I'm thinking of going to a bath house / sex club

[FrequentMassageGetter]

What's it like? Good experiences? Bad experiences? I heard you have to give them your drivers license? Could that be true? That's what it says in this "How to" bathhouse video

[Bearofdistinction]

What is required for entry varies - Sex Clubs want proof of age -- Bath House usually want the info or a copy of your DL - Don't worry they don't send postcards for Xmas

[+ Travis69]

What city? Some are good, some are bad. The good ones are REALLY good. Enjoy.

[FrequentMassageGetter]

Los Angeles

[+ poolboy48220]

Two in Detroit, both have their good days and bad days in my experience.

[+ José Soplanucas]

What's it like? Good experiences? Bad experiences? I heard you have to give them your drivers license? Could that be true? That's what it says in this "How to" bathhouse video

 

Stop thinking and start doing.

[+ Travis69]

Los Angeles

Haven't been to LA in years but loved the Hollywood Spa back then. Not sure what LA has to offer now. Wait for some suggestions but definitely go. They can be fun.

[LaffingBear]

Tried it once, in LA, near WeHo. Long ago. Not for me.

[nynakedtop]

Lots of fun to be had in nyc!

[jjkrkwood]

I'm in NYC... Most of my sexual life takes place in sex clubs. Love em. Always variety, low cost, and you can always find something satisfying. If there's nothing you like, you can always WATCH others...

 

Initially, as a new client, they may ask for ID, but once they know you, they wont require it anymore.

 

While many on this site have a passion for HIRING, my passion exists for the CLUB.....

[+ sniper]

Bath houses as formal standing businesses, to evade rules about sex businesses, call themselves "private clubs" and have to maintain records, so they will ask for your ID and hold onto it while you are in the club, but they do not disseminate their mailing lists and are not going to contact you. It's strictly for liability purposes.

Be aware that many of these establishments are extremely hit or miss and have a WIDE range of clientele. Do not expect people who look like models unless you hire an escort to go with you.

And also know there's a high proportion of people who are not taking any precautions whatsoever there. So be safe.

[+ friendofsheila]

If you like the idea of having sex with someone who is not interested in exchanging one single word with you, then a bathhouse in the USA is for you.

 

(I'm told that men in bathhouses in other countries actually talk to each other.)

[+ friendofsheila]

I went to a sex club once. The rooms were like walking around on the set of a high school production of a strange play. (No privacy, either.)

 

I also got the feeling that very little sex happens on-site.

[jjkrkwood]

Bath houses as formal standing businesses, to evade rules about sex businesses, call themselves "private clubs" and have to maintain records, so they will ask for your ID and hold onto it while you are in the club, but they do not disseminate their mailing lists and are not going to contact you. It's strictly for liability purposes.

Be aware that many of these establishments are extremely hit or miss and have a WIDE range of clientele. Do not expect people who look like models unless you hire an escort to go with you.

And also know there's a high proportion of people who are not taking any precautions whatsoever there. So be safe.

 

Not to play devils advocate, but many of the clientele I've encountered at the NYC clubs are HOTTER than many of the escorts that appear in Daddy's Reviews that have been hired. As far as safety, it's should always be YOUR OWN responsibility for safety, whether you go to a club, or HIRE an escort. We are all adults and know how to protect ourselves, so safety really isnt an issue for club partyers. Any person you will meet OR hire will have a sexual history you have no knowledge of, so playing "safe" is encouraged. And as for the hit or miss thing, unless you are truly "selective", with a crowd of anywhere from 50-200 guys, I am certain you can find at least 1 prospect to fit your bill ? But if you are a devotee of hiring and comfortable with the practice and expense, by all means DO IT....

[jjkrkwood]

If you like the idea of having sex with someone who is not interested in exchanging one single word with you, then a bathhouse in the USA is for you.

 

(I'm told that men in bathhouses in other countries actually talk to each other.)

 

 

WRONG !

[jjkrkwood]

I went to a sex club once. The rooms were like walking around on the set of a high school production of a strange play. (No privacy, either.)

 

I also got the feeling that very little sex happens on-site.

 

 

This is funny !

[bigvalboy]

Not to play devils advocate, but many of the clientele I've encountered at the NYC clubs are HOTTER than many of the escorts that appear in Daddy's Reviews that have been hired. As far as safety, it's should always be YOUR OWN responsibility for safety, whether you go to a club, or HIRE an escort. We are all adults and know how to protect ourselves, so safety really isnt an issue for club partyers. Any person you will meet OR hire will have a sexual history you have no knowledge of, so playing "safe" is encouraged. And as for the hit or miss thing, unless you are truly "selective", with a crowd of anywhere from 50-200 guys, I am certain you can find at least 1 prospect to fit your bill ? But if you are a devotee of hiring and comfortable with the practice and expense, by all means DO IT....

 

 

Yes...+1

[Chuckball]

It depends on the day and crowd whether you will see any action. I always found Mondays were best to find horny men. I always suspected it was because a lot of guys didn't get lucky at the bars over the weekend. Don't expect a BFE. Hookups are for quick sexual encounters. Just play safe!

[bigvalboy]

If you like the idea of having sex with someone who is not interested in exchanging one single word with you, then a bathhouse in the USA is for you.

 

(I'm told that men in bathhouses in other countries actually talk to each other.)

 

I went to a sex club once. The rooms were like walking around on the set of a high school production of a strange play. (No privacy, either.)

 

I also got the feeling that very little sex happens on-site.

 

Your assumptions are incorrect, and your experience, limited as it was, is not the norm. But thank you for playing...

[Despardo]

I grew up in bath houses in New York City. In the 1970s they were seething hotbeds of orgiastic sex. A good night was 4 or 5 hot encounters. Then I was introduced to the Mine Shaft! This thread seems really quaint.

 

When I moved from NYC to LA in 1990, I found the LA scene to be really tame and quite prudish. The bath house there would confiscate your poppers! No drug policy. Give me a break. Most of the guys there were high on coke.

Edited October 18, 2017 by Despardo

[+ Travis69]

If you like the idea of having sex with someone who is not interested in exchanging one single word with you, then a bathhouse in the USA is for you.

 

(I'm told that men in bathhouses in other countries actually talk to each other.)

Now I always say thank you as I grab my towel and head out of their room. That's TWO words!!!!!

[bigvalboy]

8709...End of story.

[+ Travis69]

8709...End of story.

Went there a few times. Still open?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Yes, people talk to each other.

 

No, it's not awkward. Not unless you want it to be.

 

Safe sex, like in most aspects of life, is an individual decision. Most decent baths provide a ton of protection, gratis.

 

The best bath in the States is Steamworks Chicago: Clean, huge, beautiful gym, great looking clientele and the perfect environment for getting in and getting off.

[jjkrkwood]

Like with any other social interaction, if there is a connection with a guy at a bath house, there could/would be conversation. And when there is @friendofsheila , at least I know he's not talking to me because he is PAID to !