Companions & PNP

[+ Reisr30]

I am seeing more and more adds include PNP. Is this a trend?

 

Perhaps I’m old fashioned but this automatically disqualifies the companion from being considered. Any association with drugs (even if they say it’s just their clients) for me is a non-starter no matter how attractive someone. So from my perspective the number of companions seem to be shrinking. Curious what others think.

[+ JEC]

I'm with ya on PNP. If someone says 420 OK, I'm OK with that - though I prefer not to partake during a client/escort transaction, I want to keep my wits about me. I met a provider once who, when I arrived at their apartment (AIRBNB) they had a pipe sitting on the kitchen counter, it completely sketched me out and I couldn't wait to leave. On top, the guy clearly had lost 30 lbs from his RM photos which told me he's on the "downward spiral". I'm not a pollyanna, and tinkered with a few chems "in my day" (so am not judging) ...but the current trend with PnP (meth) to me is on another plain which I personally do not wish to be a part of. As a result, like you, I avoid providers who list PNP in their profile.

[LookingAround]

What they do on their own time is their business.

[+ GregM]

What they do on their own time is their business.

 

While I normally would agree but if they show up cracked out (done on their own time) one doesn't know how they will act if they start to come down or might sneak away and do another hit. I personally do not pnp. And I will not knowingly hang out with those that do. Heck I rarely if ever drink with or without client. The pots is different, thats an herb. I like to be 100% there so I can focus on the awesome guy in front of me.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ JEC]

What they do on their own time is their business.

That is absolutely true. And we are all free to do business with whom we choose. Being present with drugs and drug paraphernalia puts me in a legal position I can choose not to be in. Not to mention the potential the provider might be high during our session.

 

Again, I don’t judge people who choose to do it, I just choose not to be a part of it and ask that I not be judged in turn.

[LookingAround]

That is absolutely true. And we are all free to do business with whom we choose. Being present with drugs and drug paraphernalia puts me in a legal position I can choose not to be in. Not to mention the potential the provider might be high during our session.

 

Again, I don’t judge people who choose to do it, I just choose not to be a part of it and ask that I not be judged in turn.

I wasn’t aware anyone was judging you.

[+ lookingforfunny]

Nothing worse than having a provider show up, failing to provide. I felt so silly, years ago, when I learned more about the subject. Men on the dating sites would ask if I partied and I was so quick to respond, "yes, sometimes I go dancing on the weekends, depending on the DJ. Where do you go out?" That was the end of that chat. They would disappear and I never understood why, until a good a good friend, who earned the distinction of "gay dictionary," updated me on the lingo. Don't even get me started on the handkerchief color codes. Geez Louise. So much information, so little time.

[+ quoththeraven]

What they do on their own time is their business.

PNP in an ad is not about what the escort does on his own time.

[+ GregM]

Nothing worse than having a provider show up, failing to provide. I felt so silly, years ago, when I learned more about the subject. Men on the dating sites would ask if I partied and I was so quick to respond, "yes, sometimes I go dancing on the weekends, depending on the DJ. Where do you go out?" That was the end of that chat. They would disappear and I never understood why, until a good a good friend, who earned the distinction of "gay dictionary," updated me on the lingo. Don't even get me started on the handkerchief color codes. Geez Louise. So much information, so little time.

 

When I get asked if I pnp I say yes. I go on to tell them I love a good party where there's cake, ice cream, pin the tail on the donkey, balloons and chute funny hats. More times then not that gets me blocked.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ lookingforfunny]

When I get asked if I pnp I say yes. I go on to tell them I love a good party where there's cake, ice cream, pin the tail on the donkey, balloons and chute funny hats. More times then not that gets me blocked.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

@GregM Let's play Twister.

[+ GregM]

@GregM Let's play Twister.

 

 

Nakie twister!

 

Hugs,

Greg

[LookingAround]

PNP in an ad is not about what the escort does on his own time.

It is if I hire them.

[Populist Fury]

I try to avoid PNP guys like the plague.

 

Even simple 420 isn't cool with me anymore, at least not around me, it's the smell... can't stand it.

