spending extra time with escort

[adltst]

I like to hire, but not spend all my time in hotel room. It can be fun and interesting to get to know someone a little.

 

I am looking to hire an escort in Las Vegas soon. He charges $300 for one hour and $500 for two. I was thinking about offering $500 and asking for three hours, but one of those hours would be for dinner at a nice restaurant or buffet, my treat, of course. Am I out of line to ask this? Thanks!

[MiamiLooker]

I like to hire, but not spend all my time in hotel room. It can be fun and interesting to get to know someone a little.

 

I am looking to hire an escort in Las Vegas soon. He charges $300 for one hour and $500 for two. I was thinking about offering $500 and asking for three hours, but one of those hours would be for dinner at a nice restaurant or buffet, my treat, of course. Am I out of line to ask this? Thanks!

Why not just pay his fee for three hours?

[mike carey]

I like to hire, but not spend all my time in hotel room. It can be fun and interesting to get to know someone a little.

 

I am looking to hire an escort in Las Vegas soon. He charges $300 for one hour and $500 for two. I was thinking about offering $500 and asking for three hours, but one of those hours would be for dinner at a nice restaurant or buffet, my treat, of course. Am I out of line to ask this? Thanks!

You're not out of line asking but you are if you expect him to agree. Some escorts will have dinner off the clock after an appointment, others will not, or will strike a different rate where dinner is part of the overall meeting. Just remember you are paying for his time regardless of what you do in that time. There are some clients here whose standard approach is to describe the whole meeting they wish to have, which may include a meal, and ask the escort for his price.

[Kris Parkes]

I like to hire, but not spend all my time in hotel room. It can be fun and interesting to get to know someone a little.

 

I am looking to hire an escort in Las Vegas soon. He charges $300 for one hour and $500 for two. I was thinking about offering $500 and asking for three hours, but one of those hours would be for dinner at a nice restaurant or buffet, my treat, of course. Am I out of line to ask this? Thanks!

 

I agree with Mike Carey. But Adltst, on the flip side, how about you book a guy for 2 hours, and he shows up and expects to be paid for two hours, but then says he can only stay for one hour (yet still expecting to be paid for two hours). How would that work for you?

[LaffingBear]

I agree with Mike Carey. But Adltst, on the flip side, how about you book a guy for 2 hours, and he shows up and expects to be paid for two hours, but then says he can only stay for one hour (yet still expecting to be paid for two hours). How would that work for you?

Dont pay in advance. Dont pay for what wasnt provided.

[Quincy_7]

I don't know if it's a cultural thing but when I was in the UK, I only paid an hour for each escort I had and yet I definitely spent at least an hour and a half with each of them. Those boys definitely aren't clock watchers.

[+ Eric Hassan]

I like to hire, but not spend all my time in hotel room. It can be fun and interesting to get to know someone a little.

 

I am looking to hire an escort in Las Vegas soon. He charges $300 for one hour and $500 for two. I was thinking about offering $500 and asking for three hours, but one of those hours would be for dinner at a nice restaurant or buffet, my treat, of course. Am I out of line to ask this? Thanks!

 

I highly recommend that if you plan on being with your guy for 3 hours, you do one of two things: either pay him his fee for 3 hours, or ask him for a 2 hour appointment with an offer of dinner off the clock afterwards. Asking to spend 3 hours with someone and saying you'll only pay for 2 ... well, how does that sound to you?

[Kris Parkes]

Dont pay in advance. Dont pay for what wasnt provided.

 

My comment was purely hypothetical, but don't miss the point, which is don't expect an extra hour.

 

Quincy_7: It's not about watching a clock, but it is about being mindful and respectful of time. I definitely allow some appointments to run over time if/when they need to. But a client should not expect that it will occur all the time.

[adltst]

Thanks for the replies. Very helpful. I don't want to be rude or take advantage. I appreciate your help.

 

BTW, am I asking for something unusual? I'd like to get to know someone a little, spend an hour or two together before going upstairs.

Edited May 8, 2018 by adltst

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Thanks for the replies. Very helpful. I don't want to be rude or take advantage. I appreciate your help.

 

BTW, am I asking for something unusual? I'd like to get to know someone a little, spend an hour or two together before going upstairs.

No that is not unusual to want to talk, but that is “on the clock”, by default.

[+ Funguy]

Am I jaded or what? Just about every appointment I have is 2 hours (occasionally 3) and I always offer to take my guy out to lunch or dinner afterwards. It's never on the clock though the subject/issue has never come up. We settle, then we go out and have a fun meal. Those who don't have the time or inclination simply say they are not available. No one has ever said, "By the way, that'll be another $200"!

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Am I jaded or what? Just about every appointment I have is 2 hours (occasionally 3) and I always offer to take my guy out to lunch or dinner afterwards. It's never on the clock though the subject/issue has never come up. We settle, then we go out and have a fun meal. Those who don't have the time or inclination simply say they are not available. No one has ever said, "By the way, that'll be another $200"!

