ummmhhh.... yeahhhh..... i don't want to be seen as getting on any high horses here.... or come off as self-satisfied or smug, BUT.....
this is kind of problematic to me.
i live part of every year in southeast asia and my academic work is based on ethnographic work in bangkok and manila and i see in all too real terms the consequences of white people acting out their fantasies on asian people
i know this is in the FETISH category, but let me just say that actions (and words) have real consequences, even if done in the spirit of play.