Anyone else getting probing PM's from a Forum Member?

[+ glutes]

Lately I've gotten several PM's (OK, conversations) asking me my position Top/ Bottom in sexual relations, and whether I bareback. He wants to get to 'know me better".

 

I think other members have received the same improper inquiries...?

 

Great,, same here.. not many of us around

 

where are you located? or what cities do you rent in?

 

do you mind saying if you top bare or use condoms?

[Cooper]

@Oaktown, If you feel someone is abusing the inbox/conversations please send a report. This is the 1st time I'm hearing about it.

 

Cooper

[Mo Mason]

Now that you mention it, I did get a PM yesterday from someone asking if I was a top or a bottom. I'd never seen him post anything before even though it says he's at the "master" level.

[marylander1940]

Lately I've gotten several PM's (OK, conversations) asking me my position Top/ Bottom in sexual relations, and whether I bareback. He wants to get to 'know me better".

 

I think other members have received the same improper inquiries...?

 

Great,, same here.. not many of us around

 

where are you located? or what cities do you rent in?

 

do you mind saying if you top bare or use condoms?

 

nope

[MrMattBig]

Lately I've gotten several PM's (OK, conversations) asking me my position Top/ Bottom in sexual relations, and whether I bareback. He wants to get to 'know me better".

 

I think other members have received the same improper inquiries...?

 

Great,, same here.. not many of us around

 

where are you located? or what cities do you rent in?

 

do you mind saying if you top bare or use condoms?

 

This is definitely disturbing as it is a completely unwarranted inquiry.

Escorts get questions like this all the time via text and email however.

Simply ignore and report.

[bigvalboy]

Lately I've gotten several PM's (OK, conversations) asking me my position Top/ Bottom in sexual relations, and whether I bareback. He wants to get to 'know me better".

 

I think other members have received the same improper inquiries...?

 

Great,, same here.. not many of us around

 

where are you located? or what cities do you rent in?

 

do you mind saying if you top bare or use condoms?

 

 

Yes...ignore and report.

[nynakedtop]

Yes... and in a very persistent and nagging way

[+ LIguy]

I have and he was asking me about my hiring. I told him it's been awhile as I've been ill and he replied saying that there was nothing for us to talk about then.

[Good Grief]

I have and he was asking me about my hiring. I told him it's been awhile as I've been ill and he replied saying that there was nothing for us to talk about then.

 

I've received PMs about hires I'd supposedly made. Never hired the guys I was questioned about.

[Good Grief]

nope

 

Sorry, meant to include you.

[Topbreed]

To solve the mystery,

 

I've sent out messages. I honestly was looking for other tops and guys who actually still rent escorts. If anyone didnt want to answer, and felt I was intruding on your privacy, apologies.

[Good Grief]

To solve the mystery,

 

I've sent out messages. I honestly was looking for other tops and guys who actually still rent escorts. If anyone didnt want to answer, and felt I was intruding on your privacy, apologies.

 

I did receive a message from you that I chose not to answer. Though you weren't the only one.

[jjkrkwood]

Gee, I feel overlooked

[nynakedtop]

Gee, I feel overlooked

not a chance! i can haunt you if you'd like!

[Good Grief]

Gee, I feel overlooked

 

Perhaps I could offer an explana

 

(Oops, wifi just went down, sorry.)

[hougalwizard]

To solve the mystery,

 

I've sent out messages. I honestly was looking for other tops and guys who actually still rent escorts. If anyone didnt want to answer, and felt I was intruding on your privacy, apologies.

@Topbreed, I didn’t find your convo intrusive. I’m particular sensitive to untoward inquiries on MBs so I think he may have been referring to other inquiries. JMHO.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Lately I've gotten several PM's (OK, conversations) asking me my position Top/ Bottom in sexual relations, and whether I bareback. He wants to get to 'know me better".

 

I think other members have received the same improper inquiries...?

 

Great,, same here.. not many of us around

 

where are you located? or what cities do you rent in?

 

do you mind saying if you top bare or use condoms?

I did get questions like this but thought nothing of it.

He can’t force me to tell him anything I don’t want to say, so why is it a problem to ask?

A question is a question, it does not actually harm you.

[MikeBiDude]

To solve the mystery,

 

I've sent out messages. I honestly was looking for other tops and guys who actually still rent escorts. If anyone didnt want to answer, and felt I was intruding on your privacy, apologies.

You and I have private messaged in the past...I’m thinking convos started by both of us at one point or another. Never intrusive or less than polite. And always 100% private

[Stormy]

Yes. I received two messages from the same person asking whether I was a top or bottom and wanting to compare notes on escorts. I answered his first pm but received another one from the same person as if we had bever corresponded

[maninsoma]

I did get questions like this but thought nothing of it.

He can’t force me to tell him anything I don’t want to say, so why is it a problem to ask?

A question is a question, it does not actually harm you.

 

I got a PM a few days ago, too. I simply ignored it. First of all, it seemed odd to me that someone's first attempt at interacting with me here would be via PM instead of a public back-and-forth in a thread. Secondly, I seldom hire anymore so I didn't really feel like I had much to share that this guy wanted to chat about.

[BasketBaller]

I too got a PM asking if I were top or bottom and wanting to discuss escorts. No objection on my part, but it was a little surprising to hear "I can't tell from your posts if you're top or bottom " when I've been very open the whole time I've been posting that I am a bottom.

[Walker1]

Yup me too. This was the message- my paranoid self thought it was some law enforcement trap

"

How goes? Would you be open to sharing info on escorts?

Top here. Are you a top, vers/bttm"

[Populist Fury]

Yup me too. This was the message- my paranoid self that it was some law enforcement trap

"

How goes? Would you be open to sharing info on escorts?

Top here. Are you a top, vers/bttm"

 

lmao, I got the same exact message from him <3

[jjkrkwood]

lmao, I got the same exact message from him <3

 

Maybe it was meant to be a good-hearted Chain-letter ? And you All broke the chain !

[+ José Soplanucas]

I also got the PM. The conversation stopped after he asked and I told him I do not share information about escorts barebacking. After I told him he should ask them, he did not send other message.