Alone time for multi-Day appointments

[Guest Listen for the pop]

For a two day hire, getting some alone time is necessary for me, and I would think an escort. How do I navigate telling my escort... hey take a walk for a few hours or something? LOL Send him to a manicure pedicure? Send him to a movie? Tell him I need to go____? It’s a 48 hour hotel appointment. I would think he would want some alone time as well? Thoughts? Advice?

[+ purplekow]

When having an extended appointment, I usually just use my words. Something along the lines of: If you need to catch up on some personal things, I will be doing just that for the next hour or so. Or, I need to attend to some personal business and I will need the room with some privacy. Why don't you take some time for yourself and I will meet you for lunch (or back in the room) in two hours.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

He WILL probably want alone time too. And be grateful that you raised the subject.

[big-n-tall]

I say be upfront, as PK expressed. If you feel uncomfortable telling them you need downtime, you could say you understand if they need personal time for whatever reason.

 

Of the few guys I've have extended (two or more days) appointments with, I really didn't have to tell them to do their own thing. I gave them the option and told them it would be ok if they needed to be alone sometimes. However, they mostly went to workout. Which probably gave us both time to breathe.

[+ Eric Hassan]

As an escort, when I'm on extended appointments, I do want some down time - I want to go to the gym, call my mom, respond to emails, etc. I just let my companion know ahead of time - I typically say 2 hours/day, to be scheduled "on the fly" with the client. I think your guy will be happy if you bring that up ahead of time.

[+ VictorPowers]

Alone time is appreciated and good for both parties. We need to gym, text friends/family, and respond to clients. 24/7 client time can be too much even with a great match. Just bring it up to him in casual conversation. I'm sure he will be happy.

[bigvalboy]

On extended hires, I will tell an escort before hand that 'alone time' will be given whenever he feels the need to take care of personal business or take a moment for himself. I'm personally OK with an escort being around all the time on a two day hire. I don't think two days is a long time, but most escorts need to stay connected to their business or businesses, and I would imagine letting them know in advance that they will have time for themselves will be appreciated...

 

For a two day hire, getting some alone time is necessary for me, and I would think an escort. How do I navigate telling my escort... hey take a walk for a few hours or something? LOL Send him to a manicure pedicure? Send him to a movie? Tell him I need to go____? It’s a 48 hour hotel appointment. I would think he would want some alone time as well? Thoughts? Advice?

Edited March 23, 2018 by bigvalboy

[+ VictorPowers]

How about "Alone time is earned not given"

[desertguy1954]

I would have no problem in having alone time. I enjoy my morning coffee and paper by myself. So would have no problem in bringing it up.

[Mocha]

I spend a couple nights or more, with clients throughout the year. Naturally, you're going to do your own thing. It's not going to be 24/7 cuddling and affection, unless you're on a lovey dovey drug.

 

Lot of times, I'd set aside time at night and in the morning to be together, and then during the day catch up with whatever I have to. I've gone to the mall, done laundry, gym, swimming pool...and just regroup later in the day.

[Guest Listen for the pop]

I thank you for all your input. I just sent him an email. We’ve been in contact quite a bit, since an overnight a few weeks ago. Here is a portion...

 

I wanted to get your thoughts on a few things. I’m sure you would appreciate some alone time while you are here? You have your own private things to attend to. Everyone likes some privacy now and then. Over the period of 48 hours, I’m sure a couple hours here or there would be appreciated on both our parts? With the room, we have access to a “concierge lounge” that has various things I guess. There is the workout room, the pool, restaurant and bar, lots of activities within walking distance, and I’m sure other things we can find once we get there. I won’t mind at all if you say hey, take a walk down to get a cup of coffee, or why don’t you go take a swim, or any number of other things. If for no other reason than bathroom privacy for a couple of hours! You can use the time for whatever you like. Or you can go and do some of these things as well if you just want to get away for a while. I won’t be offended or upset at all. Conversely I think I will do the same. I like to catch up on emails, make phone calls, attend to things as well. If you want to plan those hours we can, or we can just find some time along the way. I’m hoping to get some appointments for manicures and pedicures across the river in downtown at some point. I would also like to Lyft out to a mall to get you a couple things, and go to a sex shop downtown for any supplies LOL. Let me know your thoughts?

 

Thanks again for all your input guys! If you have any more thoughts please feel free!

[Guest Listen for the pop]

How about "Alone time is earned not given"

LOL... there will be things earned other than alone time...

[HotWhiteThirties]

I have to admit. I’m a little envious of you fellas who are in situations where engagements longer than an overnight or day are possible as you need to consider things like “downtime.” It’s not something I can presently ever imagine being able to enjoy, but it’s fun to hear that it does happen. And well, I guess you never know. Maybe an opportunity will present itself. Best wishes on your multi day engagements!

Edited March 25, 2018 by HotWhiteThirties

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

As an escort who does almost exclusively multi-day gigs, alone time will come naturally and it's not really something you have to plan out.

 

Guys need to hit the gym, check email, make calls, go for a run, etc. If you have a decent rapport with your guy, it's usually just a simple 'Hey, I'll be back in just a bit.'

[+ purplekow]

As an escort who does almost exclusively multi-day gigs, alone time will come naturally and it's not really something you have to plan out.

 

Guys need to hit the gym, check email, make calls, go for a run, etc. If you have a decent rapport with your guy, it's usually just a simple 'Hey, I'll be back in just a bit.'

 

It is hard to believe clients want to let you out of their sight, such good company.

[Aaron_Bauder]

Say, "I need some alone time, and you probably do too."