Your first Erotic Massage

[NYMassageAddict]

I went for a number of years without paying for massage. My first was from my own posting on Craigslist looking for a massage. To my surprise, several men enjoy giving them when you ask.

 

So my first, I went to an Asian guy’s apartment and he had a table waiting for me. I was nervous as hell and also excited and he could sense it. He approached me to settle my nerves and asked if he could remove my clothing. I agreed. It was a little uncomfortable but I stood there as he removed my shirt then unbuckled my belt and opened my pants. I was noticeably erect as he removed my pants leaving me in my boxer briefs with a hard outline there. He seemed to enjoy what he saw. He dropped to his knees so he could remove my underwear as I flopped out of my undies nearly hitting his face.

 

He led me to the table and asked me to lay on my stomach. I did as he instructed. (Pointing up, btw). He had warmed oil and rubbed gently all over my back and legs. He was in no hurry which calmed me down. While he did rub my buns, he was careful to not get too sensual early on.

 

He then asked me to turn over and I was embarrassed because I knew I was leaking a TON but I obliged. He didn’t even mention my erection or the leaking which again I appreciated.

 

He continued to massage my chest and stomach. Intentionally skipping my erection down to my legs. He would rub the entire length of my legs higher and higher to where I don’t know how he avoided contact as long as he did. I had to be screaming inside my head “just touch it!!” But it was all silent building anticipation.

 

Finally he touched it! Lifting it in a way to give him access to my lower stomach. I was literally oozing at this point and without asking a question, he gripped me as tight as I’ve ever been gripped. I literally moaned out loud. Although he went slowly, it took no time at all for me to unleash one of the biggest explosions I’ve ever had. He was such a gentleman he went to get a warm washcloth and wiped me down. He offered me water and said that I should take my time before moving on with my day. There was no discussion of what happened in a sexual way. Just a professional doing his job - and what a job it was.

 

From that day forward I was addicted. To be honest that experience was better than any other form of sex for me. So I went on my way seeking these experiences over the years - mostly without pay - all via Craigslist. Finally I arrived in New York and found the spa scene and enjoyed that element because it was close to my first experience - though with payment. I would still find success getting guys to massage me for free and then Craigslist ceased to allow m4m postings. A really sad day.

[+ EVdude]

...and then Craigslist ceased to allow m4m postings. A really sad day.

So so very true.

[Monarchy79]

My first time was with a guy from my gym, who I met in yoga class. One day after class, he informed me that he was a CMT as well. I decided to book an appointment with him, with no inkling of an expectation. During the first massage session, he draped me with a sheet and conducted a fantastic therapeutic massage. He only charged me 50 bucks for a session that lasted 90 minutes, so of course I went back.

 

The second time, I went back, and to my surprise, in his living room was another guy, whom he said was in massage school and needed hours. He asked me would I feel comfortable with having a Tandem session. I went along with it, but noticed that there was more extra attention to my glutes and inner thighs and there were quick pauses as if they were secretly communicating while I was face down on the table.

 

I also noticed that the sheet conveniently kept slipping off of my butt lower and lower. I also heard heavy breathing.

 

The massage was great and nothing erotic happened, until the third time.

 

This time, he and his “mentee” offered me a tandem session free of charge. I get over his house and we spent some time chatting. He offers me wine and we get comfortable. I head to the massage room, and within 20 minutes the sheet comes off and so does their clothes. The rest of the two hours was spent with intermittent massaging, mutual three way oral, edging, an intense anal tongue bath. Edging through my sphincter, oiled up frottage, and an explosive ending for all three of us.

 

I left his house spent, relieved of my tight calves and drained of all of my “life force”.

 

A truly surprising, hot experience... although I was set up from the beginning lol

Edited May 10, 2019 by Monarchy79

[big dale]

Most of these sound more like "Letters to Penthouse" than anything else. LOL

[Ludo]

A few of these sound like 100% sexual assault, which is definitely not hot. I hope you guys are OK.

[jharrison10343]

Not mine, but I saw this on Reddit a while back and thought it was pretty hot: [MEDIA=reddit]gaystoriesgonewild/comments/95hx6m[/MEDIA]

[bendable2019]

Im bored at work on a slow business day and need some distraction. Figured I'd ask, how was your first erotic massage? Give details please, bored and horny, and reading while using my imagination feels hotter than watching porn <_<.

