Are escorts acting or are they really authentic when meeting a client?

[polichemos]

everytime o hire a guy to spend time with I wonder if he really feels comfortable with me or he's just acting a role, some of them can't stop looking at the clock "never again for me to hire them" some are completely nice but makes me confuse because I know it's hard to spend time with someone you don't know and never met before.

 

My opinion, of escorts are constantly acting a role, does it makes them natural actors or liers.

 

Anyway we have no choice when it comes to hire a beautiful man to spend time with and makes us happy with their presence but it can also be risky if we believe they are really into and we create the affection we can't get to feel for them because it's all about business.

[polichemos]

everytime o hire a guy to spend time with I wonder if he really feels comfortable with me or he's just acting a role, some of them can't stop looking at the clock "never again for me to hire them" some are completely nice but makes me confuse because I know it's hard to spend time with someone you don't know and never met before.

 

My opinion, of escorts are constantly acting a role, does it makes them natural actors or liers.

 

Anyway we have no choice when it comes to hire a beautiful man to spend time with and makes us happy with their presence but it can also be risky if we believe they are really into and we create the affection we can't get to feel for them because it's all about business.

[LaffingBear]

Advice: stop wondering. Difficult, I know, but try.

 

You're just playing head games with yourself. And, really, what difference does it make?

 

How does one feel better from wondering about that?

 

Just enjoy it. And for whatever its worth, my guess would be some escorts are acting, some escorts get as much fulfillment from the accomplished act as clients get from the erotic interaction, and some escorts are genuinely wired to enjoy giving pleasure, and can find something fun and attractive about almost every human.

[LaffingBear]

Advice: stop wondering. Difficult, I know, but try.

 

You're just playing head games with yourself. And, really, what difference does it make?

 

How does one feel better from wondering about that?

 

Just enjoy it. And for whatever its worth, my guess would be some escorts are acting, some escorts get as much fulfillment from the accomplished act as clients get from the erotic interaction, and some escorts are genuinely wired to enjoy giving pleasure, and can find something fun and attractive about almost every human.

[LivingnLA]

This is a tricky question to answer for escorts because some clients get very touchy about the answers. It reminds me of a conversation I had with my oldest son when he asked me how I felt about prostitution. He'd found an old paper I wrote in college.

 

As I said to him, we're all prostitutes if we work for a living. All that changes is which of our abilities, skills, and attributes we offer and how much we're paid for our services. It was a fun conversation.

 

Given that, I'm sure it'll come as no surprise that I know and expect everyone to be performing or wearing a mask to some degree in life. It's human nature to "wear different hats" depending on who we're interacting with and the specific situation.

 

The best of us--regardless of our profession--find something of interest in whoever we're working with and we find common ground to build a successful win-win interaction. That's how "the big bucks" are made, regardless of profession, assuming we have the abilities, skills, and attributes that are in demand.

[LivingnLA]

This is a tricky question to answer for escorts because some clients get very touchy about the answers. It reminds me of a conversation I had with my oldest son when he asked me how I felt about prostitution. He'd found an old paper I wrote in college.

 

As I said to him, we're all prostitutes if we work for a living. All that changes is which of our abilities, skills, and attributes we offer and how much we're paid for our services. It was a fun conversation.

 

Given that, I'm sure it'll come as no surprise that I know and expect everyone to be performing or wearing a mask to some degree in life. It's human nature to "wear different hats" depending on who we're interacting with and the specific situation.

 

The best of us--regardless of our profession--find something of interest in whoever we're working with and we find common ground to build a successful win-win interaction. That's how "the big bucks" are made, regardless of profession, assuming we have the abilities, skills, and attributes that are in demand.

[+ José Soplanucas]

We keep talking about escorts and clients as though they were two homogenous groups. Study each case individually.

[+ José Soplanucas]

We keep talking about escorts and clients as though they were two homogenous groups. Study each case individually.

[myophile]

I don't care (or not much ...) what an escort thinks about me, I just care how he behaves. Whatever happens or doesn't happen sexually, I expect him to act like he's pleased to see me, act like he's interested in me, and treat me like a human being. I expect the same from my trainer, the guy I see occasionally for PT, and the guy who gives me occasional therapeutic (=non-erotic) massages. I don't have sex with these latter three (although don't think it hasn't crossed my mind!), but I recognize that like the escorts I hire they are providing physical, and to some extent psychological, services for money; and that although we may in fact be friends, the "contract" includes a certain amount of acting -- or call it professional attitude -- on their part. (On my part, I pay on time, do as I'm told, and try not to act like a douche.)

