No response from escort

[Stormy]

Why would a nice looking man place an ad offering escort services and then refuse to respond to a text expressing interest? Is there some logic here that I am completely missing? I hire several times a year and have always treated escorts with a great deal of respect.

[+ Awwshuck]

and then refuse to respond to a text expressing interest? Is there some logic here that I am completely missing?

 

Perhaps he is ill or something came up? Maybe he partied (or is partying) in New Orleans or somewhere else that celebrates Mardi Gras. Nothing to do with you.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Again, this comes up.

 

It could be a million and one reasons. If you're not getting the attention you desire, move forward.

[+ José Soplanucas]

It just happened to me. First approach looked great, and suddenly POOF, ghosted.

 

Of course there is always a logical explanation, we just do not have all the information. My guts always tell me in these situations that it is probably better for my self-esteem to remain ignorant.

[+ nycman]

As my grandfather once told me....

 

Son, if the fish you want ain’t biting....

You either gotta change yer bait....

Or move to another pond.

 

Smart man.

[nsguy45]

Why would a nice looking man place an ad offering escort services and then refuse to respond to a text expressing interest? Is there some logic here that I am completely missing? I hire several times a year and have always treated escorts with a great deal of respect.

Had a similar situation recently with a RM escort in the Boston area. Literally took him weeks to respond to me after a couple of attempts. When he finally did respond, he seemed eager to meet, but it became difficult to pin him down to a day and time. Feeling frustrated, I pointed out to him that his elusiveness wasn't at all attractive and he became defensive. His main defense was that he worked full time, was a very active guy and he had a large family(???). When I told him that I was giving up trying to meet him, he accused me of having a bad attitude.

[LaffingBear]

Practical replies above.

 

Only thing I could add.... many escorts are younger. Ghosting is a new communications norm for many under age 30. Not just escorts. Could speculate as to why. I don't believe its intentionally rude.

[MikeBiDude]

If you're not getting the attention you desire, move forward.

And this is why the topic always comes up...poster isn’t getting attention from provider....so goes to forum posting for attention

[+ Awwshuck]

Ghosting is a new communications norm for many under age 30. Not just escorts.

I don't believe its intentionally rude.

 

A polite way of saying many under 30 are rude, but they are merely the product of the culture that shapes them?

[Stormy]

A polite way of saying many under 30 are rude, but they are merely the product of the culture that shapes them?[/quote.

 

I can almost hear my sought after escort singing a snappy tune....

 

And that's about the time she walked away from me

Nobody likes you when you're 23

And are still more amused by TV shows

What the hell is ADD?

My friends say I should act my age

What's my age again?

What's my age again?

[+ VictorPowers]

As my grandfather once told me....

 

Son, if the fish you want ain’t biting....

You either gotta change yer bait....

Or move to another pond.

 

Smart man.

And then there are some of us that arrived to the pond without a fishing pole.

[nsguy45]

As my grandfather once told me....

 

Son, if the fish you want ain’t biting....

You either gotta change yer bait....

Or move to another pond.

 

Smart man.

I'd be more apt to move to another pond, if I can find a waterfront property with spectacular views in a nice neighborhood.

[+ nycman]

And then there are some of us that arrived to the pond without a fishing pole.

I hear if the bait is good enough....you don’t need one...

 

....the fish jump right into the boat.

 

I know I did.....grin

[+ othermanc]

Ditto. Contacted a brand new escort advertising on rentmen. Suggested a possible date for an upcoming trip to New York on a text message and on rentmen email. Zero response. Moving on.

[+ bashful]

I've contacted a few guys via RM email, and a couple by text with a brief description of myself to ascertain interest. Most have very kindly responded. Just a few never did. I simply figure those who don't respond, are answering not interested. Sometimes, what's not said says more.

[+ tassojunior]

The escort may not have a manager and may be working at the time or prepping. In Europe and with many foreign-born escorts here it's common to have a manager who sets schedules and can speak English well. This leaves the better guys to spend their time more profitably. Managers usually place and switch around ads and arrange hotels too. 15% is a bargain and some top ones only pay 10% while ones involving more work pay 20%.

