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And that gentlemen is how a quality provider addresses a bad review. It's a brief review of the facts from their perspective, a very short critique of the party that they feel wronged them, followed by description of their services, including why clients should be motivated to hire them. As an added bonus here, we even have a proposal to attempt to resolution with unhappy clients.

I certainly understand the difference between douching and wiping well. And I both practice and expect the thorough wipe! I attempted to make that distinction when I referred to "insides of assholes." While I questioned if some comments were referring to exterior, or interior, or both, once the topic of douching was definitively introduced, I thought my comment definitely had relevancy.

I saw him pre-pandemic. Good massage. Spent time before asking about the type of massage a client likes (stretching, nuru, Swedish, etc). Non rushed. Unlimited extras at the end. No upsell. YMMV, but I got the feeling this was standard fare for him. He was a little less beefy then, but never a 6 pack sort guy. If that's a priority, look elsewhere is my suggestion. I saw him while he was traveling, so I can't comment on his space.

Kudos to anyone here who exhibits non-precious behavior about anything!

I consider myself incredibly pragmatic. So: 1) I am very comfortable with the fact that the digestive system is one long tube, and whatever goes in the top comes out the bottom. 🤷🏻 2) While I may not want to injest shit, or have it over flowing everywhere, I recognized long ago that if my sexual proclivities included the insides of assholes, at some point, shit will be present. 🤷🏻 3) I learned long ago that sheets, towels, fingers, hands, and penises, along with many other things, are all washable. 🤷🏻 4) I couldn't imagine being in a relationship and having to have he conversation, "hey hon, I am horney. Could you go clean out so a few hours from now we can have sex?" 🤷🏻

If you are inclined to share a Netflix password, or watch Prime (and Freevee) commercial free, both things can be done with with a 1st Gen AppleTV. My assumption about why it works is that the tech is so old, companies aren't updating the devices. Both of the interfaces are a little old in terms of migrating around them, but if you have one laying in the junk drawer, and you have an open HDMI port...

Is the sibling still working? Are they getting any payments from Soc Sec? The Soc Sec Administration does have a Representative Payee program that I have seen benefit many people who simply can't manage money and live within their means. It's not JUST for people who are poor either. I have known people, with very healthy retirement incomes, who lead a much better life now that a Payee pays their bills. Once the bills are paid, then they got a weekly cash stipend, or prepaid credit cards for their incedentals. Hell, I have one friend with a husband who is so bad with money, the husband gets the GAS only gift cards from the gas station. Social Security Administration - Representative Payee Program WWW.SSA.GOV FAQs for representative payees.

I would be fine not sharing my password, IF I were paying a fee to stream on 1 device at a time. Since I am paying to stream on 2 devices at a time, it shouldn't matter if that 2nd device is in my house or 20 miles down the road.

I've always taken the stellar reviews on rentmen, especially in a huge volume, with a grain of salt. I say that mainly because there are established providers who I continue to see (some in Denver) who have been on the site for 15-20 years and have only 15-20 reviews. At best, that's an avg of 1.3 per year. That provider may have had only 1 review the first year. Solely based upon the numbers, it may be a bad bet. However, when I consider that I had a great session, never left a review there, and other members here have given a great review, it really challenges the amount faith I can put in the just those numbers.

He's not close to me and not my type. However, I am sure it doesn't really require knowing him as a competitor, or potential client, to assign the word rude. It really only requires the ability to read a rude and condescending monologue written by Ryan. Likewise, while I can't testify to his education, reading his writing allows me to assume he wasn't an English or hard science major. His poor grammar, punctuation, and logic skills don't support a degree in those fields from a good university.

@Wanderoz I think you may need to clarify your question. I read it as: Anybody have fun lately with any twink masseurs who also like to top their clients? Seems that @Vegas_Millennial read it as: Anybody have fun lately with any twink masseurs who also like to be topped by clients?

After reading the forum, I was curious about the "why's" of tipping being unappreciated / offensive / rejected in certain places. When I asked my Aunt, her response was that most Chinese people see it as a form of pity or charity. Like they are viewed as someone who can't take care of themselves and their family. And she added that there is a special level of cultural insult to be tipped by a westerner in China. @Italiano I am assuming you are Italian. Can you shed light on why Italian business owners are opposed to being tipped?

God I love that phrasing! It's simple, direct, and appropriate for all types of providers.

I believe he has an ad on friendlyboy too. https://friendboy.pro/boys/AdamXXXHot

The ad does still list sensual and erotic. When I hired him, he was pretty closed lipped in messages about what his massages included, and things that wouldn't be included. He was the same way in person before the session started. I, on the other hand, was not at all tight lipped about what I enjoy when I arrived in person. I assumed I was very much his type. I recieved a long session, a great price, it included everything I enjoyed, and it included things previously listed as "not included. " I definitely have the impression he is a YMMV provider.

I saw him once a few years back. Massage was pretty light touch. He was clothed. No MT. Cursory HE. I didn't go back.

That does not answer my question. I said want to deposit is made a provider always ends up with cash in their hand. You replied with "not always." I'm still waiting for for an explanation about how a provider doesn't end up with cash in their hand once a client makes a deposit.

Yes it does. You may not be able to dispute evidence based on "I don't recall," but the phrase can prevent you from affirming inculpatory evidence.

So, where is the "not always?"

"Had to?" Certainly some may have "chose to" as a quid pro quo with a prosecutor, but even the dimmest of witnesses can generally be trained to repeat 3 simple words: "I don't recall. "

But there is a guarantee for a provider to get cash with a deposit, right? If not, why would you ask for a deposit?

I had made a general statement about people hiring throughout life for a variety of reasons. You were the one who directly brought it back to youthful and in shape, yet again. there are none so blind as those who will not see [his own prejudices]

People hire providers for a variety of reasons at all stages of life. To assume that anyone has to hire a provider simply to have sex is misinformed.

To agree with @Monarchy79 it's important to actually pay attention to what he said, and what he didn't say. He made a distinction between scenarios where men seek dick and ass, and scenarios where men seek pussy. He didn't say only CLIENTS flake. The providers we're discussing here, as a general rule, are still falling into the first scenario. Therefore, it holds true that many of them are just as likely to flake because something better comes along - more money, hotter client, multi-hour appt, etc. And really the heart of the matter is that only a provider is likely garaunteed a bennifit when a deposit is sent. A provider gets at least some money when a client flakes or lies. If a client pays a deposit they aren't guaranteed anything. No garauntee that the provider reserved a slot, the provider was honest with pics and stats, the provider is sober, the provider can/will do the planned activities, etc. I suppose we can say a client is guaranteed a hassle if they use a service that allows them to dispute the charge.

That seems a perfect illustration of the point regarding individualized experiences not transferring to everyone. Based on what you have said it seems that the phrase is likely true of the people you know and hang out with. And that is not a slam against you or them. While I certainly don't doubt those people exist, I can't say I know any, or know any well. Everyone I know, would likely fall into handsome = someone I'd fuck for free. However, fucking a second time for free, let alone date, requires more! Beauty is divisible by MANY things.