starman05

Thank god for this site. I need to mail in a cash donation 

3 hours ago, tchm said:

Do I risk being scammed, ripped off, and taken advantage of again? Umm, NO!!

I'm leaning more towards that direction myself these days. This guy wasn't on my list but there are others I'm just saying no to. 

Better to take the money and work out with a private trainer. It's company and my body's in better shape at the end. I get so effing lonely at times but being with someone and having a shitty experience makes it worse. I don't mean to single this guy out; he's probably just fine. 

I get a little suspicious when there's not even a hint of being a real, trained therapist -- no table in pix.

It falls under the too good to be true...

I've got a milestone b'day coming up; would love to treat myself to a BF experience but it's sooooo awful when you get your hopes up and they're dashed and crushed. 

Geez 

those arms!

Might not end happy but it might end well 

41 minutes ago, nycman said:

My gut is always right….. even when it’s not.

Trust your gut.

"even when it's not" -- that's a great way to put it! I feel the same way. 

All good advice; sometimes the least worst thing that can happen is I'm out some money and I live and learn. I try to post fair reviews to spare folks heartache.

Worst case scenario is you run into a bad dude, someone who gets off on hurting you and your safety is at risk. 

there's no way of course because they're all anonymous but I'm trying to weigh a several positive reviews on Rent Masseur's site vs. one or two negative/less than stellar on this site. 

Both could be fake or have an agenda 

I'm mulling over trying out two new masseurs. While one of them has good reviews (and the others none at all), I've read comments that are telling me to think with my big head, not my little one. 

I can easily lie to myself and ignore the signs to stay away from them, or try them out and live and learn, or try them out and be happily surprised. 

Has anyone ever tried someone they "shouldn't" have and been happily surprised? 

Bump

Hey… anyone have experience with Wehocmt?

hot hot hot Daddy type 

I think he also goes by Miles

TIA

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2k for a rape fantasy? 

Hard (no pun intended) PASS. 

I can be okay with therapeutic only. 

Are we sure he's outcall only? 

I see 'at Nick's studio' on his rate sheet. 

it's difficult to find someone who can fake intimacy for an hour; I'm not talking sex per se just an encounter where you can forget about the world for 60 minutes and feels safe and feel like the whole world doesn't suck.

5 hours ago, MakeMeCowboy said:

I've always been in some sort of sales business, and if I'm having an off-day, I don't schedule client-facing appointments. Of course, if I had the option of collecting my commission up front perhaps I'd keep the appointment! That shiny penny has lost its shine.

 you make an excellent point; a provider canceled on me one time saying he wasn't feeling 100% and he wanted to make sure I had a good time. I thanked him profusely for rescheduling even though I wanted to see him. 

1 hour ago, Hey_Jay said:

I actually wonder how a masseur does that close his old profile, create a new and kept all the reviews and why does he have to do that lol 

I'm thinking more about the 'why' than the how; dude has reviews like I've never seen before but a poster here shared he seems over it

Decisions, decisions 

something else has changed, too; now it's "Anttuane" - a subtle name spelling change; all his reviews remain. 

On 3/27/2024 at 1:26 PM, MakeMeCowboy said:

To begin with, he's not nearly as fit/cut.  Still sexy... he carries the extra weight well.

And, in my opinion, he's lost his enthusiasm for the business.  He had a hint of indifference and his execution was much more mechanical (including the sensual part.). He highly controlled even the most basic extras and used that time to discuss upcharges.  My take is that he's become a little full of himself.

oh bummer. I penciled him in as a birthday treat for myself. the reviews on this stud are glowing. MakeMeCowboy, do you think he could have just been having an off night?

Tho the upcharges thing during the massage (is that what happened?) is a major turnoff. 

Anybody gave any recent experiences? 
 

tia!

I mean...sure, it might 'sound' hot. That feeling when you are totally submissive to someone who's going to ravage you and make you feel 90% safe and 10% scared at the same exact moment. I can't describe it, but I was lucky to have it once or twice in my life. It's mind-blowing. 

Then again...it could go south in a bad way really fast and you feel 100% scared and you shut down, thinking what do I need to do to survive and then later you think oh, yeah. I have to pay this guy for hurting me. 

You'd have no one to blame but yourself if things got out of hand given the provider's title. 

I've asked guys at times if they know their own strength; some understand the question, some don't. 

1 hour ago, starman05 said:

6'5"? His height in the doorway indicates shorter 🤷‍♂️🤔

Mind u I'm not saying he is or isn't - just that I can't tell 

6'5"? His height in the doorway indicates shorter 🤷‍♂️🤔

Now he’s in Atlanta - visiting or…?

Any recommendations?

I posted in deli but am mostly looking for TLC 

tia 

6 minutes ago, nycman said:

Pics or it didn’t happen…..grin

Yes, longer hairs hurt more (not that much more), but they are easier to sugar/wax.

I think trimming prior to sugaring/waxing is a bit counter productive. 

Huh?