How would escorts feel about this request?

[newtotheworld]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

[GTMike]

In my humble opinion i wouldn't worry about that all.

 

Obviously I can't officially speak for them, but I'm very confident that the vast majority of escorts I have hung out with over the years, would absolutely have no problem with that request assuming they find the requester, sincere, real, trustworthy and hygienic.

[+ freecahill1965]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

You can post the ones you are interested in and we can give you our opinion. I assure you that very few if any providers in this forum would look at your request as strange. I can pretty much gaureentee that they would welcome the oppurtunity to service you in that way. What is your general location???

[newtotheworld]

You can post the ones you are interested in and we can give you our opinion. I assure you that very few if any providers in this forum would look at your request as strange. I can pretty much gaureentee that they would welcome the oppurtunity to service you in that way. What is your general location???

 

I'm in the Houston Area.

[+ freecahill1965]

I'm in the Houston Area.

The only one I know for sure would be awesome is Victor Powers https://rentmen.eu/VictorPowers He will be there 2/18. I am sure you will get other recommendations.

[jjkrkwood]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

 

 

Probably NOT, that's EASY money for him !

[Trick]

Isn’t this the companionship part of the business?

[jjkrkwood]

Isn’t this the companionship part of the business?

 

 

Companionship ? I'll get a dog, that wont leave after 1 hr and $300.......

[FTM Zachary Prince]

As long as you're paying an escort's rate I cant imagine there being an issue. Some escorts are not into the intimate and sensual stuff so it would be a good thing to mention when booking just in case. But the vast majority of us would have no issue with ṭhis type of request.

[+ nycman]

I was recently with an escort.....

 

2 hours of ass licking....fingering....fucking....all good.

 

2 minutes of cuddling?.....”I’m not comfortable with this”.

 

True story. So you never know. If it’s important to you....ask up front!

[LivingnLA]

Cuddling, like kissing, can be very intimate and personal. I'm sure some escorts would be fine with it, but I imagine some definitely won't be open to it. Your best bet is to ask upfront for what you want and see what they say. Or, if you're in a big city, you can check out some of the cuddle sites out there. I have no experience with either of these. They just came up after a quick search.

 

https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/

 

http://thesnugglebuddies.com/

[big-n-tall]

Except for maybe a few exceptions, I don’t think most escorts would have a problem with just cuddling.

 

A number of regulars, even after we’ve done the deed, like to wrap themselves around me even if we’re drenched with sweat.

[+ José Soplanucas]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

 

It is not a weird request, it is actually pretty standard. As in any other request, there is a chance the provider you chose may not be a good match. Follow the sound advise several posters share and ask. Always communicate clearly what you want.

[+ GregM]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

 

I've been in this biz for quite a while. I've also been asked to do what some would consider crazy things. Some of these things I have done. Some of these things I've had to decline because it was something I wasn't familiar with or was beyond my comfort. I can't think of one hooker that would say no to your request. Heck, I would jump on your request because it's one of my favorite things to do.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[rvwnsd]

I was recently with an escort.....

 

2 hours of ass licking....fingering....fucking....all good.

 

2 minutes of cuddling?.....”I’m not comfortable with this”.

 

True story. So you never know. If it’s important to you....ask up front!

 

I "liked" this post not because I'm glad the guy didn't want to cuddle, but because I agree with the line I boldfaced.

 

ASK

 

UP

 

FRONT

[LaffingBear]

Lots of good answers above.

• It's not an unusual request. While I've never hired for cuddling only, when hiring for extended sessions, I prefer that a significant portion is cuddling and another portion social. I have neither the interest nor the stamina to hire a guy to spend 8-12 hours engaging in sexual activities. Consider that craigslist is filled with ads of guys looking for cuddle-dates.
  
• It is easier money.
  
• The better escorts, the one's who genuinely like making people feel good, will respond very favorably, and
  
• Many escorts will probably appreciate not being treated as meat or a sex-machine
  

Can't tell from profile where you're located @newtotheworld . If you share that, someone here on the Forum might recommend the ideal cuddle-hire.

[phraughy]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

If they are weirded out by the request then they are not the right escort for you. Just ask up front. I have found many escorts like to cuddle.

[marylander1940]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

 

It's an unusual request but I'm sure escorts would love that!

[+ ODIN51]

Companionship ? I'll get a dog, that wont leave after 1 hr and $300.......

 

And would be loyal to you forever

[BluDay]

An escort would only feel awkward (to themselves, obviously) to be charging you an escort price for a cuddling experience only.

 

A client willing to pay a full rate for just cuddling knows what he's doing. My sessions are pretty low-demand, so my escorts don't have to work hard. I could see (but not expect) a cuddle-only session being less expensive.

 

I think I would expect nakedness and probably some erections, possibly some fondling, but not much else as my definition of a "cuddle-session".

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

 

You're asking the wrong people. Contact an escort you're interested in and email him.

 

Asking for third-party opinions on a relatively personal issue is opening up a can of worms: It's always best to be direct.

[+ kontor1]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

I would love to do that.... I am usually know for my boyfriend experience sessions, but since you are looking for an outrageously hot guy, I may not be the one but wish you good luck in your search. I think your request sounds very pleasant and many guys would love such a meet&greet!!!

[AndreFuture]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

I wouldn't. I love cuddling, with or without sex involved.

[Bearofdistinction]

There's something I've been wondering, but haven't been sure how to ask an escort over texting about it. I'm just not in the mood for sex or dates. What I really want is to just a spend an hour in bed, curled up, and cuddling. I know I can go to a place like grindr and look for that but honestly, the guys I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me and I just don't want to put up with the crap. I'd rather just find some outrageously hot guy that I would have no shot in the real world and pretend.

 

Would an escort be weirded out by such a request?

 

Please - The Guy will love you!!! Cuddling is Easy Money!

[+ VictorPowers]

My two cents. I currently have a cuddle only client. We have an agreed upon rate understanding that it very rarely turns into anything more than cuddling. We go over the hour all the time from being so relaxed or the great conversations. It's different, but it's a nice change of pace type of appointment.