CastaDiva

Admit it, you really mean 'I wonder WHO Ryan Idol is doing right now'.

Is he out of prison?  If he's still in prison, I wonder if they let him shave his butt. 

FWIW I was planning to see you in Portland when I saw you on Rentmen. When I found out it was going to cost me $25 to just log onto your website it just seemed like more of a hassle than it was worth. Wound up seeing someone else who was more user friendly. Sorry

@Jarrod_Uncut  It’s exactly the right thing to remove contact info from the profile!
Your problem seems to stem from a general disregard of human nature. Your happiness and success will be found working with things, rather than people, whose unpredictability is beyond your understanding. People will flake. People will misrepresent. People will get sick. People will love their time with you, but simply not have the money nor time to schedule more. 
This is all part of human nature and accepting situations out of yours and others’ control. 
Your posts’ content in total, make it seem you are doomed for a life that will be diminished by your endless frustration at people being human. 
Find a career where you can work  with things on your own with no interpersonal contact with others. You are a beautiful man who needs to work with things, not people.
And please don’t ruin dogs by seeking a job with animals. 🐶

I did an overnight one time with a client that involved me going to his work Christmas party. He didn’t want to go alone, the party was at a smart hotel and most of the guests had rooms for the night. So he booked me to accompany him. 

I had met him for regular sessions (short 90mins) previously so it wasn’t like we’d just met. I turned up late afternoon, we played a bit, showered etc then went downstairs for the works meal and party.
The organisers had decided (I hate this) to mix up the couples so I was sat between some bore who seemed to run the place and a quiet woman partner of another employee who I chatted to mostly about her love of Greek islands. My client was on a different table…to his annoyance.
He hadn’t anticipated the seating plan nor had we worked out a story about who I was (do I say to his boss “yeah I’m an escort he’s put on expenses for the evening”?) so I just said I was a friend. Turns out he told people I was a relative. I’m sure no one believed him. 
Then after the meal there was dancing and karaoke (it’s all the worst elements of a work Christmas party). My client didn’t want to dance (slow dance? Kissing?) so we sat and chatted about work with a couple who both seemed to work at my clients firm. I can be surprisingly informed about UK GAAP 🙂 and managed to avoid them asking what I did for work. 
Eventually we sneaked off back to the bedroom and I did more of what I normally do for work shall we say. However the funniest part of the overnight was coming down for breakfast in the morning having just had morning sex (which is absolutely the best time for it in my opinion) and having to field leading questions about whether we had a good sleep. I’m unembarrassable (is that a word?) so I didn’t care but my client felt awkward which was a pity.
When we went back to the room after breakfast to check out he apologised for combining the booking with his Christmas party but I told him not to worry…it was a blast and we should definitely have sung “I am what I am” at the karaoke…

I've only done one overnight so far, and while it could have gone many different ways, we actually had a great time. Proof: We became friends and spent a few non-business times together before he quit the industry and moved to a different state with his now-fiancé.
Anyway, during our overnight, we played five times (not all penetrative and to completion though). We went for drinks at a rooftop bar, had dinner at a Belgian restaurant, and passed by a small art gallery. It helped that we clicked—our conversations never stalled.
Don't feel like you have to do an overnight, even if it's with a provider that you see on a regular basis. They're like our friends: Many of them we are happy to have around, but we do not want to spend more than a day with them.

I think you hit it on the head right here. I recently did an overnight with an escort I hadn't met before. While not a total bomb, I do think I would've enjoyed a shorter session with this particular guy. 
But I have had some absolutely wonderful overnight sessions with guys that I have a lot more rapport with, both sexually and emotionally/intellectually.
I do not think I will ever do an overnight with an escort I have not met before. And that might be good advice for you too. 

Many overnights I have had have led to swallowing lots of hot stuff.  Never ghost peppers though.   

Overnights aren’t for everyone, but some love them intensely. I have clients who literally only book me for overnights. That being said, in addition to the physical component, what you do during overnights is no different than what you do with a lover, boyfriend, partner, companion, i.e. conversation, dine, watch a movie, hold hands, cuddle, jacuzzi together, or whatever it is the client likes to do. 

Not every provider needs to offer every service. Sounds like overnights may not be a good match for you, and that’s fine. 
 
Kevin Slater 

Happy Birthday to the man who saved daddy’s site. Your hard and dedicated  work is most appreciated. Cheers! 🥂

Fluffy has great hair.  I’ll give him that. 

Hey (mostly) gents and (a few select) ladies!
 
It has been a LONG time since I've posted here and even longer since I've posted consistently. There have been a few very big changes recently. On January 6th, cancer cells were found in a lymph node near my liver. Further scans showed a tumor in the bile duct area. (Medical folk, they're calling it a "Klatskin.") We don't know yet if the cancer began in my gallbladder or inside my intrahepatic bile duct or what. March 6th, I'm getting a PET scan that will supposedly help pinpoint the primary site. For those of you who don't know, cancer cells in a lymph node = stage 3 almost all the time. A diagnosis of any cancer in the gallbladder/pancreas/liver/bile duct area = shitty prognosis. I'm meeting with my oncologist on March 9th to discuss the results, and it's not exactly an appointment I'm looking forward to.
 
Back in 2015 when my life upended itself, people from this fellowship -- only a few of whom I'd met in person -- sent flowers, encouraged me, and got me through a very rough time. This is another one. I have no idea how many of you folks even remember me, but I would appreciate any positive energy you could send my way.
 
Thank you so much in advance,
T

Thanks for this update, @TruHart1 -- so sad to hear this news, but glad to know... And so sorry for your and Raul's loss.

Tyro and I enjoyed many a memorably frank/hilarious exchange via DM. Salty, indeed, yet always genuine and interested in my (then) newbie adventures with this hobby. Exemplified the best qualities of the folks who use this forum. 

I have been informed by my long-time retired escort friend @raulgmanzo that @tyro passed away “after a long battle with cancer” on her 48th birthday (in February this year.) As I’ve shared before, she was the first forum member to have greeted me when I initially joined this site, welcoming me “with open arms!”
She and I had @raulgmanzo in common (we had both hired him and become his friend, and then each other’s friend, upon meeting in Chicago a few years ago. She was one of three ladies who posted regularly here, @quoththeraven, @FreshFluff and herself, taking the label, “salty broad.” There was one wonderful weekend in Chicago when the three of us, RGM, myself and Tyro, wandered around the city with RGM explaining some of the most interesting sights and buildings. Raul is always such a font of Chicago history and information!
It appears @quoththeraven hasn’t posted in quite a while (since the pandemic?) so, @FreshFluff, it seems it’s up to you to represent the fairer sex on this forum now.
When I think of @tyro, she was a fiercely loyal friend, always ready to share hiring adventures (she must have hired every bi- escort working for a while!) and just listen, always, giving me positive feedback over the years! This salty broad was truly a unique and special lady. I sadly mourn her passing and will miss her tremendously!
TruHart1 😎

Perfect peach for tasting

Anyone else into them?

He only needs to count to 11.  He can do that on his fingers (or toes) plus one other 'digit'...

and if @jtwalker has time Muir woods!
Btw how old are you? are you WHP? Plenty of walks to do in San Francisco, maybe not for your average American.