 

My first time was a hot young Brazilian. I was mad when I walked in because he used someone else's photos, but he was still hot (his body was better than the pics) and I figured what the heck.

 

After 10 minutes of rubbing my back I felt his package pressing against my hand. I'm a pretty dense guy so it took me a bit to realize he wanted me to play with him. So, slowly start rubbing my hand and he gets rock hard.

 

Unfortunately he gets on my back, and things took a turn for the worse. I was expecting a bit more rub and tug but instead I received an unwanted surprise- he tried to penetrate me bareback. I just remember extreme pain, getting furious and getting dressed and walking out without paying.

 

Never did see him advertise again. I hope you guys have better stories than mine.

 

Thanks for sharing your story and that’s a painful surprise indeed. I was in a similar situation a few years back... this prick masseur just oiled my super small hole and thought of deflowering me... oh dear he received the biggest banana kick of his lifetime...??? eff off bitch as I catwalked out of his studio... ?

[+ Drew Collins]

Picture it....Christopher Street, West Village, NYC. 1994.

 

21 year old me, and new to the "big gay city."

 

One evening, while getting my hair cut, I noticed the salon also offered massage. I decided to give it a try and scheduled an appointment for the following weekend afternoon. I think it was a Sunday. I arrived and was introduced to my therapist. I wish I could remember his name, but OH MY GOD was he handsome! Tall. Athletically muscular. From Central America somewhere, Belize I think?

 

The room was small, and in the basement. Lit only by candlelight. I removed my clothes and covered myself with a towel. I distinctly remembering it being a dark green. The massage was great; I had experienced one or two professional ones before, spa-quality and completely nonsexual atmospheres, etc. With this one I got aroused and quite hard during some work on my butt and inner thigh, but rolled over at the appropriate time. The masseur re-adjusted my towel and the massage continued. My erection subsided completely until he began to massage my abs. In a circular motion, small circles and then larger. Going as low on my body as he could, until my erection got in the way. Then he would work around my cock. He bent down and whispered in my ear, "Just breathe, and let go." I was in ecstasy. I could feel an orgasm building. He spent a good 5-6 minutes just on my abs, varying the pressure, touch, and speed of motion, and eliciting various moans from me.

 

And he got me off, without ever touching my cock.

 

Every time the same ending, every massage, over the course of a few years.

 

No one has been able to replicate his touch. Not professionals, not amateurs, not partners.

 

As far as I am concerned, that man's touch was magic.

 

And I'm very sorry I lost track of him.

[+ jeezopete]

The ladies like it, too.

Denise Richards recently revealed on RHOBH that she enjoyed a massage with a happy ending.

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/denise-richards-encouraged-husband-to-get-a-happy-ending-massage/

[kenomora]

My first time was actually with some forum member's favorite in LA. I had originally booked with another provider who flaked on me while I was already in an Uber trying to get into WeHo to meet him. I came back to work but decided to call another provider not expecting him to take me the same day but he had a spot open! Had to go back to WeHo a second time and this time traffic was horrible and I of course was late but he was as kind as can be.....and hot! I stripped down and laid on the table. He asked where I wanted him to focus, which I said my shoulders. He worked on me for a while (it was a good massage - not great but not a rub down) then I started to feel a hard body part brushing against my face (I think it got hard almost immediately after the session started), enticing me to engage, so I did. Then MT started pretty early on and it all went way beyond massage from there. I am a big fan of skin contact and I got plenty of that. I particularly love his hard breathing and growling behind my ears. Then it was time to flip me over. He continued his service in a way I did not expect (but awesome!) and at that point I was ready to go anywhere he'd take me, and boy did we go far. I had booked longer than 60 minutes but I was already spent by the end of the hour. I took a nice shower at his place, left my donation with a big fat tip, and went home a very happy man. Been back once with a little less intense experience, but great nonetheless.

