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Your comments are just fine. I too, will not provide explicit details. Personally, I always add “I recommend” or “I would not recommend”.  And yes, PM is always an option. 

These kinds of recommendations remind me of restaurant reviews in Middle America.
"Great place !
So much food !"

I search for good gay theme movies. I prefer the ones that have good story lines and characters. My favorites, so far, are "Latter Days", "Handsome Devil", and a few others I can not recall right now. I like romance with my gay movies. Latter Days is very good, imho.

I heard the same thing. Really enjoyed him in the movie Shelter. 

Chuck and nick are all Asian.  Two different guy.  Chuck is working at 27 and nick work at HK.   
 
After the VIP room in HK build up. I will re do the gallery.   I will put name on each picture so that it won’t be confusing.   ❤️.
and.  If you had any bad experiences or any suggestions. Please let me know. I am here for any issues❤️ 

It does. In his case, apart from a two or three line review in French, they are all one or two words, or at most a [positive] single line of text. The catch is, as has been discussed previously in the Forum, you need to be outside the US physically, or to use a VPN to appear to the RM site to be abroad, to read those written reviews.

I prefer "therapist."
There are already shrinks who get paid to hug their patients. Just a logical extrapolation. 

Perhaps we can try a subthread, as this topic is not disconnected from the OP's, and discuss the terminology used to refer to clients. I have some suggestions.
personal financial provider personal investor provided friend with financial benefits prostituter solicitor requester frequent rider/ride whorer escorted personal corruptor supporter admirer member of my fanfuck club partner in whoring hookering ally time-payer adjective+John (favorite John, stinky John, significant John, etc.) Venmo/Cashapp/Paypal partner

From now on, I am advocating for "geishas."

Great advice from everyone. It was an amazing experience and I lucked out having a provider who was fantastic for first timers. I'd be lying if I said I didn't have first time performance anxiety, but he was patient, kind, enthusiastic, and just drop dead gorgeous.
 
I'd book him again with zero hesitation, largely in part to the advice and perspective of you guys. I can't thank you all enough. 

Here's an earlier discussion about Justin_oo  FWIW 
 
 

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Normally have seen his ad in London.  He's visiting the US...  finishing in DC and then headed to Philly tomorrow, then to NYC and Boston.  
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I guess you can pass a bj as oral lingam then 

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As a closeted bi married man I have only shared my experience of Rentmen with my one best friend. He was a college roommate who supports me and my explorations. 

No. There are some things I consider private. My hobby of hiring, my net worth/annual earnings and the Justin Bieber blow up doll I have in the back of the closet in the hallway are a few examples of things I do not share with anyone. 🤫

I have a cautionary tale on this topic.
I started hiring in my late twenties/early 30s. Almost 20 yrs ago. I had several close gay friends - a few were especially close and remained close until a year or so ago. I was always honest with them and told them about my lifestyle which I summarized as my gay friends were my family and my romantic needs were outsourced to external vendors i.e escorts.
A couple of these friends also knew descriptions of some of the guys I met and about my good and bad experiences. 
My general thinking was as I was honest and upfront about my choices, it should be ok. One friend expressed minor concerns and others being very progressive were non-judgemental. This lifestyle choice never seemed to come between our friendships. These friendships were my primary support structure.
Fast forward twenty years later, as the pandemic and related stresses rolled in, and as the political polarization grew, one of the progressive friends who could not hold a job down and over the years grew somewhat jealous of my modest success (basic ability to have a good paying job for all these years) had a fall out with me after getting drunk. The words that came out of his mouth were eye-opening. He said you might be successful, but you pay for s*x. "You are a pedophile that you go after young guys" ( I have never been with anyone under 23 - but I do admit my preference is for escorts between 25-35 ). He called me all sorts of names. The alcohol and built in jealousy brought out how he really felt about what I thought was an honest and upfront lifestyle that I personally have no qualms about as long as there is mutual consent and no exploitation. Another close friend, who departed a year before this one due to political differences (he was tea-party supporter and later a Trumpster and I am somewhat left of the center) which he grew especially sensitive about in the polarized pandemic years, also mentioned about me 'hiring hookers' as one of my bad traits in our final argument.
So 20-21 years ..after being very close friends - almost equivalent of a family - I realized that friends, no matter how progressive, harbored negative feelings toward my ability to hire the best looking guys to have some fun. Those came out eventually despite them telling me it was cool with them through the years.
So, my advice is do not overshare. Gay friendships fall apart, friends are not family. They will use this against you when they no longer want to be your friends. 
With this experience, I now have become very introvert. 
 
 

Hmmm...I don't know. One of the escorts I hired early on was only about 5'5" but had a ginormous cock and an aloof attitude! Our time in bed was just kind of meh. He never let me forget that he was a TOP! I never hired him again. I kind of enjoyed playing with his "toy" but it was all about HIM!
 
One of my other hires looks to be only about 5 inches when fully rock hard. The first time I hired him, we hit it off, we had many mutual life experiences in common, and he made everything we did all about MY pleasure. We ended up just talking and making out for most of the scheduled session.
 
After that, he gave me an additional 2 hours and built me slowly to one of the best orgasms I've ever experienced, before or since! He has continued to be a regular hire, in fact he has since retired but still sees me on a regular basis! I wouldn't say I'm a small cock fetishist but I never judge anyone by the size of their cock!
 
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I am happy to have learned that size does NOT matter. when your guy is sweet, loving, passionate, beautiful and a great kisser, that’s all that matters...

and we need to celebrate, not shame, that fact

I’m not a moderator, but I’m still going to suggest that we get back to the OP’s question. 
I suspect some of the gay seniors in places like The Monster’s upstairs space were among those who fought, organized, and sacrificed for our community. They deserve social spaces that are gay-senior-friendly, and I’m eager to know where those spaces are.

yeah, I used to be very concerned with B list and D list gays etc... then I turned 15 and outgrew my childhood and realized there's not such thing as lists and the gatekeepers of those fictional lists aren't usually on the top of them anyway, I was lucky that way I suppose.

They have a history of being unprofessional there.  I don't get it - they spend all that time, effort and money every couple years to rebrand the place, yet carry over the same practices.  I can say that over the years I've never had a good memorable experience there.  If I had to give it a rating, I'd say c- across the board.  Even the halfway decent massages that I may have ended up with there were ruined because they tend to cut them 10 min short.  There are better spas who try much harder to please than to have to resort to patronizing this one.