Brad0311

So I’ve been wanting to do this for some time, I want to create content that has intimacy, emotion and authenticity. 
 
I love role play and want to recreate some lifelong fantasies, recreate scenarios I wish had happened.
I think we all could use that today. 
(so yes this does belong in fetish;)

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Too bad the days of neighbor's son's washing cars and moving lawn to make some extra money during summer college break are long gone. Maybe he'll help me with my computer though? ?

LMT looking for clients in the Gwinnett/Walton area near Atlanta!!
DT, NMT, Sports massage, Swedish, Thai and Shiatsu.
3years exp!!

So I’ve been wanting to do this for some time, I want to create content that has intimacy, emotion and authenticity. 
 
I love role play and want to recreate some lifelong fantasies, recreate scenarios I wish had happened.
I think we all could use that today. 
(so yes this does belong in fetish;)

So I’ve been wanting to do this for some time, I want to create content that has intimacy, emotion and authenticity. 
 
I love role play and want to recreate some lifelong fantasies, recreate scenarios I wish had happened.
I think we all could use that today. 
(so yes this does belong in fetish;)

So I’ve been wanting to do this for some time, I want to create content that has intimacy, emotion and authenticity. 
 
I love role play and want to recreate some lifelong fantasies, recreate scenarios I wish had happened.
I think we all could use that today. 
(so yes this does belong in fetish;)

Not an oddity... Guys like to get spanked and others enjoy doing the spanking.
 
When spanking a guy I prefer to use a flexible slap-paddle or a stiff paddle as opposed to using a bare hand. It makes it easier for the top to go longer and harder.
 
There is a guy who attends the NY Bondage Club who is nicknamed "Spank Me". He brings his own collection of stiff paddles. Most are wood but others are of a firm rubberized material. He can be on the receiving end for what seems like an eternity. On more than one occasion my arm got tired out well before his butt did!
 
That explains why guys who are really into heavy spanking prefer something other than a bare hand. The Dom can go much longer. Yet some guys need the feel of a bare hand to get totally turned on.
 
I must also add that when playing the Dom it is hard work and quite tiring. One can work up quite a sweat as well. As such it is easier to use a more lethal weapon (stiff paddle or heavy leather flogger etc.) and go easier on the sub with it than a softer weapon (a bare hand or sissy suede flogger) and have to expend a lot of energy to satisfy the bottom's needs.
 
Just sayin' and giving the perspective from the other side of the equation that is not often considered.
 
PS to @honcho : Based on your above postings another perk for those who live in San Fran!

As a general rule, I've learned NOT to pick people apart whom I might not find Perfect, because I myself am an imperfect person and therefore have no right to judge. If they do not appeal to me, I move along..... Looking in the mirror each day humbles me.

Listen, you may feel unwelcome but I say, if you want to go, grab a chair, a sturdy one and sit your fat ass down in the middle of the party. If you hear one word about fat, or old or ugly, give them one big fat old ugly middle finger and advise them to rotate on it. I would not sacrifice my personal enjoyment just to mollify an ignorant individual who likely needs a few lessons at Miss Hardly's School of Etiquette, At that point it would be time to take off the shirt and show them what personal PRIDE is all about. If that skin is too fat, flabby, pockmarked or wrinkled, for the priss let him head out with the rest of the garbage cause I can be trashy but I am definitely not garbage,

https://mensvariety.com/gay-fat-pride-lgbt-skipping/
 
This is as true as the sun rising in the east.

If anyone posts that information here then it would not be “hidden”. Perhaps there is one in Whorelando. 

