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As I stated, I did put one in. Significant concentration is only for away from home.

He said aimlessly" used to be an amusing bit o fluff that I heard in my youth and which stayed with me. Then it became an occasional actual occurrence when I was drunk or tired or just in a hurry. Now this bit of tripe has become a regular part of my life. When I redid my master bath, I put in a urinal so that middle the night pees hit the water not the floor. Nowadays, away from my home field, I find myself needing to really concentrate in order to avoid creating a flood. I dread the next step, the sit down to pee. It just seems terribly inconvenient and for sure there will be a longer wait at crowded events. Who knows what follows that?. I shudder to think.

The what you say is not as important as how you say it. Don't fumble. Don't retract. if you say something that you know was wrong and he calls you on it, just blame him... "You got cum in your ears boy, I said..." Don't make it too fancy, it will only sound forced and funny. Simple declarative sentences with very few adjectives other than in relation to size. "You want my cock?" so so "You want my big cock" better "You want my big cock in your mouth" better still But if you try "You want my massive monster cock in your cum hungry mouth" it will either turn into a tongue twister or it will sound forced. IF you can pull it off, well then you have better skills than I. Less is more, so do not make a whole tory out if. Find a phrase that works, add a few accusatory statements or orders such as "Don't you." "Tell me" "Take it" and of course the ever popular "Squeal like a pig"

One other thing. Be verbal. A soft, deep and controlled voice with just a bit of menace to it can really enhance an encounter. "Talk to me boy." "Tell me what you want and I will decide whether you deserve it or not." "Do not beg, Begging is for the weak and you will need to be strong to get through this." "You want more of that do you? Tell me you want more. Ask me nicely to give you more." "Do you want me to let you suck my cock? Ask for it boy. Tell me how much you want to suck my cock. If you ask me with just the right amount of respect I may reward you by letting you suck it....for just a little while." By keeping the voice controlled and telling him to ask for it, puts you further in charge If he refuses to ask, you up the ante. If he complies, you withhold. All with a modulated and yet powerful voice that makes it clear to him that he is at your disposal.

I agree that you should not go too far to begin. I suggest going to your neighborhood adult store and then to the supermarket get a few items. There is a very convenient elastic restraint that you can find at most adult stores. It is a single strap of elastic with four elastic bands with velcro bands at each of the four ends. You slip the strap under a mattress and pull 2 bands out to both sides. Velcro the wrists and ankles and it is light and easy beginner restraint. Easy to pack. It usually comes with a simple blackout mask. I would also suggest a vibrating ass plug or dildo. Not too big and nothing that fancy, just enough to penetrate and vibrate. You could get a light paddle or a light whip but you might try something cheap like a flyswatter or if you have one, a ping pong paddle or a wooden spoon. Some clothespins can be used as nipple clamps or you may just pin some folds of skin or a lip. That should really be enough to cover a first time basic fun encounter that goes further than you have but not so far that he will not come back. If you have an open mind and a bit of imagination, many things around a hotel room can be incorporated into your scene. In trying to keep it relatively sedate, light touch with just the fingertips can cause a very sensual tickling sensation and if he is ticklish, just that may keep him begging you to stop. Of course you do not unless he says the safe word. Yes, even with this kind of light play, a safe word is needed. If food interests you or him, sweets are especially sweet when eaten in the midst of sexual activity. A nice eclair smeared over this balls or cock or chest and licked off and fed to him from your mouth may get him drooling. Having a airplane bottle sized bottle of the alcohol of your choice, tequila is a nice one, on hand to pour into his mouth may loosen him up and also exhibit a small taste of your control over him. Of course you should know that he is not in a program before going there. An ass slap is always a nice treat for you and him, if he has a nice ass, so much the better. A cupped hand over the pecs or thighs will give a deep sound without too much pain. As you flatten the hand, the level of pain increases, so you can usually find a nice medium point. I must say though, that this is all pretty vanilla in that world. Your friend sounds like he may want more than that. However, starting easy and moving up is wise and more trust generating. Trust between you is the key element to having a great time. He should trust that you will stretch his limits but not break them, but first you both need to find out where they are. He should trust that you are trying to please him, not hurt him but that sometimes he will not know what will please him as well as you do. That he says he will do anything means one of two things, either he is very experienced or very naive as to where everything can go. You need to find out which is the case.

