Hotels, Security, Initial Meet Location?

[+ Keith30309]

PLEASE write a full review == How awful!

I seriously thought about it - there were some other elements that were pretty awful - but I honestly believed that he had mental health issues. He spoke of having "good days" (I inferred that meant he also had Bad Days and I wondered which I was experiencing).

 

It really didn't feel right to tag someone who was ill with an indelible ink stain in the form of a damning review.

His profile disappeared for a while but it's back up on RM in ATL. I sincerely hope he's doing well.

[Trick]

You still have not explained why you pull such a stunt on these providers in the first place.

 

At first it started as a way to see if the provider was the one on the ad. It somehow evolved into this “game” I play. I don’t think I’m hurting anyone.

 

The providers I’ve done it to seemed okay with it.

 

I myself don’t know exactly why I do it. I guess there’s a sense of thrill that I get from it.

[MikeBiDude]

For me security, door men, valet parking are all deal breakers.

What??? You’re missing out on last minute opportunities! While I don’t think it’s ever happened with a security guy.....door men and valets (and bellmen and room service attendants) have been great resources for fun for me!

[+ FrankR]

Its a catch 22, I'm all for heightened security, doormen, card keys to hotels, as it provides a safer experience for both parties. Although does anyone get a little shy/paranoid meeting downstairs and feeling like everyone is looking at you and thinking they know this young kid is about to go upstairs and have sex with this older hot gentlemen, kinda hot in a way lol. I always feels weird meeting someone after midnight and having to say my name to a doormen after midnight lol

If it makes you feel better, you could dress up as a Dominos delivery guy and no one will spare you a second glance... Dont forget the pie - i think you will find that we enjoy ours with extra sausage, if you please!!

[Kenny]

Give it a while. Like 10 years. It'll be funny eventually.

Comedy = tragedy + time

[spider]

Since we’re sharing stories, one of my first hires was an incall at his hotel. A major corporate hotel with a convention going on. He texted that the elevators were locked and he’d meet me in the lobby. I arrived, early of course, somewhat nervous in a newbie sort of way. The lobby was a SEA of people. After probably a minute but what seemed like hours a guy who I instantly recognized from his pics emerged from the elevator. The doors closed and he said “good we have the elevator to ourselves” and almost raped me (in a good way) then and there. LOL

[AJ Doyle]

I cut way back on traveling for the past 10 years, but now becoming more active. Historically, there came a soft knock on my hotel room door, meaning my guest had arrived. And, if I stayed on a limited access floor, or if they heightened security at night, a rentguy balked at the need to meet in the lobby, casino, or.....?

 

I was in Las Vegas recently. Returning soon. No access to elevators without a guest room key. I'm sure heightened security is affecting more than LV.... (Here in SF, 5+ years now, no access to any business office high rises without employee ID or security check-in.)

 

So I'm wondering how or where rentguys prefer to meet hotel clients when they can't just go directly to the room. And, similar question for hotel hosting when security restricts clients' access to hotel rooms.

I am fine going straight to the room or meeting in the lobby. Or meeting in the bar to have a drink beforehand is cool too (as long as the time start with the bar meeting). It's more personal to meet in lobby or hotel bar though and get to know each other a little before you get to the room. I have a regular that to this day still meets me in the lobby. And I really love it.

[LaffingBear]

Met someone in Vegas this week. He retains hotel keycards ... for when security consists of flashing a card for the elevator lobby security guard. He's aware it doesnt work on auto card-reader elevator activation.

[AJ Doyle]

Its a catch 22, I'm all for heightened security, doormen, card keys to hotels, as it provides a safer experience for both parties. Although does anyone get a little shy/paranoid meeting downstairs and feeling like everyone is looking at you and thinking they know this young kid is about to go upstairs and have sex with this older hot gentlemen, kinda hot in a way lol. I always feels weird meeting someone after midnight and having to say my name to a doormen after midnight lol

They could just think you are meeting your uncle....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dwaNnfxIs0

[AJ Doyle]

If it makes you feel better, you could dress up as a Dominos delivery guy and no one will spare you a second glance... Dont forget the pie - i think you will find that we enjoy ours with extra sausage, if you please!!

OMG I LOVE this idea!!! It's kinda Hot!

[+ StLouisOct]

I am fine going straight to the room or meeting in the lobby. Or meeting in the bar to have a drink beforehand is cool too (as long as the time start with the bar meeting). It's more personal to meet in lobby or hotel bar though and get to know each other a little before you get to the room. I have a regular that to this day still meets me in the lobby. And I really love it.

I’m always into a romantic BFE and I’ve found that seeing a guy approaching from across the lobby adds to that experience. Kissing in an empty elevator is good too. All nice introductions to the main event in the room.

[cany10011]

When i know the hotel has extra security, i try to make it as easy for the guy to come visit. If it means meeting a little earlier without the additional scrutiny of late night security, i am willing to do so. Otherwise, if it is a floor that requires key card entry, then i will usually meet him in the lobby and give him some info about me before hand so he isn't meeting a "stranger".

[cany10011]

Its a catch 22, I'm all for heightened security, doormen, card keys to hotels, as it provides a safer experience for both parties. Although does anyone get a little shy/paranoid meeting downstairs and feeling like everyone is looking at you and thinking they know this young kid is about to go upstairs and have sex with this older hot gentlemen, kinda hot in a way lol. I always feels weird meeting someone after midnight and having to say my name to a doormen after midnight lol

 

 

I sometimes like to sit in hotel lobbies and guess which visitors are "working boys" . Usually easier to sort out the "working girls" but had a few fun times guessing which boys are there for an hourly appointment.

[mike carey]

I sometimes like to sit in hotel lobbies and guess which visitors are "working boys" .

