SROSFanboy

Yes, definitely

You can filter emails by traits. It cut my incoming by 90%.

Well I decided to take the plunge and pay the $80 upgrade for one month's access on the site - and one thing I'm finding out now that I can message these guys back and forth is that a lot of them (most of them, actually) had no clue that it costs SD's that much to even view their messages. They think they're being rudely ignored. So that was an eye-opener. I will say, though, that the subject of money does not seem to come up easily with most of them, which I suppose, in the interest of civility and getting to know someone, is good form, but you *know* that eventually it will come up in conversation...Some of the guys do seem much less "mercenary" than others, though...

Well I decided to take the plunge and pay the $80 upgrade for one month's access on the site - and one thing I'm finding out now that I can message these guys back and forth is that a lot of them (most of them, actually) had no clue that it costs SD's that much to even view their messages. They think they're being rudely ignored. So that was an eye-opener. I will say, though, that the subject of money does not seem to come up easily with most of them, which I suppose, in the interest of civility and getting to know someone, is good form, but you *know* that eventually it will come up in conversation...Some of the guys do seem much less "mercenary" than others, though...

I had one the other day....when I asked him to unlock his private pics he asked for $$!!
 
THAT's a first for me.....hundreds have unlocked pics for me before lol.

I agree. I've also observed that some of the introductions and responses are strikingly similar.

139 of those guys want to fuck your brains out.
One wants to murder you in your sleep and steal your car.
 
Carpe Diem !

So I tried out this SA site recently, and no sooner had I set up a profile and started looking around the site, but it was like a flock of locusts descended on me - I think in a little over a week I have close to 140 messages, all of them unread, because I'm debating on whether it's worth the bloody $80 just to be able to read them. I agree with some of the posts in this thread that it seems like much more of a crapshoot than when you hire an escort, because a lot of these guys just seem to need the money and probably couldn't be less interested in you as a person. The other thing I found strange about the site, is that sometimes I'd see that someone favorited me whom I had previously favorited, and a red box would appear announcing the reciprocity and urging me to "send a message" - so I'd send a message with my e-mail address, but to date, not one of those guys has e-mailed me. I'm assuming that it only "looks" like a message will be sent if you're a standard member, or else the site blocks out any attempt on your part in the message to convey an e-mail address - or else, they're all flakes and won't take the time to even send a brief e-mail! Let's face it, guys, $80 is a hefty price to pay for full access on a website. Also, since there are so many "Premium" level sugar babies on the site, I'm assuming that it costs them much less to have full access? I mean, it looks like they already have more privileges on the site than SD do, because they can send messages. I will admit, though, that it's tempting to pay the $80 just to read all those messages, because some of the guys looked pretty interesting...

So I tried out this SA site recently, and no sooner had I set up a profile and started looking around the site, but it was like a flock of locusts descended on me - I think in a little over a week I have close to 140 messages, all of them unread, because I'm debating on whether it's worth the bloody $80 just to be able to read them. I agree with some of the posts in this thread that it seems like much more of a crapshoot than when you hire an escort, because a lot of these guys just seem to need the money and probably couldn't be less interested in you as a person. The other thing I found strange about the site, is that sometimes I'd see that someone favorited me whom I had previously favorited, and a red box would appear announcing the reciprocity and urging me to "send a message" - so I'd send a message with my e-mail address, but to date, not one of those guys has e-mailed me. I'm assuming that it only "looks" like a message will be sent if you're a standard member, or else the site blocks out any attempt on your part in the message to convey an e-mail address - or else, they're all flakes and won't take the time to even send a brief e-mail! Let's face it, guys, $80 is a hefty price to pay for full access on a website. Also, since there are so many "Premium" level sugar babies on the site, I'm assuming that it costs them much less to have full access? I mean, it looks like they already have more privileges on the site than SD do, because they can send messages. I will admit, though, that it's tempting to pay the $80 just to read all those messages, because some of the guys looked pretty interesting...

I've mentioned this in other threads, but I find that a largely plant based diet and the addition of some fibre supplements (pure for men specifically) means that I don't have to douche. Once I have a BM 98 times out of 100 there will be no appreciable faecal residue. Douching isn't particularly good for you, so I avoid it as much as possible. I'm generally confident that I can get fucked at the drop of a hat with no mess.

Douching is probably one of my least favorite things in the world to do - usually in the past have used Fleet enemas - removing the saline solution in the container and replacing it with lukewarm plain water. Once I remember telling a guy who wanted to get in there, "but I haven't douched," and the response was "I don't care" LOL - and nothing unseemly happened; it was a quickie anyway. Most DO care, though. I think, though, that unless you do an actual full colonoscopy prep with fast, there's always gonna be a little somethin' left in there - maybe I'm wrong?

Try this on for dating oneself: I still have unrequited lust for Mark Rutter, Rod Mitchell & Bill Henson!