 

I have asked a couple of guys to dinner after an appointment. Usually after the massage and I am getting dressed there is some chatting. I simply state, hey, I am going to grab some Thai food. If you don't have plans, would you like to join me? For traveling guys it has worked every time.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I have asked a couple of guys to dinner after an appointment. Usually after the massage and I am getting dressed there is some chatting. I simply state, hey, I am going to grab some Thai food. If you don't have plans, would you like to join me? For traveling guys it has worked every time.

I agree, I often works like this, afterwards, if they have nothing else to do. But it looks like the OP wanted to spend time to know them before the act.

[+ VictorPowers]

Am I jaded or what? Just about every appointment I have is 2 hours (occasionally 3) and I always offer to take my guy out to lunch or dinner afterwards. It's never on the clock though the subject/issue has never come up. We settle, then we go out and have a fun meal. Those who don't have the time or inclination simply say they are not available. No one has ever said, "By the way, that'll be another $200"!

Alternatively they could bring a taxi meter that'll charge the appropriate rate while out and about.

[+ purplekow]

A man has got to eat. He does not have to eat with you. So if you definitely want to spend the time, pay for it. If you are simply asking because he is not from town and may want some company, by all means ask.

I have asked several escorts out for a meal after our appointment. Most have said yes and others have said no. I must admit, I have not has an escort ask me out after a meet. I think if that did happen, I might get so aroused as to have to ask for another appointment afterwards.

By the way, an overnight rate might be the best deal for an encounter, a meal and another encounter.

[Cody Converse]

I agree, I often works like this, afterwards, if they have nothing else to do. But it looks like the OP wanted to spend time to know them before the act.

 

I think this is the key differential. This question seems sort of like the guy who asked about a meet-and-greet before the actual "appointment;" I don't think there's anything wrong with spending some time together off the clock, but going into your appointment expecting a bonus would majorly turn me off a client.

 

I think sometimes it can be hard to find that sweet spot between the cold, business aspect of what we do and genuine human connection. My motto has always been "ask, because the worst thing that can happen is they say no."

[+ azdr0710]

you may want to start the meet on the clock down in the lobby bar with some chitchat for 20/30 minutes, then adjourn upstairs for the remaining 90/100 minutes (if it is a planned two-hour meet)......then, after the meet is done and business is settled, offer to take him out to a meal, casually confirming with him that it's off the clock.......he may just go for it if you're your usual sparkling personality......

 

or tell him what you'd like to do (walk around for an hour and have two hours of fun time) and ask him what his fee is for that type plan......

 

or just pay for the three hours and do exactly what you want all through it.....

 

a popular "known and trusted client" here on the forum much prefers exactly what you describe.....and he tells the prospective hire exactly this plan and asks for a rate....sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't

[MiamiLooker]

Asking an escort, who is paid for his time, to meet up off the clock just seems wrong. Kind of like asking one's therapist to do so at the end of the session.

[marylander1940]

I like to hire, but not spend all my time in hotel room. It can be fun and interesting to get to know someone a little.

 

I am looking to hire an escort in Las Vegas soon. He charges $300 for one hour and $500 for two. I was thinking about offering $500 and asking for three hours, but one of those hours would be for dinner at a nice restaurant or buffet, my treat, of course. Am I out of line to ask this? Thanks!

 

Sounds fair to me, is up to him to accept it.

 

My only suggestion is fun first, dinner later, just my preference. Up to yinz both.

 

Why not just pay his fee for three hours?

 

Asking an escort, who is paid for his time, to meet up off the clock just seems wrong. Kind of like asking one's therapist to do so at the end of the session.

 

I hope you didn't negotiate like this in BP.

[marylander1940]

A man has got to eat. He does not have to eat with you. So if you definitely want to spend the time, pay for it. If you are simply asking because he is not from town and may want some company, by all means ask.

I have asked several escorts out for a meal after our appointment. Most have said yes and others have said no. I must admit, I have not has an escort ask me out after a meet. I think if that did happen, I might get so aroused as to have to ask for another appointment afterwards.

By the way, an overnight rate might be the best deal for an encounter, a meal and another encounter.

 

As I recall one of them didn't want to go out to have dinner with you because he was closeted.

 

If I like the guy I always suggest having dinner after IF they have time, some visitors are just sold out. Locals are more likely to be free.

[MikeBiDude]

IDK the “clock” and hourly tick-tock bother me at times. I often negotiate a “session rate” which includes non-sexual time. When a gentleman knows I’m not taking advantage they will often agree to a session for a set price. Similar to overnights right? Just a shorter period of time...3-4 hours.

[MiamiLooker]

I hope you didn't negotiate like this in BP.

In what way? I don't recall ever negotiating with anyone on BP. If I've ever posted that I did, please provide a link.

[MiamiLooker]

IDK the “clock” and hourly tick-tock bother me at times. I often negotiate a “session rate” which includes non-sexual time.

In the last several years of hiring, the fee has almost always been based on a session not a specific time. I’ve only had one provider mention time and that was a masseur who reminded me after we were “done” that I still had 15 minutes left.

[TruthBTold]

In my experience, if asked off the cuff at the end the working gentleman will accept without being on the clock. I like to think that it is just because we usually have had a good time and he has no probable with continuing it by getting asked out to dinner. I have only had one bad meet and did not ask because the dinner would not have been enjoyable for either of us (or I did not think that it would).