purplekow

If you want to bring someone with you, then by all means start early. If however, you are planning on meeting men who have also come to the parties, you will get a much better idea of who will actually be attending in the 4 to 6 weeks before the April parties. This last time, I arranged for an overnight with an escort who might not otherwise have come to Palm Springs. I did this well in advance and though there were a few bumps in the road to the meeting, in the end, it worked out well. I also had two other partners with whom I arranged shorter sessions in the weeks before. These worked out well. There was also one meeting which did not work out and one other meeting which occurred as a result of my spying him near the pool and making arrangements for the next day.

While that makes sense, pointing out all these years later that there was indeed a hot smart, built, sexy younger, slightly vunerable speedo wearing lawyer within training distance of my home, just seems unnecessarily hurtful. And as I recall, the only times you proposed, you had my dick in your mouth and it sounded as if you were saying something about being hairy not married.

Thanks for the many comments, but just to clarify, I am not actively pursuing such a relationship. The idea does hold some attraction but not enough that I would actively pursue it at this time. My question was if anyone was of the opinion that it could work. It seems most of you do not hold such an opinion. As part of my formulation of the question, I mentioned that I was aware I could cash it in and that there was a small but not totally ignorable chance that someone would try to collect early by nefarious means. But I appreciate the input. Just some extra fodder the plow while this sits in the back fields of my mind.

I really believe those women are not ladies. They do not respect common courtesy and encourage less than polite behavior. Next time, hold the fucking door for them and tell them if they do not like, they can run ahead and hold the door for you. Not very gentlemanly but at some point there should be a standard for polite behavior and you should not drop your standards to meet the misguided thoughts of gender politics of others.

So Steven, you had a handsome and well built young kind smart lawyer who was horny and looking for love and who who actually take a photo of himself in a speedo and within two train rides of my home and YOU did not even consider passing me the man's phone number. YOU SIR are out of the will.

My bed rarely gets made. First, I have about 10 pillows on my bed, so just getting them on and off the bed is time consuming. I have three dogs and just getting them off the bed is time consuming. I usually have a three or four old comforters with a mattress cover over the them and then the fitted sheet, getting them on the bed is time consuming, but worth the price in comfort. I then have a flat sheet and even in the summer, another comforter and sometimes a bed spread, getting them on and off the bed is also time consuming. I much prefer to hit the snooze alarm three times and take a nice long warm shower in the morning, The one time I do make the bed is if I am having a guest into my bed. Often I will ask them to help me make the bed and then urge them to assist me in messing it up again. If I have a new guest, I use a new set of sheets and a new comforter set. I usually use an inexpensive set from Bed Bath and Beyond for this. However it is brand new, so fresh and clean and no excess dog smell and no sex smell until we have put it there. I do have a more expensive set of sheets I will use if I want to treat myself, and a guest or not, to some extra luxury. Some people prefer to launder new sheets before use, I am not one of those people. I do not think anyone is surprised to learn this.

I received a text today from a friend who was recently divorced and has decided to retire to enjoy the single life. This sounds like a great idea, but the fact is that as hiring escorts is my main manner of obtaining sexual gratification with another person (masturbation still runs at #1 over all) i am not sure I could maintain a satisfactory hiring life if I retired. This is not a post to get ideas on how to get more free sex, rather, this is a post to see if this idea is too out there. At this point in my life, I have much more life insurance than I need. My wife has passed. I have no children. i have one or two needy relatives who I like and to whom I would like to leave substantive inheritance, but as to the rest, they may want more but I see no need to give them any. So it will be easy to continue to have two of the policies with those relatives as beneficiaries. I would divide my other worldly goods, such as they are, to friends and charitable organizations and of course, I would leave enough behind for the care for my dogs. That still leaves me with one paid up life insurance policy for about $500K and really no obvious recipient. Now my liquid assets should keep me comfortable as long as I die before I get uncomfortable. I could cash the policy and use it for mad money. Or perhaps, there may be an escort who would offer services against the eventual inheritance of that policy. Now I hate being worth more dead than alive to anyone, as it seems to give someone another reason to want to see me dead, other than the usual ones. But still, this idea holds some attraction for me. So, does anyone out there think that a well crafted contract with an escort to supply agreed upon services at an agreed upon maximum frequency, which would be paid off at the time of my passing by the insurance policy, is a tenable situation. I know some will dismiss this right off. Some will offer arguments why it is a bad idea for me or for the escort. But, really what I would like to know, if anyone thinks this could work. No need to preach about changing desires and such.

Hmmmm I guess my answer was not apathetic enough. Tried but failed.

Quick tally unchecked 7 Have stayed and 3 would stay and pay out of 33.

I suppose I am glad I am not in a 12 step program then.

Don't expect many answers.

What if he comes twice?

I only make my bed if I am going to lie in it.

I did not watch it but I did see a few minutes of the post game shows. What kept me watching for a bit longer than I would have, was David Beckham in his morning suit. I am not usually a fan of his, but on this occasion, I desperately wanted to get him out of the morning suit and into his birthday suit and fuck him for all eternity. http://people.com/royals/royal-wedding-victoria-beckham-david-beckham-arrive/

And would you do so in the future. No and No I do not believe this to be a political question, but move it there if it is felt that it is.

In theory. However, you are in theory paying for time not rigidity. I would keep a few Viagra around and ask if that might help the situation. As to and I quote you: "Just accept it and suck it up". That might just solve the problem, especially if you are good at sucking it up.

Ah Please add that to my thread on secret rooms. It is hard to imagine that it would be designed so that the toilet is difficult to locate. Seems like a good idea to have that particular room easily accessible.

Well there is a booming endorsement....it never fails to disappoint.

Dreams do come true.

I like to use a name when in the heat of passion. I will ask an escort on first meeting what name I should use as it makes the encounter seem less artificial. I know the real name may also be an alias, but illusion is everything. If they prefer to stay with the stage name I will often use a more generic term like muscle boy or cocksucker. Using the stage name makes me feel like each time I use it, I am reminding them that this is a paid encounter. I suppose some escorts are so used to the alias that it hardly seems like an alias to them.

I do not mind giving my name when it seems appropriate. If it were ever a term of interaction, I would be walking the other way. His reasons seem specious and I am suspicious that you are correct in that he is likely playing some type of game.

Micromanaging a get away weekend seems like a way to ruin it. By the way, if you are looking for submissive muscle, Draven Navarro is all that and a striped speedo full of sausage.

Oh I was not going to make a fuss about the end of the worlders stocking up on cold cuts for the upcoming apocalypse, only the line cutting bitch. lol I must admit if the line cutter had been a hot DILF in tight jeans and a large load of groceries in his basket, I probably would have just ogled the merchandise and slobbered a bit.

I woke up this morning and I was confused as to whether I found a large lump on my dog or if it was a dream. I was hesitant to even check the dog. Eventually, it turned out it was a dream and the dog is fine. He is still recovering from knee surgery and during my period of doubt, I kept thinking that if he really had a large lump they would have found it during the surgery. Have you ever awoken and not known whether something was real or a dream?

Bring the sun tan lotion and the lube.