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Does anyone have a recommendation for a gay primary care doctor in LA? If he is cute it doesn’t hurt. PM me or post here.

 

Looks do not factor any where on my list when choosing a Dr. Smh. My two main Drs are chicks and they're the best. They know their stuff, they actually listen and their bedside manner is top knotch.

 

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Looks do not factor any where on my list when choosing a Dr. Smh. My two main Drs are chicks and they're the best. They know their stuff, they actually listen and their bedside manner is top knotch.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

THIS. Well-said Greg.

 

That he or she is QUALIFIED is your most important concern. Stop being such a stereotype with the looks crap.

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Does anyone have a recommendation for a gay primary care doctor in LA? If he is cute it doesn’t hurt. PM me or post here.

I can't recommend a doctor in LA, as I have never lived there, but I can make a recommendation about hot to find a physician who understands how to treat gay men. Locate the LGBT Center and see if they have a physician referral service. If they don't have one, pick up the business directory for the LGBT chamber of commerce. When you have a few names, check your health plan and see if they participate your plan. Then, contact the offices and see if they will agree to an interview. Of course, offer to pay for their time.

 

Using this method, I found a wonderful doctor in San Diego as well as a very good physician in Chicago. Here in Phoenix I couldn't locate a business directory, so I searched for "gay physician in Phoenix" and found someone who happens to be friends with my former physician in San Diego.

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Dr. Michael Seibert at SoCal Men’s Health is amazing. Takes time. Very attuned to gay men’s health issues (and hot af).

Thank you! I’ll look him up. And I guess I should have made it clearer that when asking for a “hot” doctor I was joking. I just want someone who doesn’t lecture me about the dangers of anal sex ever time I go in and suggest an aids test as a reflex to me saying I’m gay.

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I have been searching for YEARS for a gay doctor in NYC.... although there are many, they do NOT accept new patients....

 

the BEST Dr I ever had was a woman, but she moved away and then I got stuck with a string of assholes who really have no insight into Gay sensibility or need.

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Does anyone have a recommendation for a gay primary care doctor in LA? If he is cute it doesn’t hurt. PM me or post here.

Try my Doctor. He goes by Dr Mike. https://dearstraightpeople.com/2016/03/09/10-super-hot-doctors-you-should-follow-on-instagram/

http://www.trendsandlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Attention-Girls-The-Doctor-and-His-Husky-1.jpg

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Does anyone know a reputable gay doctor somewhere south of LA, from LAX down to OC?

 

I had a gay doctor in the OC and wasn't satisfied. He ended up going boutique. I didn't need someone that charged a premium.

Then switched to another guy nearer to my house, but the billing from that clinic seemed shady. Finally switched to Hoag. Billing is OK. The doctor is cool. But I'd still like to have care of a gay doctor

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I have been searching for YEARS for a gay doctor in NYC.... although there are many, they do NOT accept new patients....

 

the BEST Dr I ever had was a woman, but she moved away and then I got stuck with a string of assholes who really have no insight into Gay sensibility or need.

 

 

I went to Dr Stephen Dillon on 14th St in nyc.

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Try my Doctor. He goes by Dr Mike. https://dearstraightpeople.com/2016/03/09/10-super-hot-doctors-you-should-follow-on-instagram/

http://www.trendsandlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Attention-Girls-The-Doctor-and-His-Husky-1.jpg

 

 

This guy would be too handsome to be my doctor. As it was I used to have a gay doctor in Seattle. And obviously I didn’t know him on a personal level, but I was very envious of him. He was cute, young, in good shape, partnered, and was not struggling with his sexuality. All things I wasn’t.

 

I moved away from the PNW for a year. When I came back I found a gay female nurse practitioner. I have to admit I don’t think she’s the brightest medical practitioner I’ve ever been to. It has nothing to do with her being a nurse practitioner. I’ve met many in the past that I thought were excellent. And I don’t think mine is necessarily bad-it’s difficult to explain. Maybe it’s because she almost never actually examines me. She does listen to my history, but almost never does much of an exam. I actually wonder how she bills since a lot of that is supposedly based not just on history taking but also how in depth of an exam is performed. In any case she’s bright enough, and I’m fairly medically savvy myself. So between the two of us, I do ok.

 

Plus as she’s female, I have no attraction issues.

 

 

I found this info on a website. I hope it helps.

 

GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBT Equality

When you’re looking for a lesbian and gay friendly doctor, the organization GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBT Equality(formerly the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association) is an excellent place to begin your search. Founded in 1981, the organization is the oldest and largest association of LGBT healthcare professionals in the world, and has many resources for doctors and patients:

 

  • Directory – For patients, GLMA maintains a provider directory where you can find primary care physicians, specialists, and therapists. GLMA only lists providers who have affirmed their commitment to LGBT health, noting providers who are GLMA members.
  • Resources – Along with its provider directory, GLMA also provides further information on the most important health issues affecting the LGBT community, along with transgender health resources.
  • Providers – For healthcare providers, GLMA has a number of resources to aid with treating LGBT patients, including a four-part webinar on cultural competence to better prepare doctors and providers to care for LGBT patients.

Many of GLMA’s resources, including the provider listings and webinar, are free to use, and are a great starting point for finding a trusted, gay friendly doctor in your area, especially if you’re looking for a particular specialty based on your health needs.