[NYMassageAddict]

Not mine, but I saw this on Reddit a while back and thought it was pretty hot: [MEDIA=reddit]gaystoriesgonewild/comments/95hx6m[/MEDIA]

This about made me bust. I love the unknown - the attempt to hold it back by relieving himself before the massage. Then the screaming inside your head hoping he will take care of it. And finally the massive release.

[Guest JakeAsherXXX]

My first one was with Big Texas Massage in WeHo yeaaaars. He was a creep, but man he ate me like a champ piped me well.

[Jax]

My first was with Texas Josh years ago as well! Many years. I was newly single and he was actually very sweet to me. Was never quite sure why as I could definitely sense there was something off underneath the smile. But the massage was technically proficient and the cock was big, generously shared and tasty. I went back over a few years but stopped about the time he started going on and on about hot shirtless Putin looked on that horse! To each his own but it was a real mood killer for me!

[+ bashful]

My first erotic massage was on Derby Day 2015, I had never done anything like that before, massage, or escort. I texted him earlier in the week, and chickened out. But, he had already given me his hotel info. So, on Derby Day, I ventured into the city, and had a drink (or 2, or maybe 3) at his hotel the bar, then texted him, and he said he could see me soon.

 

About 20 minutes later, he said come up. The room had dirty clothes piled up in the corner, and a towel, that thankfully looked clean, on the 2nd bed. He kept his loose fitting boxer shorts on the whole time. During the course of the massage, I asked if he gets nude. He said no, it would be "unhygienic", but he did provide release.

 

After, he went into the bathroom and started the shower for me. When I got in there, there was a big pile of dirty towels piled up under the sink. I showered off, and used a towel that was hanging. Not sure how clean it was.

[Moe]

My first erotic massage was on Derby Day 2015, I had never done anything like that before, massage, or escort. I texted him earlier in the week, and chickened out. But, he had already given me his hotel info. So, on Derby Day, I ventured into the city, and had a drink (or 2, or maybe 3) at his hotel the bar, then texted him, and he said he could see me soon.

 

About 20 minutes later, he said come up. The room had dirty clothes piled up in the corner, and a towel, that thankfully looked clean, on the 2nd bed. He kept his loose fitting boxer shorts on the whole time. During the course of the massage, I asked if he gets nude. He said no, it would be "unhygienic", but he did provide release.

 

After, he went into the bathroom and started the shower for me. When I got in there, there was a big pile of dirty towels piled up under the sink. I showered off, and used a towel that was hanging. Not sure how clean it was.

 

First, I am happy this thread is still alive! NEED MOAR POSTS!

 

Secondly, I will never understand the lack of cleanliness people have. I understand sloppiness, but there is never a reason to have dirty clothes all over the place, nor is there reason to have food and trash out on tabletops and counters. I am also saddened at how many men I see not wash their hands after they use the restroom .

[Mark4133]

My first was with Texas Josh years ago as well! Many years. I was newly single and he was actually very sweet to me. Was never quite sure why as I could definitely sense there was something off underneath the smile. But the massage was technically proficient and the cock was big, generously shared and tasty. I went back over a few years but stopped about the time he started going on and on about hot shirtless Putin looked on that horse! To each his own but it was a real mood killer for me!

I remember that guy. He had this technique which takes your mind off of things (e.g., rimming and butt massage) and next thing I know, his big fat cock is in my ass, bareback. It felt soooo good but I had to stop him. He probably got a few good thrusts in me and then I told him I wanted to play safe. He got a little frustrated but pulled out. But agree, he’s a creep so that was my first and last visit.

[Jax]

Yikes! Definitely not cool on his part Mark. He never tried that with me but did sit on my cock once without asking. I pulled out as it's not my thing when I want massage. He did seem a little annoyed but then the rest of the experience was good. But I haven't seen him in prolly 10 years. And won't again.