I am with Cher. Gimme Gimme Gimme a man after Midnight and I will have him singing without autotune.

While there may be arguments against solar energy at a local level, as part of a cohesive plan for energy independence and renewal energy, it is an integral aspect. The not in my backyard crowd needs to realize that dirty energy is in everyone's backyard.

Thanks for the information David, I hope the effect of these donations ripple out and touch many other lives

David I know you will be offering to the family all you can in emotional support and no doubt support in other more tangible ways. Is there any way we here at the forum can help as well. Is there a charity to which a contribution would be a comfort to the family. I believe Ian lived in Rhode Island and having lived there myself, I know there are many worthy organizations, but if you could suggest one or two, I am sure there are many here who would like to tip the hat to Ian as he walks past us into his new being. This life may have ended but good works in his name will keep him alive in spirit.

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I write checks all the time. Home repair guys, landscaper, gifts and even the occasional escort. It is easier when traveling not to have to carry enough cash to cover an overnight or two. Of course the only ones who will take a check are guys I know well and have seen multiple times. I would think for traveling escorts, checks from a reliable source would cut down on the amount of cash they have to carry. In any case, check me off in the check column. Check.

During an encounter the only bites you want are those from your partner. Wearing white clothing will make bed bugs easier to see. If you are really worried about it, you can try wearing old clothing to a meet and carry fresh clothing in a sealed bag. A shower and a change of clothing with the old clothes going into the plastic bag after the encounter will minimize risk. Don't forget shoes and socks. You can then either throw out the clothes or empty them immediately into a dryer and keep them in there for 30 to 60 minutes. I work with indigent people and some come to the recreation center with bed bugs and they need to be isolated and quarantined from the center. It takes at least three weeks to get rid of the critters and it may require getting rid of heavily infested furniture, rugs and mattresses.

Well admiration and recognition are not the same. I recognize your posts but as far as admiration of the ones on this thread....not so much. I find them short sighted and rather ignorant. Post away, I have dinner to prepare. Dismal.

History happens, arrogance dismisses entire civilizations. What you stated: "I don't know what kind of civilization it is where people practice human sacrifice and cannibalism." Avalon. By the way, some might say that a civilization that developed superior weaponry was not all that civilized.

While that is true, there is nothing particular heroic or admirable about it and certainly demeaning an entire civilization by some of its worst traits, such as human sacrifice, is rather narrow viewed.

Your arrogance is totally Eurocentric. Learn something about the cultures of the indigenous populations of the Americas and compare that to the fiefdoms and egalitarian civilization of Europe and perhaps you may not feel that Europe was so superior.

Columbus was only part of whole cavalcade of explorers and sailors who set off to explore the world. He brought back information about the new world, but he alone is not responsible for opening up the new world and most now believe that the thought of colonization is a symbol of suppression not of success. Surely the world would be different if it were not for colonization. I suggest it would be almost exactly the same without Columbus.

It does sound as though you may have had a manic episode with all the traveling and spending and the hypersexuality. All of that is symptomatic of a deeper issue which is best treated with therapy, which you are already seeking and medication, which is likely to be a recommendation of the therapist. If you have the wherewithal to get back home and start living you new life, you should do that. You do not need the perfect therapist, you just need a therapist to get you started while you look for the perfect therapist. Saying that you need the perfect therapist assumes that there is such a thing and anything less is not worthwhile. Start moving in the right direction rather than spinning out of control. That is the best next step.

To him or the world?

Rumor has it he was shooting for 300 pounds and that he weighed 317 at his death. That most certainly played a role in his passing, not the weight, the substances likely used to get there.

I knew a girl named Rita who seemed to make even the impossible seem quite easy.

He and I have a very close relationship because I have been losing things and Anthony has been finding them for decades now.

I just usually pray to St. Jude....patron saint of lost causes or St. Anthony....patron saint of lost things returned.

"Thanks, I will consider that"

I think I made two reservations at Canyon Club just as I was leaving. Just left the deposit. It was their usual rate. If I did, and if you are interested I will check, then you may have the second one if that helps.