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Speaking of Sicilians, here is an older guy that you may like. https://rent.men/JakeDaddy His profile shows 48 but he is likely well into his fifties and still very hot.

I agree. Everything I've read says about 50% have sensitive nipples but if that's the case, there sure are a lot of men that don't know what to do with them...and that includes most escorts in my experience.

Paying before services rendered? We don't do that for any other services so why would anyone do that in this situation? I don't pay my barber before he cuts my hair, I don't pay the kid down the street before he cuts my lawn and I don't tip a server in a restaurant before I've finished my meal. Over the years, I've probably had three guys ask for payment up front which I refused and the session continued as planned. Of all the industries, this is the one where people want to pay in advance?

He's fun once you meet him but he does tend to "forget" about appointments, often changes times, etc. I used to see him when he came into town but eventually stopped because of all the last minute scheduling changes. It got to be too much but otherwise I always had fun with him.

Has anyone actually met this guy? There are a couple of posts about him from several years ago but nobody mentions if they've actually met him. I've been communicating with him over the past four days and getting any info out of him is like pulling teeth. First red flag. He won't say where he is staying or even the area. Second red flag. He did finally give me his rates which are $120/hour for full service. Third red flag. He says he is Latin but only has a UK number. Fourth red flag? It sounds like this guy is a scammer but does have seven reviews on RM and the past posts had quite a few replies so was curious if anyone knows anything about him. Tks https://rent.men/HairyRugby

I've met him and would not repeat. Much more feminine than I was expecting so not my type. YMMV

Well.....considering that the police just busted a couple of guys in a hotel a few blocks from my home (one that is used by many of the escorts who come through town), I'm not sure it's accurate to say police don't care. If I remember correctly, it's happened quite a few times in Texas recently as well. I'll stick to the anonymous route.

Same here. I provide a description but would never provide a photo. I completely agree with Simon above. I'm paying $300+ for a service and in my opinion, that includes anonymity to some degree. I'm kind of surprised to read that so many other guys send their pics to an escort for what is still (unfortunately) an illegal activity. I've met enough crazy providers to know it is likely not in my best interest for them to have my photo and attached message asking about their rate and sexual interests. In all my years of hiring, I think I've been asked to send a photo twice. Both times I refused and they still saw me.

If studies are correct, the average is 5.17 inches erect and 95% of men fall into the 4-6" range. Only 1% are longer than 7 inches. It seems like a lot of the guys must measure from their navels.

I was referring to Carter Jay (DesnudoMassa). I haven't met StraightBoyJ.

The Carter Jay he references in the Youtube video is this guy: DesnudoMassa - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Midland, MI | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Midland, MI - DesnudoMassa: Carter Jay I've met him. Wow...quite a mess. One of my worst hires and I walked out.

He's never been in Michigan that I remember. If so, it must have been many years ago or he was here but not doing massage.

Exactly. I would definitely hire providers in their fifties and older but there are so few of them in this industry that I have little choice.

According to Rentmasseur, it shows him based out of Detroit again. Maybe the stint in Columbus didn't work out as well as planned.

LOL. Yes, that is very true. I forgot to mention that and just assumed he was losing his hearing to some extent. He does talk very loud.

I had the same experience. Despite discussing expectations in advance, he incorporated zero sensual/erotic elements into the massage. When I arrived at his hotel, he had bags of food all over the place, the room reeked of his dinner (which he was finishing when I arrived). As I was getting dressed, he must have sensed I was disappointed because he blocked me the minute I left his room. I guess he wanted to be sure he didn't get a negative review.

Sorry to hear about your experience. It sounds like something has definitely changed with him. I've known him for many years and used to see him quite often. He was always a power bottom in the past but seems like he is mainly/only a top now. As you experienced as well, the last couple of times I saw him his hygiene was was not good. The last time was horrible and so I quite seeing him. I understand certain things can happen but that wasn't the case here. This was literally not cleaning at all between clients.

It works for It works for me as well and I'm not a paying member.

Has anyone met with this provider? https://rent.men/GLprofessional He doesn't provide a phone number and his travel dates seem to change hourly which is usually a red flag, but hoping some of the guys in Dallas may know him.

That's definitely not me nor anyone else I know. Maybe that's common in NYC or other cities with large gay populations?

This is very unusual in Michigan and especially in Royal Oak which has a large gay community. This hotel is used by a lot of escorts so I'm sure the cops were already aware of what often goes on there. Sounds to me like this was a hire gone bad and the cops were called.

Thank you for bringing up Dean Hammer. My ex-partner was part of his original study back in the early 90's because he had a gay brother. I was asked to be part of the study because I too have an older gay brother but they had enough participants by the time I tried to sign up. We are both middle children. In the case of my ex, he was the youngest of four brothers and his gay brother was the eldest so they were the opposite. In regards to the potential maternal connection, my mom had three gay brothers so who knows, maybe there is something to that. At this point, nobody knows the reason but the topic comes up on this forum every few months with the usual characters insisting they "chose" their sexual orientation vs. "choosing" their actions/reaction to it. Can someone also explain the so-called "gay lifestyle" to me? I'm gay, my brother is gay..we both came out when we were in diapers. Never had any issues with sexual orientation or identity. Many or most of my friends and plenty of my family are gay. None of us (as far as we know) live a "gay lifestyle" and not really sure what that means. Does that mean we are in a gay relationship? If yes, then I guess we all live a gay lifestyle. Does that mean we use the word queer, watch Bravo, are only interested in going to the gym, walk around with our shirts off 90% of the time and call each other "Bitch"? I've known thousands of gay men during my life but I've never met anyone into that stuff. Every time I hear that term "gay lifestyle" I cringe-always wondering exactly what is meant by that.

....and to think that two years ago he was 18! LOL

He's been around for a long time. 'Don't know anyone who has met him though. Sorry.

Agreed....and I do consider that a luxury. Not too many other services we purchase that cost $300+/hour.