For a massage, I typically go to the masseur's place. Seems a lot easier than having him haul his table to my place, set it up, etc. For escort sessions, I typically host at my place. That said, I have travelled to another city (typically Pam Springs or LA) to see guys and will book a hotel as I will be staying at least one night. So far, no one has no-showed but if they did I would call another provider.