[LADoug1]

Had a hookup pull out cocaine unexpectedly. It was completely uncool. I let him stay and do the drug but it made nervous as it was at my apartment. My little head sometimes thinks more strongly than my big head. Should have sent him packing.

[+ pitman]

Nothing worse than having a provider show up, failing to provide. I felt so silly, years ago, when I learned more about the subject. Men on the dating sites would ask if I partied and I was so quick to respond, "yes, sometimes I go dancing on the weekends, depending on the DJ. Where do you go out?" That was the end of that chat. They would disappear and I never understood why, until a good a good friend, who earned the distinction of "gay dictionary," updated me on the lingo. Don't even get me started on the handkerchief color codes. Geez Louise. So much information, so little time.

I have made much better hiring choices since I figured out that PnP does not mean Piss'nPitts.

Edited February 8, 2018 by pitman

[+ José Soplanucas]

It depends on the circumstances. If the provider is abusing the substance and this is affecting his ability to perform or his appearance, I am not interested. Otherwise, why not.

 

I do not think it is fair to measure all substance users by the abusers. I do not think anyone would think it is fair to assimilate alcoholic beverages drinkers to drunkards.

[caliguy]

It depends on the circumstances. If the provider is abusing the substance and this is affecting his ability to perform or his appearance, I am not interested. .

Interesting but i think that a responsible tweaker might be pretty hard to come by. No pun intended.

[+ JEC]

I think in most cases PNP refers to using Meth (or, its nickname Tina which is why many will capitalize the T in ParTy). I don't think people generally refer to using 420 or poppers as PNP. Others may be more informed or have different opinions about this...

[+ José Soplanucas]

I think in most cases PNP refers to using Meth (or, its nickname Tina which is why many will capitalize the T in ParTy). I don't think people generally refer to using 420 or poppers as PNP. Others may be more informed or have different opinions about this...

 

You are correct, PNP does not refer to weed.

 

Interesting but i think that a responsible tweaker might be pretty hard to come by. No pun intended.

 

That is because you are judging all users by the messy ones, the ones that you can obviously see are high and fucked up. Who knows how many times you interacted with users without even noticing.

[caliguy]

You are correct, PNP does not refer to weed.

 

 

 

That is because you are judging all users by the messy ones, the ones that you can obviously see are high and fucked up. Who knows how many times you interacted with users without even noticing.

As a former user myself I've seen all types. Not saying it's impossible but very rare. Mostly comes from the newbies who haven't fucked their lives up yet. The drug is incredibly addictive though and even the most responsible will show the outwards signs of using after awhile.

[+ Keith30309]

To the topic on hand, there are many escorts who do put pnp in their profile because while they don't, the majority of guys that hire in SF seem to pnp in my experience. There are some escorts that pnp and there are many that don't. Before I retired I put no PNP in my profile and it limited my business but in the end its not something I want to be around. Im not working anymore so I can say this, guys that party are gross. They are usually terrible lays and if they have been partying enough they taste and smell like meth.

[BaronArtz]

https://rent.men/vikingbuddy

 

This beautiful young man moved to LA, hung out with the wrong crowd and got hooked on crystal meth and cocaine. I guess the street name for that is t and g. Which translates into PNP. He is facing homelessness and buys his food at a dollar store. He also decided to become a MTF transgender but doesn't have the money to correct the jaw bone, shave the adam's apple, get fake tits and butt implants and get some lipo done. He is now trying to 'make it' as a cross dresser - PNP model. Good luck ...

[+ Reisr30]

I appreciate all the comments. I was not trying to be judgemental; I wanted to validate that I am interpreting what I read correctly.

 

I think adults are free to choose to do what they wish to. I just have no desire to have any association with PnP so I'll be looking at the smaller set of guys who don't.

[Rudynate]

Interesting but i think that a responsible tweaker might be pretty hard to come by. No pun intended.

 

But the expression "tweaker" connotes abuse. I know professional men who PnP recreationally who would only be considered abusers by someone who considered any drug use "abuse."

[NowOrNever]

I've communicated with a few guys who told me that by PnP, they meant pot and poppers. That's not enough to turn me off.