[kadeinhisboxers]

I’ve read through this thread enough I owe a response. Mine was awesome and probably seemed hotter because I had no idea what to expect. I wanted something less clinical than usual, so I went to a visiting therapist offering sensual massage with good reviews. His pics were really discreet so I was relieved the scruffy, ripped dude about my age/early 20’s described in the ad answered the door. I was pretty shy so kept my boxer shorts on, and he kept his briefs on. He started with a really good basic massage, back then front, nothing too sensual. Then he went from my abs down my boxers to the base of my shaft and up my boxers to my balls for several minutes. He seemed to taper off when I was pretty hard and asked if I was doing ok. It had been an hour, so I thought that was the end. He laughed a little, smiled and went right back to it. I remember the rest so well because the last moves set the bar for me- he slid his right hand back up my boxers, over my balls, and slowly up my rock solid shaft. Then he pulled my waistband way down, grabbed my shaft with both hands, and twisted in opposite directions until I exploded. I had no idea what had hit me since I didn’t think it would really end that way. Wish I could find that therapist now!

[Guest Grey Bear]

Im bored at work on a slow business day and need some distraction. Figured I'd ask, how was your first erotic massage? Give details please, bored and horny, and reading while using my imagination feels hotter than watching porn <_<.

 

My first time was a hot young Brazilian. I was mad when I walked in because he used someone else's photos, but he was still hot (his body was better than the pics) and I figured what the heck.

 

After 10 minutes of rubbing my back I felt his package pressing against my hand. I'm a pretty dense guy so it took me a bit to realize he wanted me to play with him. So, slowly start rubbing my hand and he gets rock hard.

 

Unfortunately he gets on my back, and things took a turn for the worse. I was expecting a bit more rub and tug but instead I received an unwanted surprise- he tried to penetrate me bareback. I just remember extreme pain, getting furious and getting dressed and walking out without paying.

 

Never did see him advertise again. I hope you guys have better stories than mine.

My first erotic massage was years ago with Howard in L.A. He had an ad in the local "hip" free weekly paper...The L.A. Weekly. He was a friendly guy who lived in a big house off Wilshire Blvd. He was friendly.he answered the door naked-which was new to me. Great bod and HUGE. He asked me if I wanted an enema before we began. I've always been adventurous and uninhibited so I said YES. He gave me the enema (fabulous) then cleaned me up with a hand-held shower wand in the tub. He dried me off and had me get on the table on my stomach. The first thing he did was reach under me and pull my equipment out between my legs. I immediately got rock hard. He started the massage at the bottom of my feet and worked his way up my legs. When he got to my ass he slid a finger in. I jumped and then instantly relaxed.He got up to 4 fingers inside and gave be an internal massage. Best day of my life. Then he started to massage my back,shoulders and neck. He finally had me roll over. I was hard and proud. He again started at my feet and worked his way up. Once he got to "the twins" he gave them a long massage. I an U/C and pre-cum was flowing out of me. He peeled my foreskin back and gently massaged the bare head. I must have shot a cup full. OMG. He rubbed the explosion all over my belly and used it as a lubricant till it dried, He massaged my face and scalp then had me roll on my side. He moved my head to the edge to the table and stuck his fat 9 in my mouth. Did I mention this was the best day of my life ? While I worked on him he was working my nips.He shot in my mouth and then had me lay flat on my belly again. He climbed on the table and penetrated me. I thought I was the horniest most uninhibited man on earth. Turns out HE was. I saw him weekly for 3-4 years.

Every visit was phenomenal,even tho I knew what to expect. His massage lasted 2 1/2 hours and the rate was 60 out the door. Last time I saw him he announced he was moving to Vegas and I never saw him again. I think of him often and JO when I think about those good old days. I feel sorry for young guys today who have no clue and will never experience anything as gratifying.Sex and rock 'n roll died in the 80's when HIV showed it's ugly head.

[Typical]

A few of these sound like 100% sexual assault, which is definitely not hot. I hope you guys are OK.

 

I think when you go looking for certain things, you just might find them. Thankfully!

 

Nothing wrong with the "Me, too" movement per se, but the pendulum might be swinging just a little bit too far.

 

If you don't want to be handled in a certain way, then don't go looking where such handling happens. You aren't going to a job interview or audition for goodness sake.