[myophile]

I don't care (or not much ...) what an escort thinks about me, I just care how he behaves. Whatever happens or doesn't happen sexually, I expect him to act like he's pleased to see me, act like he's interested in me, and treat me like a human being. I expect the same from my trainer, the guy I see occasionally for PT, and the guy who gives me occasional therapeutic (=non-erotic) massages. I don't have sex with these latter three (although don't think it hasn't crossed my mind!), but I recognize that like the escorts I hire they are providing physical, and to some extent psychological, services for money; and that although we may in fact be friends, the "contract" includes a certain amount of acting -- or call it professional attitude -- on their part. (On my part, I pay on time, do as I'm told, and try not to act like a douche.)

[polichemos]

Advice: stop wondering. Difficult, I know, but try.

 

You're just playing head games with yourself. And, really, what difference does it make?

 

How does one feel better from wondering about that?

 

Just enjoy it. And for whatever its worth, my guess would be some escorts are acting, some escorts get as much fulfillment from the accomplished act as clients get from the erotic interaction, and some escorts are genuinely wired to enjoy giving pleasure, and can find something fun and attractive about almost every human.

That's what I do all the time.

[polichemos]

Advice: stop wondering. Difficult, I know, but try.

 

You're just playing head games with yourself. And, really, what difference does it make?

 

How does one feel better from wondering about that?

 

Just enjoy it. And for whatever its worth, my guess would be some escorts are acting, some escorts get as much fulfillment from the accomplished act as clients get from the erotic interaction, and some escorts are genuinely wired to enjoy giving pleasure, and can find something fun and attractive about almost every human.

That's what I do all the time.

[LookingAround]

Acting a role. Quite simple.

[LookingAround]

Acting a role. Quite simple.

[+ nycman]

Does your dentist REALLY like you?

 

It's the same question at the end of the day.

[+ nycman]

Does your dentist REALLY like you?

 

It's the same question at the end of the day.

[Mydavid]

It is usually a win-win situation, don't think about it too much.

[Mydavid]

It is usually a win-win situation, don't think about it too much.

[+ VictorPowers]

I'm not acting. I genuinely have connections with many clients! I enjoy it a lot and it's a big reason why I'm a provider. It's fulfilling and so thrilling for us both!

[+ VictorPowers]

I'm not acting. I genuinely have connections with many clients! I enjoy it a lot and it's a big reason why I'm a provider. It's fulfilling and so thrilling for us both!

[myophile]

I'm not acting. I genuinely have connections with many clients! I enjoy it a lot and it's a big reason why I'm a provider. It's fulfilling and so thrilling for us both!

 

Oh, I agree, and those connections are real, and REALLY important. But although I'm sure you're not always acting, aren't you sometimes, just a little bit? I'm in a service industry, too, and I certainly am ...

[myophile]

I'm not acting. I genuinely have connections with many clients! I enjoy it a lot and it's a big reason why I'm a provider. It's fulfilling and so thrilling for us both!

 

Oh, I agree, and those connections are real, and REALLY important. But although I'm sure you're not always acting, aren't you sometimes, just a little bit? I'm in a service industry, too, and I certainly am ...

[+ VictorPowers]

I think it's inevitable. Even for your Dentist!

[+ VictorPowers]

I think it's inevitable. Even for your Dentist!

[+ glutes]

everytime o hire a guy to spend time with I wonder if he really feels comfortable with me or he's just acting a role, some of them can't stop looking at the clock "never again for me to hire them" some are completely nice but makes me confuse because I know it's hard to spend time with someone you don't know and never met before.

 

My opinion, of escorts are constantly acting a role, does it makes them natural actors or liers.

 

Anyway we have no choice when it comes to hire a beautiful man to spend time with and makes us happy with their presence but it can also be risky if we believe they are really into and we create the affection we can't get to feel for them because it's all about business.

 

You may want to look at this thread:

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/are-escorts-just-mere-actors.79047/