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compared to New York, LA and Chicago?  look around dude we're not safe in our own country.  

I went two Fridays ago and yeah, you're right, not worth it for strippers. The guys just stood standing around a table and I saw only a few of them sitting with patrons but not really doing anything. The show was pretty entertaining though and I did get to meet a cute guy from Sinaloa. It was honestly just another gay club to me not a stripper bar. Also the area is really sketchy, the taxi drivers outside the bar chased my Uber off and then other Uber drivers refused to pick me up cause they said that area is too dangerous. 

Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.

I'm going to TJ this weekend. How are the boys? It looks like they have new guys. From what I'm seeing on their Facebook, it's mostly twinks and twunks? Did you see any bodybuilder types?
As for private nude dances, you just have to ask for a "privado" which are given in the small rooms behind the door next to the bar. The cost is $35 dlls or 600 pesos to the bar and a tip for the dancer which can range from $40-$150 depending on the dancer's popularity and what you decide to do back there. 

It’s comical how there is complete silence from our posters who wailed for four years that a recession was coming (it never happened). Now that the stock market is in free-fall mode, unemployment is rising, consumer confidence is collapsing, and we are almost surely entering a recession…it’s crickets from the peanut gallery. Anyone surprised about that?
Separately,  what are poster’s views on if the administration might get spooked with the reaction to recent actions and possibly reverse course on the tariffs?  

Wait, you're allowed and kiss and suck on their dicks during the lap dances?

I would agree with this sentiment.  When in Rome, as it goes.
As a traveler, you cannot always expect the world to cater to you.  It's that lost in translation quirkiness that can create some of the best memories...  If you give it the chance.
Always remember, there's more to life than the comfortable little bubble you've created for yourself.
 
 

Ah, I see.  Then no need to worry about visiting Egypt.  You might be recognizable as a crusade fighter at home, but no one on the streets of Egypt will recognize you.
Advice for men reading this thread considering a holiday in the Middle East:  just as people complain about "those obnoxious Americans" wearing T shirts from their home town, there's no need to wear a Rainbow flag everywhere you go.  It's okay to try a different wardrobe to look and act appropriate to the situation, especially on foreign travel.  Leave your crusade at home while on holiday abroad... It'll still be there when you get back. 
I had a lovely time in Cairo on a tour bus full of gay men.

"The lighting needs to be better so I can see what race someone is before I can tell whether I'm attracted to them" is a crazy thing to say.

"The lighting needs to be better so I can see what race someone is before I can tell whether I'm attracted to them" is a crazy thing to say.

"The lighting needs to be better so I can see what race someone is before I can tell whether I'm attracted to them" is a crazy thing to say.

I identify as Mr.America.  Does that make it so?  Not responding any further to your question as it is a political topic. 

Johnson's is a quality act.  Women aren't allowed in the "VIP" area at Johnson's. Which means women aren't allowed private lap dances. 
$1,000 is not worth the liability from an opposite sex #MeToo lawsuit.

Just checked him out on X - what a lowlife 

Matt sent no pics at the dancer’s request. He wants to be anonymous. And no phones were allowed out at the event. So it would be completely inappropriate for anyone to post his picture here. 

Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.

I just realized it's a different link and name but he's still advertising: 
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Bendito Cabron used to be men only but now it opens up on women because they have drag events but the clientele is still primarily 90% men.

Yes and it was extremely lame. I went to the first one and skipped the second because I just knew it wouldn't be worth it. The cover is $40 for US Citizens and the club got packed from wall to wall. It was impossible to get a drink or even walk around. The dancer to client ratio was 1:25 which made it extremely difficult to get a lap dance not to mention all of the seats and booths were either reserved in advance or in use so you had to settle for a "standing" lap dance. I went to one of the last Club Papis at Club Extasis back in 2018 and they were way better. I would just stick to their normal men-only nights, it's the same thing but less crowded and more fun.

Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.

Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.

Thanks for the heads up!

Yes and it was extremely lame. I went to the first one and skipped the second because I just knew it wouldn't be worth it. The cover is $40 for US Citizens and the club got packed from wall to wall. It was impossible to get a drink or even walk around. The dancer to client ratio was 1:25 which made it extremely difficult to get a lap dance not to mention all of the seats and booths were either reserved in advance or in use so you had to settle for a "standing" lap dance. I went to one of the last Club Papis at Club Extasis back in 2018 and they were way better. I would just stick to their normal men-only nights, it's the same thing but less crowded and more fun.

Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.

Yes, I'm a huge fan of TJ as a destination for both escort services and strip clubs. The gay equivalent of the hetero Hong Kong is Premier Men's Club. Personally, I think it's currently experiencing an ebb and isn't what it once was. They have some really hot guys but a majority of them are just average. Most of the top Premier dancers have left TJ and immigrated to the US and now work in LA bars as gogo dancers (Lalo O'Conner, Noel Alberto, Yancarlo of Club Papi). It's still a fun time especially during Solo Para Hombre nights when only men are allowed and the guys are more open to doing stuff during lap dances. There's also small gay bars that have gogo dancers. Bendito Cabron is a new bar that opened up last year that has hotter guys than Premier IMHO. I would caution that crossing the border from TJ to back to the USA is an absolute clusterfuck atm and may take more than 3 hours because of the current border situation and CBP staffing shortages. Also, ever since the pandemic ended, TJ has seen less American tourists and you're more likely to get stopped and extorted for money by the police. I never had this happen to me before the pandemic but it's happened to me twice just in 2023 alone.