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  1. I actually don't have an issue with providers saying that they don't do drugs.  But a provider statement about naturally born men just comes across as negative or a turn-off given the current anti-trans environment going on today that borders on hysteria to me.  Of course, I am not sure why this statement would be made, but I wonder how many transmen would be answering his ad anyway.  It just reminds me bad occurrences of US history with regards to race and gays, but I don't think we need to go into it any further here.

  2. I sometimes get uncomfortable if a provider does that because it reminds me of the old personal ad days, but maybe I am overreacting.  Thoughts?

    Example that probably okay but seems to be yelling or emphatic about it:

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    RENT.MEN

    View my profile on Rent.Men

     

    But I am not sure about this....

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    RENT.MEN

    View my profile on Rent.Men

     

  3. 13 hours ago, Jaroslav said:

    Race (age, wealth, education, weight, etc) should be immaterial since rate is allegedly strictly for time. 

    The profiles of the clients willing to pay is the major factor.  They generate the demand.  So, race, along with age, weight, and other factors that influence perceived 'desirability', are material based on client's desires and their profile (wealth, age, race, etc.).  

  4. On 4/6/2023 at 7:09 PM, robear said:

    No specific recs, but I think if you filter the sites by age, say 40 or 45+, and select and communicate carefully, you'll get guys who are experienced in that kind of role.

    Based in SF and AFAIK no current plans to be in NYC, you might want to watch for a visit by

    WWW.ALLENSI.COM

    Allen S.I. Sacred Intimate

    one of the original "daddy" stars of the silver screen, he still sees clients and is a wonderful man to spend time with.

    He is coming to DC, April 28 - May 2 according to his website.  I've never been with him but he does seem sexy as hell and what you may be looking for.

  5. On 4/10/2023 at 7:08 AM, Mrprofessional said:

    I’m not sure that list works in NYC. 200 seems the starting point for an “exotic” massage. Apart from the price expectation, it’s a great list!  
     

    In my perfect world, he’s someone who also comfortably moves in and out of escort territory easily. 😈

    I would think the list should work even for NYC as the list is more geared towards a sensual massage even with touching.  It says that if the chemistry is there than it can become more 'exotic' based on both the provider and the client enjoying the experience.   I would guess that the client would want several sessions with the provider (I certainly would), so it would still be profitable for the provider and I would think that the provider would not feel cheated as he would be enjoying the experience as well.  

  6. 50 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

    Does anyone think that if escorting was legalized in the U.S., problems like this will go away, or at least be less of a factor?

    I don't think so.  It would maybe even get worse, at least for a while.   And I don't think it is merely a gay issue as I suspect that nonwhite women generally make less than white providers.  I'm not sure how people can talk about rates when they are not published on Rentmen, which is the only site I know of right now.  And even if a provider quotes a rate, can we assume that they get a lot of clients or more clients than a provider with a lower rate?  On RentMasseur, I've seen rates of some massage providers for $200 -250/hour or more and wonder if they are making out better than other providers with lower rates, as I did not think they were that more special/attractive or their ad was all that more enticing to pay their massage rate.   

  7. 3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

    Agreed

    We both understand we are sharing anecdotal evidence as opposed to scientific studies.

    What I have observed in the New York market and using RENT.MEN as my guide, I would say the majority of high priced  muscle-boy company are definitely Latino. There is certainly a light skinned population from Columbia, and Brazil showing up in NYC,  but I still see a majority of darker complexion mixes with Native and African. As far as the price of the lighter skinned fellows being more expensive than their dark skinned counterparts. I don't see that ...do you ?

    How are all of you finding the rates on Rentmen?  I though they used to publish rates for some providers, but I don't see them anymore.   I guess I have become a cheap old man - I have hard time wanting to pay more than $250-300 even though I have a much higher net worth than when I was younger and paying about the same amount....

  8. 24 minutes ago, lerbut23 said:

    Definitely a case of different strokes for different folks.  Johnnys / LeBoy has been around an awfully long time so it must appeal to a good many people.

    So Johnny's was the prior name of the strip club in FTL.  Did not know it had morphed to LeBoy but I do recall the Johnny's  dancers were all kind of young and thin also....

  9. 21 hours ago, tassojunior said:

    tips and extras. many of both.

    $20/song gets you alone and touching/feeling usually, ...not anything you want. I went with a friend from Secrets to Fairytale years ago a couple times for Adonis where he worked. came out of the curtain area once and told me the guy tipped him $200 to swallow his load. Said the guy earlier only tipped him $100 for that plus that guy's dick tasted awful. Anal is bigger tips. Stripping is also a good way to get OnlyFans subscribers. 

    wasn't it Brandon from Montreal at the last Adonis NY who had a line in the basement all night as my friend relayed (from the line)? as they get rare, good-looking guys often don't miss many songs. 

    it's sad so many of these strippers just don't make much because they're not that good-looking. 

     

    Well Johnsons FTL keeps the curtains to the private booths open now so I don't think you can do anal and probably not even oral.  One dance told me that he made $700 on a shift, but that was a Saturday night, so I would be surprised if they make more than $1000 even on a busy Sat or Friday.  Many dancers will give you their number and offer erotic massages and more at your place, which is probably better but of course you are talking at least $250 plus per hour and even more for anal.  Concerning Montreal vs FTL, it's a bit early in the season to go to Montreal.  Many of the Montreal dancers are probably still in Florida, especially south Florida.  

  10. Time to learn and move on from this bad experience.  I'm sure some of us on this site have hired providers that were so disappointing that we fell we wasted our money.  A no show that you paid for is certainly bad, but so is a provider that is disappointing, such as one that really have lied about skills, is in a big rush, becomes rude, etc.  

  11. Probably should not have made the deposit without looking more at their profile stats.  For example, their page says that they have 23 years of experience and there nearly 9,800 profile visits.  But I don't see any reviews for them on the site despite their years of experience.  You should leave a negative review if they do not reimburse you within the next week.

  12. Does anyone else know other websites besides RM that have listings?  Others mentioned escort hookups on apps like Grindr?  I recall there is also a UK website but cannot remember the name of it (SleepyBoy, perhaps?).  

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