I saw mike rutter and also billy henson wow back in the era of eric manchester

I also still have the hots for long retired Tony Dancer from Vegas. Saw him several times there and flew him to my place in Florida once. Hope I can arrange a meeting with him next time I am in Vegas. He was such a swave charmer.

Two of my favourites!! I met Colby a couple times, once in a professional capacity. He made me feel sexy and alluring, and he has an easy smile.

When I was with Haus he made me feel like it was just us. He was unforgettable.

The ones I remember hiring are Colby Jansen (before he became a pornstar or took that name) and Haus Weston. Spent the night with "Colby" in Las Vegas, and he was quite the gentleman, plus very hot and steamy in the bedroom department - definitely enjoyed that time with him, although that was about 10 years ago.
 
Haus was my favorite of all time - met him twice in L.A. and he was such a sweet guy. The first time we talked for the longest time in my hotel room, and got along famously, then when it came to bedroom activities, he seemed to know *exactly* what to do to turn me on - I was impressed. The second time, I had gone out to L.A. area with a friend, and had planned to spend the night with Haus. Stupidly, I had carried $1500 in cash with me on the trip for that purpose - first hotel I stayed at north of L.A., I prudently placed the money in an envelope in a safety deposit box, then after checking out I retrieved the envelope, and put it in a zipped compartment of a small carry-on piece of luggage I had in the back seat of the car. Once down in L.A. area, I had to drop my friend off at a different hotel, so parked the rental car in the hotel garage, and went in for no more than 15 minutes to see that he was all set and checked in. Then went back to the car, and noticed that the back windows were partially down, which seemed odd, because I didn't remember lowering them. Anyway, drove off to my hotel, checked in, and was getting ready to shower to meet Haus when I checked to make sure the money envelope was there, and it was GONE. Well, needless to say I panicked - and when Haus got to the hotel, I told him what had happened, and being the great guy he is, offered to drive us over to the other hotel to interrogate the hotel and/or garage staff ( and I figured having his imposing presence there couldn't hurt!) - naturally, the shift of employees that had been there before were now gone. Anyway, we went back to my hotel, and Haus offered to spend some time with me regardless, though not overnight, and told me just to send him the lesser amount for our shorter meeting after I returned home and when I was able to. How's THAT for fundamental goodness in a person, huh? Anyway, once I got home, I found out that I was able to recoup most of the funds lost through an insurance policy I had for my business, and Haus did get his fee ultimately. I really miss that guy so much - he was a true gem. I was so sad to hear of his passing at such a young age.

Why do guys who are so obviously mostly smooth claim that they are "Hairy" ? I suppose in the case of this guy it could be basic unfamiliarity with the language, but I have seen it over an over in guys' ads on various sites... and often the reverse is true as well - if they have a smooth chest but hairy legs, they will claim to be "Smooth" Personally I like the natural body hair, but I know each has his own preference in that department!

The ones I remember hiring are Colby Jansen (before he became a pornstar or took that name) and Haus Weston. Spent the night with "Colby" in Las Vegas, and he was quite the gentleman, plus very hot and steamy in the bedroom department - definitely enjoyed that time with him, although that was about 10 years ago.
 
Haus was my favorite of all time - met him twice in L.A. and he was such a sweet guy. The first time we talked for the longest time in my hotel room, and got along famously, then when it came to bedroom activities, he seemed to know *exactly* what to do to turn me on - I was impressed. The second time, I had gone out to L.A. area with a friend, and had planned to spend the night with Haus. Stupidly, I had carried $1500 in cash with me on the trip for that purpose - first hotel I stayed at north of L.A., I prudently placed the money in an envelope in a safety deposit box, then after checking out I retrieved the envelope, and put it in a zipped compartment of a small carry-on piece of luggage I had in the back seat of the car. Once down in L.A. area, I had to drop my friend off at a different hotel, so parked the rental car in the hotel garage, and went in for no more than 15 minutes to see that he was all set and checked in. Then went back to the car, and noticed that the back windows were partially down, which seemed odd, because I didn't remember lowering them. Anyway, drove off to my hotel, checked in, and was getting ready to shower to meet Haus when I checked to make sure the money envelope was there, and it was GONE. Well, needless to say I panicked - and when Haus got to the hotel, I told him what had happened, and being the great guy he is, offered to drive us over to the other hotel to interrogate the hotel and/or garage staff ( and I figured having his imposing presence there couldn't hurt!) - naturally, the shift of employees that had been there before were now gone. Anyway, we went back to my hotel, and Haus offered to spend some time with me regardless, though not overnight, and told me just to send him the lesser amount for our shorter meeting after I returned home and when I was able to. How's THAT for fundamental goodness in a person, huh? Anyway, once I got home, I found out that I was able to recoup most of the funds lost through an insurance policy I had for my business, and Haus did get his fee ultimately. I really miss that guy so much - he was a true gem. I was so sad to hear of his passing at such a young age.