 

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This guy would be too handsome to be my doctor. As it was I used to have a gay doctor in Seattle. And obviously I didn’t know him on a personal level, but I was very envious of him. He was cute, young, in good shape, partnered, and was not struggling with his sexuality. All things I wasn’t.

 

As I'm finding out the hard way, having a really hot looking doctor is awkward. Without intending to, you end up trying to impress him instead of being forthright.

 

Doctor: Whatever feelings you have about this, you'll tell me, right?

Kitten:

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As I'm finding out the hard way, having a really hot looking doctor is awkward. Without intending to, you end up trying to impress him instead of being forthright.

 

Doctor: Whatever feelings you have about this, you'll tell me, right?

Kitten:

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That’s because you are pretty. I didn’t try to impress him because I knew it was a lost cause. The situation just made me sad. Unfortunately I’ve thought many of my counselors were attractive too. It had nothing to do with transference. I would’ve thought they were cute or handsome even if they had never been my counselors. I’d get a bit resentful though. They all seemed to think I should just accept being gay. And I kept thinking about how I might have found it easier to be gay if I were attractive like them.

 

Gman

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Why is the sexual orientation of a physician of interest?

 

I can understand confirming that a physician is gay-friendly. Or at a minimum, not judgmental or anti-gay.

 

I dont know whether my primary, or any specialists, are gay or straight. I told my primary I'm gay first visit when he took a history.

 

If I ever got a sense that a doctor treating me was homophobic or anti-gay, and that it might have an effect on my care, Id switch doctors .

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That’s because you are pretty. I didn’t try to impress him because I knew it was a lost cause. The situation just made me sad. Unfortunately I’ve thought many of my counselors were attractive too. It had nothing to do with transference. I would’ve thought they were cute or handsome even if they had never been my counselors. I’d get a bit resentful though. They all seemed to think I should just accept being gay. And I kept thinking about how I might have found it easier to be gay if I were attractive like them.

 

Gman

 

Thanks, but I wish. Despite his incredible looks, he has some serious insecurities. I had tried to change the appointment twice, so he was apparently afraid I'd lose interest in working with him.

 

If only he knew what what a great time we've had together in my fantasies. :oops::oops::oops:

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Looks on a doc shouldn't matter.

 

Then there's Dr. Mike....

 

You just wrote an eyeful. But I really wouldn’t want a doctor as handsome as that. If he is straight that’s just frustrating, and if he were gay that’s even worse. Number 1-I know nothing would happen due to medical ethics. Number 2- Even without medical ethics I’d know he would never be interested in me.

 

Occasionally FB shows me the feed of a former therapist of mine. I’m not friends with him. I’m sure Facebook found his email in my contacts list , and that’s why he shows up occasionally. Well he’s cute, and so is his partner. It’s much easier being gay if your cute or handsome. It’s much easier if you are straight too. But I feel that women more often go outside the looks box than gay men do.

 

Gman

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My primary doc in San Francisco - def straight (& way, way handsome) but wholly open-minded, knowledgeable & comfortable with gays.....I messaged him just the other day & told him that I was making a "hot date, errrrr an office appointment" with him (for something routine) & asked him to find out something for me before our "date".....he messaged me back the same day "looking forward".....I like it that I can be playful with him as much as I appreciate his medical expertise.

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My primary doc in San Francisco - def straight (& way, way handsome) but wholly open-minded, knowledgeable & comfortable with gays.....I messaged him just the other day & told him that I was making a "hot date, errrrr an office appointment" with him (for something routine) & asked him to find out something for me before our "date".....he messaged me back the same day "looking forward".....I like it that I can be playful with him as much as I appreciate his medical expertise.

 

I have a friend. I don’t know how it happened. But several years ago he got a new primary care doctor-a younger one. Now my friend is married and bi. He used to hire-mainly erotic massage but occasionally I think for sex. I don’t think he has done either in years due to some health problems. Bu I think he might have still been hiring when he 1st started seeing this new physician. I think he revealed this to the physician. For some reason, I don’t know what the conversation was, the doctor revealed that he was bisexual. But shortly after that the physician got married to a woman-and had a least one child. I was just shocked that the physician revealed what sounded like a deep, dark secret to a patient like that.

 

Gman

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I have a friend. I don’t know how it happened.

 

Gman

 

I'm surprised that you have any friends too ;)......but seriously, that doctor revealing being bisexual was probably inappropriate but the exact context/circumstances leading up to that revelation would need to be better understood before passing final judgement.

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My primary doc in San Francisco - def straight (& way, way handsome) but wholly open-minded, knowledgeable & comfortable with gays.....I messaged him just the other day & told him that I was making a "hot date, errrrr an office appointment" with him (for something routine) & asked him to find out something for me before our "date".....he messaged me back the same day "looking forward".....I like it that I can be playful with him as much as I appreciate his medical expertise.

 

I have a friend. I don’t know how it happened. But several years ago he got a new primary care doctor-a younger one. Now my friend is married and bi. He used to hire-mainly erotic massage but occasionally I think for sex. I don’t think he has done either in years due to some health problems. Bu I think he might have still been hiring when he 1st started seeing this new physician. I think he revealed this to the physician. For some reason, I don’t know what the conversation was, the doctor revealed that he was bisexual. But shortly after that the physician got married to a woman-and had a least one child. I was just shocked that the physician revealed what sounded like a deep, dark secret to a patient like that.

 

Gman

 

I'm surprised that you have any friends too ;)......

 

:(

 

Gman

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