Body image, personal desires, and how not to be a dickhead.

[+ sniper]

There is somebody for everybody, it's just not always easy to find that person who is in to you. Social media in some ways has made it easier. People can connect like never before. However, imho social media can also be just as isolating as having never putting yourself out there to find someone into you in the first place.

 

Anyway, yes working guys get paid to have encounters with all types. Some get off from the money... others genuinely from the connecting aspect of it. I clearly don't have the body of an Adonis, but I know for a fact some of these muscle guys I see find me attractive for one reason or another. It's not always what you look like that turns people on... it's also what you can do and how you treat them.

 

One guy, his clientele is mostly older guys. He likes older guys. He has told me often that I'm the youngest guy he sees, or more exactly "the youngest that he keeps." I'm 10 years his senior. We have a lot in common and have connected personally in many ways. So much so that I've been to his house, met his relatives, had sex with him with said relatives downstairs. LOL! And yet another likes me to the point that I don't pay for our encounters any more. He's built as fuck and taller than me. He likes rubbing my belly.

Please teach me your secrets.

[realeasymoney]

Of course it's OK not to be attracted to everybody. Anybody who thinks everybody has an obligation to be attracted to him/her is delusional

[+ GregM]

I'm ok with my body. Yes I would like to be thinner again but I am not going to stress on whether someone is gonna find me sexy enough for some good sexy time. If they do, cool. If not, cool. I am going to live my life and own the choices I make and very seldom let others dictate otherwise.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[LADoug1]

It's as much your right to be offended by the word as it is my right to use it.

Absolutely.

[+ PapaTony]

How about a concrete example? I hire for the fantasy of the BFE, so if a guy is not able to make that happen, I'm not going to hire him. I'm not going to look down on him, but I'm not going to hire him either. Does that make me a dickhead?

That has nothing to do with what @Ludo was saying in his OP

[TruthBTold]

I never felt anyone was attracted to me. That would include all escorts so I don't ever imagine that they would be. Money is the motive. On the other hand, I still try to work out and continually try to learn how to eat right. I suppose when I am lying in state someone might say, "He don't look so bad."

[bnm73]

But I AM a dickhead.

 

After all, you are what you eat.

 

I guess that makes me an asshole, too....

[+ Keith30309]

... he said that my personality, heart and soul override that ... and seeing all these ripped bodies

 

I think that these are the important elements. When I scroll down thru pages of profiles on any given site the abs, quads, delts, etc. become a fleshy blur. But when I see a profile or otherwise encounter someone who clearly has emotional intelligence, empathy, professionalism and a sincere interest in his clients’ experience during his time then it grabs my attention.

There are clients for whom every ounce of body fat is important but know that there are many for whom it is trivial.

[Rudynate]

Right!

 

I think the exception would be escorts and porn models since they are paid to act and perform.

 

 

 

If you page through the profiles on RM, you will find an amazing diversity of men: skinny guys, musclemen, chubby guys, twinks, daddies, all ethnicities, cover model handsome, average looks, and yet there they all are. There seems to be a niche out there for almost any kind of man.

[Ludo]

I'm glad this thread is coming back to the forefront, and not just because of my use of the word dickhead, this is still an important topic that warrants discussing.

[+ quoththeraven]

Weight and shape do not define happiness.