The ones I remember hiring are Colby Jansen (before he became a pornstar or took that name) and Haus Weston. Spent the night with "Colby" in Las Vegas, and he was quite the gentleman, plus very hot and steamy in the bedroom department - definitely enjoyed that time with him, although that was about 10 years ago.
 
Haus was my favorite of all time - met him twice in L.A. and he was such a sweet guy. The first time we talked for the longest time in my hotel room, and got along famously, then when it came to bedroom activities, he seemed to know *exactly* what to do to turn me on - I was impressed. The second time, I had gone out to L.A. area with a friend, and had planned to spend the night with Haus. Stupidly, I had carried $1500 in cash with me on the trip for that purpose - first hotel I stayed at north of L.A., I prudently placed the money in an envelope in a safety deposit box, then after checking out I retrieved the envelope, and put it in a zipped compartment of a small carry-on piece of luggage I had in the back seat of the car. Once down in L.A. area, I had to drop my friend off at a different hotel, so parked the rental car in the hotel garage, and went in for no more than 15 minutes to see that he was all set and checked in. Then went back to the car, and noticed that the back windows were partially down, which seemed odd, because I didn't remember lowering them. Anyway, drove off to my hotel, checked in, and was getting ready to shower to meet Haus when I checked to make sure the money envelope was there, and it was GONE. Well, needless to say I panicked - and when Haus got to the hotel, I told him what had happened, and being the great guy he is, offered to drive us over to the other hotel to interrogate the hotel and/or garage staff ( and I figured having his imposing presence there couldn't hurt!) - naturally, the shift of employees that had been there before were now gone. Anyway, we went back to my hotel, and Haus offered to spend some time with me regardless, though not overnight, and told me just to send him the lesser amount for our shorter meeting after I returned home and when I was able to. How's THAT for fundamental goodness in a person, huh? Anyway, once I got home, I found out that I was able to recoup most of the funds lost through an insurance policy I had for my business, and Haus did get his fee ultimately. I really miss that guy so much - he was a true gem. I was so sad to hear of his passing at such a young age.

The ones I remember hiring are Colby Jansen (before he became a pornstar or took that name) and Haus Weston. Spent the night with "Colby" in Las Vegas, and he was quite the gentleman, plus very hot and steamy in the bedroom department - definitely enjoyed that time with him, although that was about 10 years ago.
 
Haus was my favorite of all time - met him twice in L.A. and he was such a sweet guy. The first time we talked for the longest time in my hotel room, and got along famously, then when it came to bedroom activities, he seemed to know *exactly* what to do to turn me on - I was impressed. The second time, I had gone out to L.A. area with a friend, and had planned to spend the night with Haus. Stupidly, I had carried $1500 in cash with me on the trip for that purpose - first hotel I stayed at north of L.A., I prudently placed the money in an envelope in a safety deposit box, then after checking out I retrieved the envelope, and put it in a zipped compartment of a small carry-on piece of luggage I had in the back seat of the car. Once down in L.A. area, I had to drop my friend off at a different hotel, so parked the rental car in the hotel garage, and went in for no more than 15 minutes to see that he was all set and checked in. Then went back to the car, and noticed that the back windows were partially down, which seemed odd, because I didn't remember lowering them. Anyway, drove off to my hotel, checked in, and was getting ready to shower to meet Haus when I checked to make sure the money envelope was there, and it was GONE. Well, needless to say I panicked - and when Haus got to the hotel, I told him what had happened, and being the great guy he is, offered to drive us over to the other hotel to interrogate the hotel and/or garage staff ( and I figured having his imposing presence there couldn't hurt!) - naturally, the shift of employees that had been there before were now gone. Anyway, we went back to my hotel, and Haus offered to spend some time with me regardless, though not overnight, and told me just to send him the lesser amount for our shorter meeting after I returned home and when I was able to. How's THAT for fundamental goodness in a person, huh? Anyway, once I got home, I found out that I was able to recoup most of the funds lost through an insurance policy I had for my business, and Haus did get his fee ultimately. I really miss that guy so much - he was a true gem. I was so sad to hear of his passing at such a young age.

The ones I remember hiring are Colby Jansen (before he became a pornstar or took that name) and Haus Weston. Spent the night with "Colby" in Las Vegas, and he was quite the gentleman, plus very hot and steamy in the bedroom department - definitely enjoyed that time with him, although that was about 10 years ago.
 
