way back in the day I only sought out masseurs who advertised as legit and who wore t-shirts along with shorts and sweats. One guy even wore a suit in his ad.
I didn't want things to progress too far but I was yearning for physical touch. Invariably, guys would take it a lot further. I finally asked a provider 'I don't believe the therapists who say legit only. they're hardly ever legit!' He let out a chuckle and said, 'dude, you're kind of ...big. that's gonna happen.'