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Your Man in Arlington

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  1. I'm sure so, so many clients or potential clients do not approach this process with clarity that I attempt to. I usually book a few days up to a week ahead, starting with a range of days, for example: "I'm visiting next week and looking to meet up on Tuesday or Wednesday late morning or early afternoon," to make sure there's a general schedule match up front. Maybe by approach is informed by having been on other side of equation? Albeit, when I was a provider all I had was a tiny text ad in the local gay rag, a pager, and a street corner to fall back on. Times have changed for better or worse, but it's still all about mutual respect!
  2. As a client, I have similar expectations about whether a provider can or will follow through with a booking for which I've made the time and am looking forward to. IMO I've only made a booking once it is double confirmed. For example, after important information not their profile is gathered: Me: Your rate of $X works. I'd like to meet up for 2 hours starting at 1:00 PM tomorrow, if that's good for you? Them: I can do that, see you tomorrow at 1. Me: Great! Looking forward to it! Until I have an exchange like the above, I don't assume I have a confirmed appointment with a provider. I'm very conscientiousness about not wasting anyone's time in the booking process, and I consider the concrete confirmation of a day, time, duration and rate is respectful of all parties time and attention.
  3. Maybe I'm the minority, but this is probably the least important thing for me when deciding to book a provider. 🤷🏼‍♂️
  4. Interesting. Roald Ekberg is a well known Bel Ami model (well over 50 scenes) and definitely not the same person in the photos from Adam_Tayler's profile.
  5. Photos are of an Instagram digital creator and influencer. Possibly a fake account with stolen photos, or he's needing to supplement his income with a side hustle?
  6. This! I've had therapists (<cough>I've now decided to apply those funds to something else that improves my mental health and is far more enjoyable<cough>) and personal trainers with whom I developed personal connections, and even though I was or are a "regular" with them I would never expect or want a "discount" for their services. I've even had to tell a personal trainer that they needed to raise their rate! Now, I consistently tip preferred providers well, so that they know I really do appreciate their work and that they I take bookings with them seriously.
  7. In case it's informative he has a Twitter account and he's done a fair amount of porn: rowan hunter - iafd.com WWW.IAFD.COM Check out Rowan Hunter's filmography and vendor links to all 21 of their videos and webscenes. Learn what Rowan Hunter did and with whom!
  8. For me, the anatomy shown in the private photo doesn't really connect with the two face/body photos.
  9. Close-in DC suburb, so exceptionally educated and progressive compared to most of the rest of the country. The environment certainly made the decision possible as compared to what I would have encountered most anywhere else. Like you, a fair number of people came out later in college or young adulthood. And, yeah, I ran into one of my old teachers at a gay club (with 18+ nights) when I was back home visiting from college.
  10. I came out between my Sophomore and Junior year in '85, and I was the only out student in my High School during my four years there. I noticed a change for young people around the time My So Called Life aired in the mid-1990's. Coming out in the 1980's was not only tough enough in terms of general societal acceptance, but mainstream society starting to learn of AIDS crisis made it exponentially more difficult. My mom, while supportive of me as a person, was 100% sure I was going to die of AIDS at first.
  11. Joined August 2022 and has 10 5-star reviews, all since May 31, 2023? Travelling or moved here recently? Seems odd. Edit: He has 1 Four Star and 9 Five Star reviews.
  12. I'm in my early 50's, came out in the 80's I was 15, found acceptance with friends and family, and went on to live a fairly liberated life. I was certainly the exception, and so many men my age and older were less fortunate by those that surrounded them, lived years of internalized self hate or disgust, and as you said, ended up living very isolated lives. Providers can/are doing meaningful work in this way, though it might not be so apparent.
  13. Wow... late 20's vers/top twunk with a beautiful 6" cock... would fly to SAC if he was a reliable booking.
  14. @DrownedBoy So, the cruises I went on with my aging grandparents before they passed away were mainstream (not gay) and all inclusive, even tips. Certain cruises advertised as having "Gentlmen Hosts" who I believe wore a special pin, were age equivalent to and would serve as strictly platonic dance partners for the older single women on the cruise. Not being an older single women, I never discovered learned the details of how they worked or whether they engaged in off duty activities. But, I would describe them as being more "handsome," at least to their customers, than as being "hot."
  15. My face was not so naturally blurry, but this is pretty much what I looked like when I was working as a provider at 23. 🤷🏼‍♂️
  16. Every cruise ship has these gentlemen. Fortunately for the unaccompanied women, they only indirectly pay for them through their fares. Or, rather to say, all of the customers help chip in, too!
  17. Any info on this guy? Juliienminet - Male Escort, Gay massage - Paris | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Juliienminet Gay Escort in Paris, France, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men Based in Paris, but It looks like I'll overlap with him in NYC.
  18. Fake? AI? Face searches bring up a model living in Paris, but the body doesn't match.
  19. He's back, for now, at least.
  20. He was very much in his 20's - I would even guess late 20's - when I saw him circa 2008. And, he was certainly older than 29 when he created his most recent profile in 2015.
  21. Agreed, this makes no sense. Speaks more to his enthusiasm/talent as a provider than his concern for safety.
  22. I was lucky to have met with him once 15 years ago or so. Great guy, very skilled, and a lot of fun.
  23. I've been following him over the past 2 - 3 years, and I'm mostly put off by him looking by 5 different people? Not that he's using different people's photos, but he just has too many looks, and I like to know who I'm hiring will look like.
  24. Is 12 considered big, as in appealing to the feet-loving people? Are prehensile toes an advantage? If so, I should have been advertising that when I was a provider way too, too many years ago. 😆
  25. He's back as of this afternoon.
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