Jayson03

I remember seeing this guy over 10 years ago. He was based in Uptown or Edgewater. As I recall he did a massage and shower scrub combo. I did one session and he seemed pleasant enough. I scheduled a second session and showed up for the session. He completely ghosted without any explanation or communication. I didn’t seek anything further than massage so can’t comment on other elements. 

Thank you @bichiguyand @chgobrtfor the advice. 

I am sorry that you have to go through all of this. It is upsetting when people take such direct and personal action. The anxiety caused by these events can be horrible. I hope you have a trusted friend that you can share with who help you handle the emotional side of this experience. If it goes beyond that maybe consider a therapist or counselor.

https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/spas/Spa-Avania/home.html
very large spa with excellent services. The salt water pool is really unique and relaxing. 

Had a great time with him in Chicago this week.  Sweet kid!  

My experience some years ago was a little like @MassageDrew  I had signed up for a 120 min massage & facial. He did a good job with the facial but then when he turned to massage it seemed to be focused on a few areas. I had told him my trouble spots and his response was “we will see if we get time to address them.” I knew it was a purely therapeutic massage and was asking for work on my neck. He really focused on my back and that was it. After that I never back for another session. It just seemed customer service was not his skill. I wonder if the new erotic massage option is the result of a low customer return rate. 

Boinextdoor will entertain edging requests 

I had a massage from a therapist in NYC who did this. He started with a relatively standard massage with me on my stomach. He then oiled himself and sort of slid his body around my back. It was interesting and then he had me flip over and did the same. Now in this configuration it was less comfortable as he at time slid over my hips and it hurt slightly. So this dampened the erotic factor. It then ended with an HE and then a shower together. We didn’t make out.  I wasn’t really enthralled with the treatment so I have never sought out nuru since then. But I have no idea if this is a true representation of the technique.