[Penn7]

My first sensual/erotic massage was only so-so because the guy’s photos were several years out of date. The massage was decent and there was HE but my expectations had been set pretty high by the photos. So instead I’ll tell you about one of my favorite massages ever. The guy was visiting from Brazil. Handsome face, great swimmer’s body and he used all of his hot body to massage me.. for several minutes, he was on top of me, grinding that hot bod up and down to massage my back, butt and legs.. and his longish hair flopped down around both sides of my head when he would reach the “up” portion of the full-body strokes. There was a HE. I would love to find someone like him again. He went back to Brazil shortly after and his ad went offline long ago. I have occasionally gotten a masseur to include that technique as part of their work on me and it’s wonderful (if you ask nicely, sometimes they’ll do things like that — the Brazilian did it without me even asking — apparently it was part of his standard massage ????). I have found that the few Brazilian men I’ve met have been very sensual. I have to visit there someday when both the USA and Brazil have Covid under control..

[spider]

My first time was in NY several years ago when I was in my mid-30s. I booked a traditional massage, and that's all I expected. The guy was eastern European, and I remember going to his place that was a unit is some sort of public housing building. His place was light and bright and clean, with a table in a sort of alcove off the living room. This was before the various websites and I honestly don't remember how I found him. I don't recall his name so I'll call him Stephan. Stephan was fairly short and not skinny, but 100% muscle. After talking briefly he asked that I strip down and get on the table on my stomach. I remember there being two little dogs in a sort of play pen in the corner. I strip and don't see any sort of drape so just get on the table starkers - a first for me. I can see Stephan in the other room getting oil ready and close my eyes to get relaxed. Hearing him come into the room I sneak a look and see that he's also now naked. Nice bod, pointy nips, lightly hairy chest and a large soft uncut dick, big enough to swing as he walked. He gets started working on my back and soon tells me to put my arms by my side palms up. The massage is great, he hits all the right spots and as he begins to work on my back standing beside the table I feel his dick, now semihard, in my hand. Being new at this and not knowing the code I just left it there, but when he changed sides I began to fondle his dick and felt him quickly swell up to his full length and girth. Impressive. As I fondled him he began to knead my glutes, touching my asshole a few times as well, making circles with the tip of one finger. He also touched the tip of my dick that was down between my legs.

 

When he turned me over he first sat on the edge of the table to massage my hands, placing them, one by one, right in his lap against his hard dick giving me time for a little more play. Easing me onto my back, Stephan worked his way down my chest, frequently touching my sides with his dick. He spent a fair amount of time on my nips, and since their wired I popped a true boner, so hard it hurt. This was all new to me, so I both wanted him to play with me dick, while also being nervous. Then, boom, his oiled hands are on the dick, first the base, then working up to my dickhead that was pouring out precum. When I leaned up to watch Stephan softly pushed my head back down and said "just enjoy." As soon as I complied I felt his mouth on my cock, slurping up the precum and then taking my entire length into his mouth, in and out, in and out. Holy crap, a full blow job, another massage first for me. Stopping briefly, Stephan climbed onto the table dropping his massive dick right onto my face while resuming his work on my cock. He didn't need to touch my mouth with his dick once before I got the hint and drew him into my mouth with some effort, man he was girthy. As I played with his foreskin with my tongue, it didn't take long before I started to spasm and blew my load into his mouth To my surprise this was the trigger for him to also cum, giving me a large sweet load that I slurped up. My last surprise was when he brought his lips to mine and we frenched tasting each other's loads. And that's the story, he cleaned me up and I left thinking "wow, how did THAT happen." 100% true story. My first, and still my best.

 

My next trip back I could no longer find Stephan, but he had talked about moving back home, so I guess that's what happened.

[justanotherguy]

Long time lurker here, so I thought I'd add my first experience. I just graduated from college and recently came out to myself but pretty much to no one else. I had very little experience with guys, just knowing that I was (and still am) attracted to the tall, older, muscular type. I found myself on massagem4m, and I was immediately drawn to Bob Patrick's ad. He was my ultimate fantasy as a 22 year-old twink, and it took me forever to pick up the phone and call him. I remember being beyond nervous as I called and almost hung up when he picked up the phone, but he made me feel totally at ease, and I booked some time with him the next day.