I must try that some time!

[DMICS]

I'm all for security, especially at hotels.

 

Its just annoying having to go through that extra step, even when visiting friends at condos. Some you can just buzz up, but with the rapid rate condos are being built in my city, more and more you can't get in or use the elevator without a key card/fob.

[AJ Doyle]

I sometimes like to sit in hotel lobbies and guess which visitors are "working boys" . Usually easier to sort out the "working girls" but had a few fun times guessing which boys are there for an hourly appointment.

I do sometimes wonder if others are wondering that about me.... LOL I don't think anyone would guess that about me, but I wonder.

[David1024]

I usually hire when I'm traveling, and host at my hotel. I find that most hotel elevators require a room key for access, but even when they don't, meeting in the hotel lobby is a nice neutral area to meet. When I'm meeting an escort for the first time and I get a text that he's on his way over, I generally tell him I'll meet him in the lobby and that I'm wearing a red t-shirt, or whatever. The second time I hired an escort was at a hotel in London that had open elevators, so I just gave they guy my room number and told him to come on up. When he arrived, I guess he looked a bit lost and one of the lobby staff asked if they could help, he said he was visiting a guest in room #, and they asked for the last name of the guest before letting him in the elevator, which of course he did not know. Pretty obvious to the hotel staff what was going on there, and I learned from that experience that it's better to take control of the situation. I find that the walk from the lobby to my room is a nice little ice breaker with someone new.

[MikeBiDude]

I usually hire when I'm traveling, and host at my hotel. I find that most hotel elevators require a room key for access, but even when they don't, meeting in the hotel lobby is a nice neutral area to meet. When I'm meeting an escort for the first time and I get a text that he's on his way over, I generally tell him I'll meet him in the lobby and that I'm wearing a red t-shirt, or whatever. The second time I hired an escort was at a hotel in London that had open elevators, so I just gave they guy my room number and told him to come on up. When he arrived, I guess he looked a bit lost and one of the lobby staff asked if they could help, he said he was visiting a guest in room #, and they asked for the last name of the guest before letting him in the elevator, which of course he did not know. Pretty obvious to the hotel staff what was going on there, and I learned from that experience that it's better to take control of the situation. I find that the walk from the lobby to my room is a nice little ice breaker with someone new.

I do almost exactly the same..I like getting to the lobby a few minutes early if I can, scope out the crowd and get an early look at my gentleman caller as he arrives.

[+ VictorPowers]

I usually hire when I'm traveling, and host at my hotel. I find that most hotel elevators require a room key for access, but even when they don't, meeting in the hotel lobby is a nice neutral area to meet. When I'm meeting an escort for the first time and I get a text that he's on his way over, I generally tell him I'll meet him in the lobby and that I'm wearing a red t-shirt, or whatever. The second time I hired an escort was at a hotel in London that had open elevators, so I just gave they guy my room number and told him to come on up. When he arrived, I guess he looked a bit lost and one of the lobby staff asked if they could help, he said he was visiting a guest in room #, and they asked for the last name of the guest before letting him in the elevator, which of course he did not know. Pretty obvious to the hotel staff what was going on there, and I learned from that experience that it's better to take control of the situation. I find that the walk from the lobby to my room is a nice little ice breaker with someone new.

Fake it 'til you make it! I have entered hotels with confusing layouts. In those instances, I just walk confidently in a specific direction and make an "educated guess" on the location of the elevators.

[marylander1940]

I usually hire when I'm traveling, and host at my hotel. I find that most hotel elevators require a room key for access, but even when they don't, meeting in the hotel lobby is a nice neutral area to meet. When I'm meeting an escort for the first time and I get a text that he's on his way over, I generally tell him I'll meet him in the lobby and that I'm wearing a red t-shirt, or whatever. The second time I hired an escort was at a hotel in London that had open elevators, so I just gave they guy my room number and told him to come on up. When he arrived, I guess he looked a bit lost and one of the lobby staff asked if they could help, he said he was visiting a guest in room #, and they asked for the last name of the guest before letting him in the elevator, which of course he did not know. Pretty obvious to the hotel staff what was going on there, and I learned from that experience that it's better to take control of the situation. I find that the walk from the lobby to my room is a nice little ice breaker with someone new.

 

I know some escorts who won't go to a place without a specific room number.

[+ bashful]

Fake it 'til you make it! I have entered hotels with confusing layouts. In those instances, I just walk confidently in a specific direction and make an "educated guess" on the location of the elevators.

 

My one and only outcall to my hotel was in Miami. I never thought to just give a room number. I told him when he walked into the hotel, walk straight pass the front desk to elevators further down the hall on the left.

 

Another guy I met a few times for an incall at his hotel, each time at a different hotel, has always told me how to get to the elevators.

[+ Travis69]

So im assuming when escorts host at their place that they have no doormen, because I couldn't picture a multitude of older gentlemen popping day in and day out without their being suspicion. Most client i meet live in doormen building however clients see much less people than the amount of people an escort sees so it wouldn't be as odd for clients.

Tip the doormen well and they won't care what you're doing in your apt.

[marylander1940]

I'm all for security, especially at hotels.

 

Its just annoying having to go through that extra step, even when visiting friends at condos. Some you can just buzz up, but with the rapid rate condos are being built in my city, more and more you can't get in or use the elevator without a key card/fob.

 

it's annoying when they have to come down to let you in... it keeps the elevators busy too.

[+ FrankR]

Tip the doormen well and they won't care what you're doing in your apt.

True. You can also tell them that you are a "financial advisor" - that way you explain the traffic and have a legitimate reason to screw 'em (over)....

[+ Pensant]

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Ooh, Victor!