It definitely varies for different people. When I’ve done overnights, We would play a bit, go to dinner, watch a movie in bed together, have a drink, play some more, cuddle a bit, sleep, then wake up with some play, have breakfast. Like I said it varies and depends on what the client wants to experience. I’ve also gone to see an art Exhibit with a client as part of the overnight. Just do whatever you’re comfortable with.  ❤️❤️❤️Hope this helps

I've only done one overnight so far, and while it could have gone many different ways, we actually had a great time. Proof: We became friends and spent a few non-business times together before he quit the industry and moved to a different state with his now-fiancé.
Anyway, during our overnight, we played five times (not all penetrative and to completion though). We went for drinks at a rooftop bar, had dinner at a Belgian restaurant, and passed by a small art gallery. It helped that we clicked—our conversations never stalled.
Don't feel like you have to do an overnight, even if it's with a provider that you see on a regular basis. They're like our friends: Many of them we are happy to have around, but we do not want to spend more than a day with them.

In my experience the company is really the reason for an overnight, not 12 or so hours of action. It’s about being with someone you feel comfortable with to chat, eat, relax, bathe, walk, and of course get intimate with each other over the course of the session. Clients book it as an escape from normal life. 

When I've had overnight hires, it has been a mix of activity.  Usually, it involves meeting and having some bedroom play before going to dinner, then returning back for another round of play time.  That can include sharing a bottle of wine in the bath.  By the time I'm ready to sleep, there may be some cuddling as we unwind.  It's about 50/50 whether or not there is any intimacy in the morning.  
Another overnight scenario I enjoy includes going to dinner and a show - whether a play or musical, a concert, or a bar with live entertainment.   Just something that I would enjoy, but usually prefer to not attend solo.

Not every provider needs to offer every service. Sounds like overnights may not be a good match for you, and that’s fine. 
 
Kevin Slater 

Like everyone has said, you won’t find a divinitie answer. Every city is different. Abs every trip to every city is different. Abs this goes for every escort. My best advice is to travel to cities where you stand out a little. But it may just be worth it to travel to see which cities stick.

I don't think you'll have any definitive answers. But I think part of the success of an escort relates to finding a "niche" that sets you a part from others in the market. To me that would be pretty difficult in a city like New York, LA or Las Vegas (or any city that has more than say 10 pages of Rent.Men ads) where there are established escorts that have pretty strong identities and lots of regular clients.
 
In that regard I think some of the more mid-size cities could be appealing because in many cases you would stand out a bit more among the sea of ads. I live in Denver and we typically have 3-4 pages of ads, allowing one to really kind of browse through the whole selection and seeing what's out there. Plus I feel like because there is 3-4 pages of ads, that must mean there is enough demand for both local and traveling escorts. And if a city has very few ads that maybe suggests there is just not a lot of clients there (but perhaps there are and they will appreciate you visiting).
 
I don't think even what I said is definitive but hopefully it maybe helps a little bit. I am a client and travel a lot to different cities and have talked to many escorts about the business, so that's kinda what I'm basing this on.

It's great to know favorites and to recognize that some are outside of major cities.

Off to the Fetish group with you! 🤣

Save it! Invest it! Pay part of rent with that. 
Unfortunately, I know many escorts who retired with absolutely nothing, but I don't want to drag this into another subject.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph562a9d4ee48e7
 
Saw this S &M video and towards the end has a choking scene. Considering the accidental deaths, just wondering anyone into this and can it be done safely?

Which subreddits do you recommend?

Great recommendation !
 
I’ve just recently gotten serious about setting up meets on Reddit in the last 2 weeks and gotten lots of interest in the Sugar Relationships subs as well as three niche <cough> subs for certain special interests. My experience thus far is there’s a fairly high flake factor - I met my first contact face to face only yesterday - but there’s lots of opportunity.

I’m bi and I LOVE the risqué straight guy gets convinced to try something. Like the old Hancock videos. Where is the new Hancock? Or even ones where guys get paid to try stuff. But they are always so overtly fake and it’s clear that these are gay men.
 
I remember going for a massage as a young man that I innocently thought was legit until he spent an overt amount of time around and IN my hole!
 
In the old days I would do the GHs and BJ offers from CL and sometimes get more.