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Was there ever a "good" time?……grin

Actually, it looks like the results aren’t so bad. I mean, DoxyPEP had very good reduction in chlamydia and syphilis rates, and a significant (although not great) reduction in gonorrhea rates. Unfortunately, I predict wide spread DoxyPEP use will soon lead to near universal doxycycline resistance in gonorrhea, making it useless for gonorrhea prevention. And although the meningitis vaccine didn’t show a great reduction in gonorrhea, there appears to be some. Not bad for vaccine that wasn’t targeted at gonorrhea. I think people got a little too excited about the early results from this trial. Nonetheless, I think it shows a real gonorrhea vaccine might be feasible.
Overall, I’d chalk this up as good, although not great news. 

Well why wouldn’t you..

I always tell providers that my experience is not dependent on whether I cum or not.  I let them know what I enjoy and to focus on that.  I’ve found that as I’ve gotten older, I can reach a point of overstimulation where cumming isn’t likely to happen - although I’m very much enjoying the sex. It seems to take the pressure off both parties & I have better overall outcomes.
I don’t expect a provider to cum ever.  If they want to, then fine. 
As for the time - I’m the clock watcher & will remind him I’m aware of the time at the 50 minute mark.  about 50% of the time, I’ll ask to extend & pay. For the rest, an hour is sufficient.  If we’re both having fun & he just wants to stay, that’s ok too.  I can only remember one guy shorting me on time, although a few times where I left early.  I think it’s reasonable to confirm you will get a full hour before you schedule.
I keep my expectations low & reasonable, while treating the provider as I would any other guest. 
Drinks are always offered before & after if in my home/hotel.  Shower offered after, of course.  

If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.

Moderator's Note: A gentle reminder to all the Sherlock Holmeses and Agatha Christies on the forums- Please keep any personal information you may find to yourself unless he has posted it in his ad, and don't post it here. Thanks!

Moderator's Note: A gentle reminder to all the Sherlock Holmeses and Agatha Christies on the forums- Please keep any personal information you may find to yourself unless he has posted it in his ad, and don't post it here. Thanks!

Moderator's Note: A gentle reminder to all the Sherlock Holmeses and Agatha Christies on the forums- Please keep any personal information you may find to yourself unless he has posted it in his ad, and don't post it here. Thanks!

Moderator's Note: There was another very recent thread about the same provider. The two threads were merged to keep the discussion in one place.

Moderator's Note: A gentle reminder to all the Sherlock Holmeses and Agatha Christies on the forums- Please keep any personal information you may find to yourself unless he has posted it in his ad, and don't post it here. Thanks!

Moderator's Note: A gentle reminder to all the Sherlock Holmeses and Agatha Christies on the forums- Please keep any personal information you may find to yourself unless he has posted it in his ad, and don't post it here. Thanks!

Benjamin is very sexy.  

Very kind.  Thank you.

I suspect that my sugar would not be enough to sweeten his tea.

A favorite, long-retired escort once said "If you want to play in the back yard you will see some dirt."

If I see you for extended visits- weekends or longer- for years, then you're a regular.
It's not just about the time or money spent, for me it's do we know each other?

Given that rent is coming due on the first of the month, you are his target audience.. 

I accept the hard truth that I am not his target audience.

Having seen him "in the flesh", I can state, as a matter of fact, that he is the proverbial "dog" in comparison with you. 

He was the "Prince Charming" on "Finding Prince Charming," Logo's take on "The Bachelor."
Here are some past threads on him: 
 
 
 
I thought there were more threads about him, but that's all I could find.