 

I'm a wreck as I drive to his place in WeHo, but I find the courage to go up to his apartment. Sensing that I was nervous, he had me sit on the couch with him, and he started rubbing my feet as we chatted and I calmed the fuck down. We undressed each other, and I knew I was in for a treat when he was already rock hard as I took off his pants. I remember getting lost in his beautiful, muscular body as he encouraged me to explore him. I touched him everywhere, and his musky, manly scent drove me nuts. He then went to town on my sensitive nips before leading me to his table, which had holes strategically positioned to work my cock and nips from underneath while he massaged me from up top. He worked the knots out of my back and shoulders while constantly playing with my cock and nips. He also placed his massive cock in my hand to let me play with it. I was completely lost in the pleasure of this new experience. He finished the massage and led me to an easy chair where he asked me to lean back and close my eyes. While playing with my nips, I feel a warm wetness on my cock. I open my eyes, and I see this handsome DILF giving me one of the best blowjobs I've ever had (to this day!). He starts fingering my hole, and it doesn't take long until I'm cumming in his mouth. He slurped down every last drop, and I'm lying there dazed and spent, probably with a foolish grin on my face. Like others, my first, and still one of the best massages ever.

Edited October 26, 2020 by anotherguyindc

[KrisParr]

My first was with John. He ran an ad in the local gay paper - just a name and a phone number. He lived about a half hour from me in a small town which I thought was a little odd, but, hey. He lived in a nice older neighborhood in a basic ranch home. I was taken a bit by surprise because John was much older, was small built, kind of nerd-quality with glasses and bald. Not the hot hunk I had hoped for. The house was immaculate and he had a bedroom all set up. He was very feminine in all manners and I was not excited by any stretch to continue but, hey. He encouraged me to undress to my comfort level which of course was nude. He wore a T-shirt and boxers - again nothing to look at. But when he started the massage, holy shit, was this guy talented. Nice firm pressure, great technique, totally thorough. Nice ass play which created a semi just as I rolled over. He continued but carefully avoided my throbbing member and worked all around it. I kept wondering why he was avoiding it. Anyhow, he did the arms, legs, chest, head, feet, every square inch except the goodie bits. He said, “okay, that’s about it - are there any other areas you’d like massaged?” WTF? I couldn’t help but let out a laugh and said something like, “well, isn’t it pretty damn obvious?” He replied that he didn’t want any misunderstandings and with that, proceeded to give me the most amazing hand/mouth job I could have wanted. But before he started with the finale, he stripped down and revealed an impressive cock that later on I found to be quite delicious. I saw John for many more sessions.

[+ Just Sayin]

Long time lurker here, so I thought I'd add my first experience. I was about 22, just graduated from college, and recently came out to myself but pretty much to no one else. I had very little experience with guys, just knowing that I was (and still am) attracted to the tall, older, muscular type. I found myself on massagem4m, and I was immediately drawn to Bob Patrick's ad. He was my ultimate fantasy as a 22 year-old twink, and it took me forever to pick up the phone and call him. I remember being beyond nervous as I called and almost hung up when he picked up the phone, but he made me feel totally at easy, and I booked some time with him the next day.

 

I'm a wreck as I drive to his place in WeHo, but I find the courage to go up to his apartment. Sensing that I was nervous, he had me sit on the couch with him, and he started rubbing my feet as we chatted and I calmed the fuck down. We undressed each other, and I knew I was in for a treat when he was already rock hard as I took off his pants. I remember getting lost in his beautiful, muscular body as he encouraged me to explore him. I touched him everywhere, and his musky, manly scent drove me nuts. He then went to town on my sensitive nips before leading me to his table, which had holes strategically positioned to work my cock and nips from underneath while he massaged me from up top. He worked the knots out of my back and shoulders while constantly playing with my cock and nips. He also placed his massive cock in my hand to let me play with it. I was completely lost in the pleasure of this new experience. He finished the massage and led me to an easy chair where he asked me to lean back and close my eyes. While playing with my nips, I feel a warm wetness on my cock. I open my eyes, and I see this handsome DILF giving me one of the best blowjobs I've ever had (to this day!). He starts fingering my hole, and it doesn't take long until I'm cumming in his mouth. He slurped down every last drop, and I'm lying there dazed and spent, probably with a foolish grin on my face. Like others, my first, and still one of the best massages ever.

 

I always wanted to see him; good for you! it sounds like fun!