Your Man in Arlington

Should someone tell him that his sugar-daddy-to-be is looking for sex?

Yes. I'm Gen X and the last thing I want to do is call a provider on the phone for a real-time conversation before or as part of scheduling an appointment and don't think I've every had a single no show. +1 on those two tips.

Looks like he's a former Corbin Fisher model, and there's a another thread on him here:

I got my 6th shot at the end of September. After having fairly strong reactions to shots 1 - 4, 5 was much better and this most recent was barely anything.

The guy who first seduced me into my first experience topping ("I need help with my computer") had Sade's Diamond Life playing when I showed up to his dorm room. I think this is an improvement from Cindi Lauper? 🤷‍♂️

I messaged him and was left in the seen zone. And, yes, I had figured out that none of the photos were remotely recent. 🤷‍♂️

I would worry about this more from a problematic "provider" than the AirBnB host.

I have given AirBnB's a few chances, but they have never measured up on the QPR for me and have since given up them. Why do you need sheets that fit your bed or actual curtains over the windows in your five star rated "luxury" apartment? 🤷‍♂️ The reviewing process makes it almost impossible to leave an an honest review.

I can count the number of times I've produced pre-cum in my 50+ year life on two hands, and they always been masturbating or during a long massage. Maybe that's why I am practically obsessed with pre-cum, and a provider who has it shoots (ha!) straight (ha!) to the top of my list. Never considered the inverse situation you present, though. I think I would mention it in my RM profile and again when confirming a meeting, if it's that noticeable.

Following up: Agree the above! Except, I fortunately live in the DMV. PMs are open.

Reviews/warnings will appear only if other providers (or people in general) have left notes. I'm guessing most numbers will have no notes as they probably haven't made trouble for a provider? See the above screen shot with the "21 user reports" line.

Thanks for the update. Wonder why he advertises on RMass if he can't answer simple questions. 🤷‍♂️

This is just how I look at it, too. In conversations where I mentioned that I was married and my husband was in the loop about my activities, a couple of providers have shared that they were also in a committed relationship with partners who knew. For me, this was a positive signal about their own appropriate boundaries and expectations about our meeting.

Saw him earlier this year, PM me for more info.

And, now profile is disabled "Billy_mass is no longer available on RentMasseur."

Is that a golem in the lake?

This is what I will be doing before my next trip to NYC and can commit to a meeting. It's always worked for me before. 👍 Still, doesn't seem like anyone's had an experience to report back on.

Erotic Massage: "Close by spooning together and connecting your heart centers with love, compassion and gratitude. Help them to sit up and end with a Heart Salutation. Offer them water or juice to drink and a chocolate or piece of fruit to eat. You may want to share what this experience was like for you. How was it to give and/or receive in this way?" I consider myself fairly crunchy but this was 😳.

Considering he is a "Rent.Men Exclusive," I think there is a good chance he gave himself those awards. (As far as I could find, he's never done porn.)

A couple of providers I've hired have OnlyFans accounts which I subscribed to before hiring as part of researching and deciding to go with them. For $10 or so, it's worth it before making a larger investment. If you have the bandwidth for it, I think it could both be a way to make some money from guys who just want to rub one out and as marketing for your services.

Why elimate a potentially good customer based on an assumption? I had looked at the profile of my current regular over the course of a year so, so many times before reaching out because I had just moved across the country, completely upended my life, and had to come to an agreement with my husband about our situation. When I told him how long I had waited to get in touch during the first time we got together and he told him what a great time I was having, he laughed it off with a "Why did you wait so long?" 🤷‍♂️

This, plus I'm going through their reviews to see if it's a good match. I don't like providers messaging me just because I viewed their profile, so I have the "do not track me" setting turned on. It's kind of like a store owner rushing out to sell me something just because I paused in front of their window for a minute.

I usually think of snowballing on the context of oral/CIM.

Looks like he grew 2", his now lists his height as 6'7".

Looking back... it the wording in both of these is "special experience", so that might make a difference: travelxlboy and Adam_Maxwell. My bad!