 

Just today two of us on here were talking about the big manager in Prague who manages maybe 30 or 40 top guys, including many BelAmi guys. Since he's sent most of them to Switzerland to work for more money he's bought a new car and him and his wife just took a Thai vacation.

 

Many English-speaking Americans do without a manager (or he could have a lazy one). If the guy's clearly winging it on his on, try texting about 1o minutes before any working hour. That's when clients are usually gone. But unless you've contacted without committing already, it's not you. It's them. Some of these guys are not organized.

[coriolis888]

 

Literally took him weeks to respond to me after a couple of attempts. When he finally did respond, he seemed eager to meet, but it became difficult to pin him down to a day and time. Feeling frustrated, I pointed out to him that his elusiveness wasn't at all attractive and he became defensive. His main defense was that he worked full time, was a very active guy and he had a large family(???). When I told him that I was giving up trying to meet him, he accused me of having a bad attitude.

 

 

You got lucky.

 

The guy eventually let his "real" personality be known to you before you two got together and it would have cost you money to find out how difficult he is.

[+ GregM]

A polite way of saying many under 30 are rude, but they are merely the product of the culture that shapes them?

 

No, they're just rude and need to be punished.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ GregM]

The escort may not have a manager and may be working at the time or prepping. In Europe and with many foreign-born escorts here it's common to have a manager who sets schedules and can speak English well. This leaves the better guys to spend their time more profitably. Managers usually place and switch around ads and arrange hotels too. 15% is a bargain and some top ones only pay 10% while ones involving more work pay 20%.

 

Just today two of us on here were talking about the big manager in Prague who manages maybe 30 or 40 top guys, including many BelAmi guys. Since he's sent most of them to Switzerland to work for more money he's bought a new car and him and his wife just took a Thai vacation.

 

Many English-speaking Americans do without a manager (or he could have a lazy one). If the guy's clearly winging it on his on, try texting about 1o minutes before any working hour. That's when clients are usually gone. But unless you've contacted without committing already, it's not you. It's them. Some of these guys are not organized.

 

You mean a pimp?

 

Hugs,

Greg

[BlakeBenz]

A polite way of saying many under 30 are rude, but they are merely the product of the culture that shapes them?

 

You’re only a product of the culture if you allow yourself to be. Most people over AND under 30 are brainwashed by the society we live in. Sad but true.

[BlakeBenz]

You mean a pimp?

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

Pimp?!? Lmao... let’s not be so naive here. There is a HUGE difference between a pimp and a manager/agent. A pimp isn’t taking 10-20% of your earnings.. they’re taking 100%. You are forced to work and if you don’t you have the shit beaten out of you. Pimps prey on the mentally vulnerable, brainwash them, and reap the benefits with no real work on their part. You still find your own clients and do all of the work you were doing before and NOW you’re giving it all away.

 

A manager is posting your ads, finding your clients, keeping you organized, and charging a small fee in exchange. They’re actually working FOR YOU. You can fire them and move on at any time. Let’s not forget to mention YOU choose when you work. No one is forcing you to be on the clock or out looking for work.

 

Pimps are not good people. I’ve encountered many, and no I have not ever nor will I ever work for one. I’ve had many friends who have been pimped, as well as several working for agencies. I can’t even associate with any escorts working for pimps anymore because it is so emotionally and mentally draining. Pimps and managers... BIG DIFFERENCE!

[+ Awwshuck]

No, they're just rude and need to be punished.

 

hmmmmmm...sounds kinda hot!

[+ tassojunior]

You mean a pimp?

 

Hugs,

Greg

Many of these managers or agents have never even met their clients. They're more like a message answering service that provides translation and sets appointments.

[Populist Fury]

You’re only a product of the culture if you allow yourself to be. Most people over AND under 30 are brainwashed by the society we live in. Sad but true.

 

 

Very true. Most people are lemmings unable to think for themselves, unfortunately... They need others to tell them what to think, what to like, & even what to believe in... it's not even sad anymore, it's pathetic. Especially in the world of politics these days

[BlakeBenz]

Very true. Most people are lemmings unable to think for themselves, unfortunately... They need others to tell them what to think, what to like, & even what to believe in... it's not even sad anymore, it's pathetic. Especially in the world of politics these days

 

Exactly why my mounted TV is for decoration and does not get used or even have cable. I am against all media unless it is work related