StarQualityLuke

honestly, I never look at any map that might be offered in any profile......most are inaccurate (City Hall or the main PO are common defaults) and it's always best to communicate directly with the provider and ask about incall/outcall options and actual incall location/neighborhood......their location on a profile map is certainly not a deciding factor for me!!

And a great masseur asks what type of music you'd prefer, as well as how much light you'd like. 👍

This is certainly the category that I fall into. Pros who do sensual work are difficult to find, primarily because professionals risk losing their license if they are caught (reported) for doing sensual/sexual work. Training and licensing are not cheap, so I understand why many wish to play it safe. If you lose your license, you close the door on so many work opportunities. For this reason, I understand the need to read between the lines. The may be the only venue where that is possible.

Yes

This topic has come up many times.  The real answer is that there is no "agreed upon" or standard definition.  If you want to know more about what a specific masseur offers, you need to ask him  and/or check what his clients have had to say about him.

Simon is one of the good ones 😁

Simon is one of the good ones 😁

You send your review to your masseur, then they upload it to the system.   Hope that helps...   I believe 1 review permitted per every 2-3 months, which to me seems odd. 
 
 

You send your review to your masseur, then they upload it to the system.   Hope that helps...   I believe 1 review permitted per every 2-3 months, which to me seems odd. 
 
 

Simon is one of the good ones 😁

As a client, I sometimes feel like other clients minimize an escort's concern for safety. Sure, a texted face pic could be BS and doesn't guarantee safety. But, how many of us we welcome a stranger into our home or hotel room sight unseen? Of course, we don't want to feel like a provider is screening us out (though I often think that's for the best), but I'm sure providers also get cat fished and deal with nutty clients. So perhaps we can all be a bit more empathic? 

Love the slow sensuality of this one:
 
https://www.xvideos.com/video78737079/eddie_danger_gets_a_happy_ending_massage
 

Well... My take is, a security and safety... But I know some others just want "hot clients".. Asking for a pic to judge someone, no that is not fair, however for safety it's viable. 
 
 

Best way to go about it is ask for exactly what you want and see what he says. Clients are usually too chicken to ask but that saves everyone time. That cuts through any ambiguity in the ad.
Also have realistic expectations about pricing; don’t clutch your pearls when someone offers you a higher level of service for a higher rate.
Be kind when he tells you what you want is not on offer. Accept that politely and move on. 

That is Hot 🥵
But cover the table with a sheet😁

You guys are paranoid. Maybe the provider just wants to know who he is inviting into his home.

I think it depends on context.  If they want a pic before appointment scheduling, then no.  If they want a pic after appointment confirmed, then I’d probably send it because I can understand it from a security point of view - but I would only do that if meeting the person at their home or hotel. 
Scheduling with a new provider requires a certain amount of trust.  If you’re going into their environment whether home or hotel - they could easily record the entire session and you’d never know.  Thats the reality. 

Exactly Simon! 
I work hard for reviews,  they serve as reference to me, and my work.  I would never want some service to draft up "form" reviews.... 

Exactly Simon! 
I work hard for reviews,  they serve as reference to me, and my work.  I would never want some service to draft up "form" reviews.... 

Ditto... 
Well just learn from this..... I had a guy had to go to a bank... But he said I'm leaving my laptop with you.... He returned.    Chin up... 

^Yes, this is correct. MasseurFinder requires the client to email their review content to the masseur, and for the masseur to copy and paste the content to the site for their AI system to screen for sexual language, etc before MF will post it publicly on the client’s behalf.
MF tells us masseurs to keep records of the emails in case they audit us, should anything come into question. It’s a loosely goosey honor system with little accountability. The only accountability is the audit. Also, there’s nothing stopping a masseur from filtering out negative reviews a clients sends them. A client would be unlikely to email a negative review directly to the masseur in the first place. In theory, a masseur can make a fake email and send a review from that email to their regular email and then submit it to MF. I’ve never done this, but it occurred to me now that I’m thinking about it. That email trail, fabricated though it may be, would still pass the audit as far as I can tell. I only have two MF reviews, because they make it so difficult and roundabout for clients to leave reviews.
MF limits the number of reviews we can post in any given timeframe, like once a quarter, or once a month, at most - I can’t remember which.
MF is the least reliable review system because of the way it’s set up. You will see nothing but positive reviews on that platform. A masseur would literally have to intentionally post a negative review of himself for it to go through.
On RentMasseur, clients can post directly, and include negative comments without a hitch. The only catch is that the client has to have at least one mutual exchange with the masseur using RentMasseur’s messaging system before the site will allow the client to post a review. I haven’t had the need to remove a malicious review yet, so I don’t know the process for getting a review taken down. We are able to respond once briefly to the review comment, so we have the opportunity to clarify anything unfair or inaccurate about the review, such as the client demanded a huge discount that we never advertised or offered, or was a no-show, or did not book with us, or lied about something, demanded escort service for massage pricing, or was unreasonable or violent or threatening or whatever the case may be.
All my reviews are unsolicited. I asked one client one time for a review and he agreed to write one, but I felt gross about it, and the client never wrote the review and never saw me again, even though he said it was the best massage of his life and that he planned to return. I think the effort of writing a review was a barrier for him to return. Good clients take the time to write an unsolicited positive review and I truly appreciate when they do.
Since that one time, I’ve never asked for, much less incentivized, any reviews. My approach is that I have nothing to worry about since I know I do a great job and give every client my all. I take pride in my work, and my 100% unsolicited reviews stand on their own, typos and all. If anyone wants to post something wildly inaccurate or malicious for some reason, it will stand as the lone off color comment among many glowing reviews across a several platforms. The best place to review me is on Booksy. I have the most reviews there, and again it’s all 100% unsolicited and real people writing real reviews. 
^This is inaccurate. See above. The masseur is the one who submits the client review content to MF. If the masseur doesn’t like a review a client sends to them by email, they can simply choose to not post it. Are you sure you’re not confusing MasseurFINDER with RENTmasseur? I could see that happening on RentMasseur, but it’s simply untrue of MasseurFinder. I haven’t had to ask RentMasseur to remove a review, so I don’t know the process for that. It would have to be something truly malicious and outrageous for me to need to do that. Someone saying they didn’t like my massage or style or personality or something like that is not enough to merit taking a review down. Clients should hear all the opinions and decide for themselves. Reviews keep us accountable and encourage us to do better, get better, and stay honest.

Reviews are monitored on MF, some things won't get through.  They are particular.  RM you need to establish contact with the massage therapist through their platform by sending email message, in order for a review to be validated.    Hope that helps. 😁

Reviews are monitored on MF, some things won't get through.  They are particular.  RM you need to establish contact with the massage therapist through their platform by sending email message, in order for a review to be validated.    Hope that helps. 😁

Trust your instincts, ask the right questions. 

If I remember correctly when I advertised on MassageM4M from 2008-2016 if a client wrote a review about us then support would send us an email letting us know. At that point we had the ability to publish or reject the review. Rentmasseur is not that way, we do not have the ability to edit or reject the review. If the review is a false and malicious review with intent to discredit then we might be able to dispute that with the support team.