Haus was my favorite of all time - met him twice in L.A. and he was such a sweet guy. The first time we talked for the longest time in my hotel room, and got along famously, then when it came to bedroom activities, he seemed to know *exactly* what to do to turn me on - I was impressed. The second time, I had gone out to L.A. area with a friend, and had planned to spend the night with Haus. Stupidly, I had carried $1500 in cash with me on the trip for that purpose - first hotel I stayed at north of L.A., I prudently placed the money in an envelope in a safety deposit box, then after checking out I retrieved the envelope, and put it in a zipped compartment of a small carry-on piece of luggage I had in the back seat of the car. Once down in L.A. area, I had to drop my friend off at a different hotel, so parked the rental car in the hotel garage, and went in for no more than 15 minutes to see that he was all set and checked in. Then went back to the car, and noticed that the back windows were partially down, which seemed odd, because I didn't remember lowering them. Anyway, drove off to my hotel, checked in, and was getting ready to shower to meet Haus when I checked to make sure the money envelope was there, and it was GONE. Well, needless to say I panicked - and when Haus got to the hotel, I told him what had happened, and being the great guy he is, offered to drive us over to the other hotel to interrogate the hotel and/or garage staff ( and I figured having his imposing presence there couldn't hurt!) - naturally, the shift of employees that had been there before were now gone. Anyway, we went back to my hotel, and Haus offered to spend some time with me regardless, though not overnight, and told me just to send him the lesser amount for our shorter meeting after I returned home and when I was able to. How's THAT for fundamental goodness in a person, huh? Anyway, once I got home, I found out that I was able to recoup most of the funds lost through an insurance policy I had for my business, and Haus did get his fee ultimately. I really miss that guy so much - he was a true gem. I was so sad to hear of his passing at such a young age.

The ones I remember hiring are Colby Jansen (before he became a pornstar or took that name) and Haus Weston. Spent the night with "Colby" in Las Vegas, and he was quite the gentleman, plus very hot and steamy in the bedroom department - definitely enjoyed that time with him, although that was about 10 years ago.
 
Haus was my favorite of all time - met him twice in L.A. and he was such a sweet guy. The first time we talked for the longest time in my hotel room, and got along famously, then when it came to bedroom activities, he seemed to know *exactly* what to do to turn me on - I was impressed. The second time, I had gone out to L.A. area with a friend, and had planned to spend the night with Haus. Stupidly, I had carried $1500 in cash with me on the trip for that purpose - first hotel I stayed at north of L.A., I prudently placed the money in an envelope in a safety deposit box, then after checking out I retrieved the envelope, and put it in a zipped compartment of a small carry-on piece of luggage I had in the back seat of the car. Once down in L.A. area, I had to drop my friend off at a different hotel, so parked the rental car in the hotel garage, and went in for no more than 15 minutes to see that he was all set and checked in. Then went back to the car, and noticed that the back windows were partially down, which seemed odd, because I didn't remember lowering them. Anyway, drove off to my hotel, checked in, and was getting ready to shower to meet Haus when I checked to make sure the money envelope was there, and it was GONE. Well, needless to say I panicked - and when Haus got to the hotel, I told him what had happened, and being the great guy he is, offered to drive us over to the other hotel to interrogate the hotel and/or garage staff ( and I figured having his imposing presence there couldn't hurt!) - naturally, the shift of employees that had been there before were now gone. Anyway, we went back to my hotel, and Haus offered to spend some time with me regardless, though not overnight, and told me just to send him the lesser amount for our shorter meeting after I returned home and when I was able to. How's THAT for fundamental goodness in a person, huh? Anyway, once I got home, I found out that I was able to recoup most of the funds lost through an insurance policy I had for my business, and Haus did get his fee ultimately. I really miss that guy so much - he was a true gem. I was so sad to hear of his passing at such a young age.

I'm definitely a fan of opera, and I remember one year I was in Vienna, Austria by myself in early Winter. I had requested the company of a handsome young man from a local agency for an evening at the Staatsoper (State Opera House), to see "La Bohème," and it turned out to be one of the best encounters I've ever had. He arrived right on time at my hotel, dressed to the nines (you don't go to the State Opera in Vienna without being dressed appropriately, unless you want to feel really out of place!), and took me to the opera in his BMW. On the way there, he had Johann Strauss' "Die Fledermaus" playing on his car stereo (OMG I was in love!). We had a great evening, and then some awesome playtime at my hotel afterward. Definitely the best "date night" I'd ever had...

I'm definitely a fan of opera, and I remember one year I was in Vienna, Austria by myself in early Winter. I had requested the company of a handsome young man from a local agency for an evening at the Staatsoper (State Opera House), to see "La Bohème," and it turned out to be one of the best encounters I've ever had. He arrived right on time at my hotel, dressed to the nines (you don't go to the State Opera in Vienna without being dressed appropriately, unless you want to feel really out of place!), and took me to the opera in his BMW. On the way there, he had Johann Strauss' "Die Fledermaus" playing on his car stereo (OMG I was in love!). We had a great evening, and then some awesome playtime at my hotel afterward. Definitely the best "date night" I'd ever had...