Companions & PNP

[caliguy]

I've communicated with a few guys who told me that by PnP, they meant pot and poppers. That's not enough to turn me off.

Of coarse but 98% of the rest of the time it's meant meth + sex. I've done pot many times and not once has anyone ever called it PNP. Maybe that's a straight thing.

Edited December 11, 2017 by caliguy

[+ José Soplanucas]

Of coarse but 98% of the rest of the time it's meant meth + sex. I've done pot many times and not once has anyone ever called it PNP. Maybe that's a straight thing.

 

I guess it has to do with the lack of industry standards in our hobby. To me and my circle, PNP always involves one or more hard drugs, no weed or poppers. However, I am not surprised others may have a different definition.

[KennF]

And for me, if someone lists it in their profile (or as something they'd be into), it is a deal breaker. Just had that this past week.

 

There is a difference between saying "No PNP" and just not listing it as something he's "Into".

 

Everyone is welcome to make their own choices. I choose not to be around it anymore. (It fucked my life up before, and I don't want it fucking my life up now.)

 

An escort may be perfectly in control while using drugs. It isn't worth my time to find out if he is or isn't. There is no one so attractive or desirable that I'd be willing to risk the potential for that erratic behavior, again.

[+ sniper]

I think far and away the most common implication is meth for PnP. But there are always people who don't know what things mean - I had a 20something coworker from the sticks who thought "hooking up" meant kissing.

[mike carey]

who told me that by PnP, they meant pot and poppers.

Many people think LOL means 'lots of love'.

[Cannon]

I do see it it more often and I do get more of those kinds of offers. I've had a few "would have been" clients ask if I'd pnp, but I'm so turned off by drug users, that I don't even bother responding to them anymore. I don't use drugs and never will. I don't care how generous the guy might be.

Edited December 12, 2017 by Cannon

[NowOrNever]

I think far and away the most common implication is meth for PnP. But there are always people who don't know what things mean - I had a 20something coworker from the sticks who thought "hooking up" meant kissing.

 

Even certain escorts are unsure of what certain terms mean, I guess. One escort I was checking out last year listed "ballbusting" among his interest. When I asked him about it, he said that he thought it meant to "bust a nut," as in shooting a load, cumming. He was horrified when I explained that "ballbusting" meant to abuse a man's testicles. He was NOT into that at all.

[Rudynate]

Even certain escorts are unsure of what certain terms mean, I guess. One escort I was checking out last year listed "ballbusting" among his interest. When I asked him about it, he said that he thought it meant to "bust a nut," as in shooting a load, cumming. He was horrified when I explained that "ballbusting" meant to abuse a man's testicles. He was NOT into that at all.

It's an expression common in the northeast. "Busting balls" mean teasing somebody or giving them a hard time. A "ball buster" can mean some thing that was challenging or hard work.

[caliguy]

I'm so turned off by drug users, that I don't even bother responding to them anymore. I don't use drugs and never will. I don't care how generous the guy might be.

You may feel different but as Latbear says maybe just saying no hard drugs is a good way to go. Many clients will use pot or alcohol to relax and you might push them away.

[+ OliverSaks]

I do see it it more often and I do get more of those kinds of offers. I've had a few "would have been" clients ask if I'd pnp, but I'm so turned off by drug users, that I don't even bother responding to them anymore. I don't use drugs and never will. I don't care how generous the guy might be.

Smoke more weed.

[BlakeBenz]

The PNP providers to me clearly don't care about their health. Those are also probably the providers who offer bareback for additional fee... gross. Can't be trusted!

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

Remember when "PnP" meant "plug and play"?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plug_and_play

[Jostar]

Has anyone seen this guy johnnyrockett on RM. On his profile always talking about partying like six times. Like this guy is very crazy

[jawjateck]

The current crop of providers definitely make it alot easier to weed 'em out than in years past. Pride in drug use and abuse is on the rise. :confused:

[littlenut]

I've historically avoided those who advertise with PNP as an interest, and on top of that I have always specifically requested "no drugs" for my sessions. I'm now faced with a situation where an escort I've seen a couple times before, and has contacted me about travels back to my location, now has PNP listed in his interests. I believe it's a recent addition; I'm typically extra-careful about avoiding those profiles that list it.

 

So I can either decline future appointments with him, or I can accept future appointments while continuing to stipulate my "no drugs" rule (which he has historically honored). Or I could also ask him to elaborate more on why it's in his profile, but I don't know that any rationale would change my opinions on the matter.

 

Will need to give this some thought.

[+ sniper]

It's possible he just means he's okay with weed. I would think asking him about it would be a question for in person rather than via text though. If you've specifically said "no drugs" to him in the past you are certainly within reason declining upon the spot if you arrive and he's high.

[phraughy]

I am a recovering addict. I only hire escorts that have a firm anti drug stance.

[JTtorretto]

The majority of escorts I’ve met, in the largest markets, do pnp. Regardless of what’s posted on their profile.

[+ Topseed]

No partiers. Non-negotiable.

[caliguy]

The majority of escorts I’ve met, in the largest markets, do pnp. Regardless of what’s posted on their profile.

I hate that it's called PNP in the Gay community. Hey you want to Party? Lol I mean they don't give cute little fun names to drugs like Heroin and Meth is many time worse then that.

[+ GregM]

When I've had people ask if I party I like to be a smart ass I say yes. I then tell them I love a good party with some cake, ice cream, funny hats and games. That usually makes the crack heads go away.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[phraughy]

I hate that it's called PNP in the Gay community. Hey you want to Party? Lol I mean they don't give cute little fun names to drugs like Heroin and Meth is many time worse then that.

Aint that the truth

[phraughy]

I think in most cases PNP refers to using Meth (or, its nickname Tina which is why many will capitalize the T in ParTy). I don't think people generally refer to using 420 or poppers as PNP. Others may be more informed or have different opinions about this...

Yes, it refers to meth.

[Rudynate]

Yes, it refers to meth.

 

 

Or coke, or ecstasy or K . . .

[+ sniper]

I hate that it's called PNP in the Gay community. Hey you want to Party? Lol I mean they don't give cute little fun names to drugs like Heroin and Meth is many time worse then that.

TBH I felt a little bit the same way about the term Poz.