status.

Ditto.

Ditto.

Ditto.

I assume everyone could be poz.

Russian. And his pics are OLD ... he has lost 20-30 pounds and is much less muscular. Without turning this into a review, my advice is avoid Alex, definitely do not waste your money or time. He definitely has someone handling his scheduling and texts as he speaks almost no English. If possible, he knows even less about massage or time. It was awkward trying to explain that that he only gave a 40-minute session when I requested 90 minutes ... and yet he wanted to be paid Rate for 60. Suffice to say he didn’t understand and his scheduler didn’t respond when I reached out via text about it.

Yes, sexy affectionate ambience is enough. more than enough. geez. just my type. 28. I remember when I thought that was getting old.

Trust your gut. It knows.

Sad day for this country. What new laws await us in the future to strip even more freedoms away?

All in all, I think this site is run very fairly. And if Daddy needs to seem a bit harsh at times, well, so be it.
 
Let’s also remember that tone does not always come through very well in typed messsages. So maybe sometimes the harshness is more perception than intention.

Yeah- it also says "We will always strive to treat each person with dignity and respect and without favoritism" and I believe many guys here would have an opinion on how well you guys are doing on that front.

Stop worrying. Just jump in the pool and swim - the water's warm!

I am wondering why all these masseurs that clearly are not trained and have no clue of what a massage is don’t attend some workshops or short courses on how to do a proper massage? Not asking for a full certification. Just some basic knowledge to be better at what they do. Aren’t they embarrassed of the mediocre massages they provide? I know we all like the extras, that’s why we are here, but some of them cannot even save the session with the extras.

You ask a wise and fair question. I think fratphysicals is onto something with his response. Which leads me to this suggestion: If we all were to stop hiring “masseurs” who have no training perhaps they would be inspired to learn a little. Then again, maybe not. I try to go to therapists who say they have some training and have skills that have been positively evaluated here.

Yeah. I’m not asking them to get a license. Just a simple workshop to have a clue on what they are doing. License takes thousand of hours of practice.

The two are not mutually exclusive.

We don't need to be surly about it! Is this Surly Scott Sloan or not? :eek:
 
TruHart1

Don't call me Shirley.
 
Kevin Slater

You will get many varied responses to this post.
Like you, I think I pay a premium for physical traits - great physique, beautiful face, etc. - but I have had some experiences where I Have been in a room with a Greek god I've hired - and I can't wait for him to leave.
So simply put, there's more than just the physical. That extra something will be different for everyone. Right now, I'm leaning more towards guys who are fit, attractive, reliable and respectful / and that combo is getting harder to find. That's why the Mike Gaites and Tristan Baldwins are few and far between.

Not before consulting my proctologist.