Your Man in Arlington

The word "luxury" is an instant boner killer. Along with "luxury" brand apparel, etc... in the photos. Like anything posted on an internet forum, that's just me, though. 🤷‍♂️

Can also confirm; recently had an all around amazing experience plus he's genuinely good guy.

I saw him in DC he's very friendly had a lot of fun would recommend.

I saw him yesterday. The moment he open that door he greeted me with a kiss. He has a great smile to beginning and end. He did everything imaginable to please me. Put a lot effort to 110%. He a fantastic guy. I had a incredible time with him. He also great at conversation, he a sweetheart. I only wish I could seen him more times. I got addicted to him. He total professional and will not waste your time. Plus he was having some much fun and his verbal talking is hot. He become my number one guy. To me he totally the best. Never seen a guy go the lengths of depth to make guy feel great about themselves. I definitely recommend him. 

and that's how a true gentleman talks in the Spa about a masseur! 

This isn't The Deli section of CoM.

This isn't The Deli section of CoM.

This!
I've had therapists (<cough>I've now decided to apply those funds to something else that improves my mental health and is far more enjoyable<cough>) and personal trainers with whom I developed personal connections, and even though I was or are a "regular" with them I would never expect or want a "discount" for their services. I've even had to tell a personal trainer that they needed to raise their rate!
Now, I consistently tip preferred providers well, so that they know I really do appreciate their work and that they I take bookings with them seriously.

Competent therapeutic massage, end of session up-sell, older than current photos. Not a repeat for me.

Whilst this story doesn't stop me from sending (small) deposits, it re-enforces why I never play with providers who PARTY.  
People who use these types of drugs are not bad people, but it does tend to make them behave in a bad way. 
Unless you are specifically looking for a PARTY experience - don't go there, and certainly don't send the entire fee upfront. 
 
regardless, sorry this happened to you. 

"Some clients have undiagnosed autism or maybe they're just cranky because they bought a townhouse for peanuts and they never had to deal with roommates, etc."

Red flag for me: lists "PNP" under "I am into".

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Depending on how deep the reference is meant, quite a controversial choice for a profile handle!

It depends of the kind of guy you're attracted to, and what BFE means to you, but I had a nice laid back 2 hour BFE-in-my-book experience with JulianJesse last Spring.
Ooops! His profile is currently expired, but he may be on vacation and back in NYC soon? I would check again.

Depending on how deep the reference is meant, quite a controversial choice for a profile handle!

Tardiness. 

Dear god. Can we drop this subject? Let escorts ask for what they want. Some guys will shell it out; others won't. 
Based on my hiring in NYC, $1,000 is not the new rate. Most guys who are attractive, 25-35, fit but who don't have a porn past or big OF presence are in the $350-$500/hour range. 
I also hooked up with one of my favorite porn stars in LA last fall for $350. My sense is that he mostly films but likes to connect with the occasional fan. I would have paid more (in fact, I did tip him well). 

Lots of automated responses on RM.  $500/hour.  But it does state that if you are fortunate enough to be 9+ you qualify for a discount (yes I am serious...that is what he sends back).
 

The bottom is Brandon Rivers.

Can confirm the above. Didn't request a deposit from me, but that may be due to the completeness of my profile.

Can also confirm; recently had an all around amazing experience plus he's genuinely good guy.

The actual age does not matter and most here seem to agree with it being the appearance in relation to the age that matters.  
So a 40 year old who looks thirty and says he is 30 is great for me.  A 30 year old who says he is 30 and looks 40 is not so great.  
I am fucking around with a person not a number but occasionally I am fucking around with a number of persons at the same time.  

He must have good genes!

Based on my experience, I would believe that he was 21 eight years ago.