Does it matter if the masseur is nakd throughout the session if we're facing down most of the time?

[john1973]

Wow. The best combination imaginable. I'm glad you experienced it. Some good things never last--but having it so good for even half a year is a big win in my book.

 

Only one experience here -- not during instruction session -- during his private sessions while he gathered the required hours he needed -- can't remember -- he need to log lots of hours before certification.

 

He worked nude (for me:) -- did a constantly improving massage as he continued to learn -- both of us came orally -- he had decent guage PA - only one I have ever had in my mouth.

 

Was sorry when he finished and went back home.

[fedssocr1]

that is a good idea - about massage students. Many, many years ago I got together a few times with a guy who was doing his hours to get certified. Gorgeous young blond guy who had been a gymnast. He was a little hesitant the first time to go too far, but after that he was pretty accommodating. Now he's a well know realtor around town.

[LaffingBear]

While i have many escort experiences, i have been with very few m4m masseurs. The two guys i can think of were nude.

 

I was stupid enough to ask one of them "is that your elbow pressing into my back?"

[LoveNDino]

While i have many escort experiences, i have been with very few m4m masseurs. The two guys i can think of were nude.

 

I was stupid enough to ask one of them "is that your elbow pressing into my back?"

Bless yo heart;)

[jadran]

For me, the slow discovery of the masseur's body is one of the most exciting aspects of massages of this kind. So I am the one who does not like the masseur to go nude straight away. Actually, I ask most of them to stay in their underwear and slowly undresss as they introduce erotic elements into the massage.

(This way I also try to make sure to get a proper massage at least to some point. Living in a place with limited choice, most of the guys are also escorts and often what you get is a quick rub and then mutual touching and things quickly start to go in another direction from the proper massage.... )

I like when things start with the proper massage and once we're into it to slowly discover his body. Occasional touches and sights of his legs. Hearing when he's taking off his T-shirt or a tank top. Finding out whether his chest is hairy or not. Feeling his briefs touch my body as he leans over. Seeing the way his butt fills them as he moves around the table. Feel his erection through his underwear while he's "accidentally" brushing it against my arms or legs. Finally, I love the point of seeing him dropping his pants as we slowly move to the next part of the massage....

I agree with everything else that has already been written about the pleasure of body-to-body contact.

[samK]

For me it's actually more of a comfort thing. If I'm going to be nude I want my masseur nude. It creates a level laying field for me if that makes sense. I imagine most masseurs enjoy not only massaging guys, but the thrill of seeing so many clients nude as well. If they get to be thrilled in a sense and I'm paying, I expect to be thrilled and see their goods as well.

I hate being the only naked person in the room!!!

[+ poolboy48220]

I hate being the only naked person in the room!!!

some people really enjoy it https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/cmnm-clothed-naked-scene.120886/ :-)

[Trick]

I get a headache or a stiff neck when I put my head to the side. So I just keep it down on the headrest. Then I strain my eyes trying to get a glimpse of that thing dangling in front of my masseur.

[diehard_002]

The only thing to worry when you are on the tummy the whole time.......... Don't fart...Don't fart Don't fart...

Seriously i stopped going to spas of late since i do not see the point of a clothed guy pretending to 'pleasure you' for 3 minutes at the end.

Where is the website of hot men who like getting massaged by clients instead ? That will be my dream come true..

[+ oldNbusted]

For me, if a full escort session isn't an option, they can keep their clothes on.

Where is the website of hot men who like getting massaged by clients instead ? That will be my dream come true..

 

https://rent.men? I mean, who wouldn't like to get paid to get a massage, unless you are really terrible at it!

[Rudynate]

For me, if a full escort session isn't an option, they can keep their clothes on.

 

 

https://rent.men? I mean, who wouldn't like to get paid to get a massage, unless you are really terrible at it!

 

 

All you would have to do is hire somebody and tell them you wanted to massage them. Who would say "no?" Many years ago, I had an arrangement where I traded massages with a professional masseur. I'm not a professional but I give a decent rub for an untrained person. One time, I asked him how my massage was and he said, "It wasn't unpleasant." I immediately learned the meaning of damning with faint praise.

Edited July 30, 2017 by Rudynate

[samK]

some people really enjoy it https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/cmnm-clothed-naked-scene.120886/

I may have to give this a try.... I guess if there were several people, now it is a party! ((;

[laxstick087]

There is nothing like the comfort of body to body context. That is part of what relaxes me: that feeling of mutuality and the connectivity that results from body meeting body full on. Especially if the masseur is very skilled and knows how to use his body as a part of the massage that is even better. I totally get when people are not comfortable with that level of contact. But when guys are skilled and open to that kind of healing energy it is ah-mazing. It is a mistake to assume this is primarily a sexual thing (although it can go there), it really isn't. The point is one of relaxation and body to body contact is, in and of itself, healing, and the use of body weight to massage the muscles is part of the art of massage. Ok, I'm done with my little mini-rant. Lol.

 

Totally and completely agree!

[samK]

It does matter, and it's great when they are as undressed as you. One of my faves likes to knock his tree trunk into my forehead when I'm face down in the head rest which is exciting .

All good and fun until someone loses an eye! - haha

[Spikeseven]

I used to get hard while face down when I hear the elastic waist band of my masseur taking off his underwear but now I just like getting naked with him at the start. Sometimes my hands are hanging down and I feel unknown hairy parts of him brush me as he passes and when my hands are at my side palms open I sometimes get a handful. But I like it when the masseur is at my head and I can see through the hole in the face cradle where he is and reach up and stroke each of his naked butt cheeks. I never interrupt his pace by my casual touching here and there and its not to get him hard. It just adds to the overall intimacy of the massage. So yeah, I like my masseur naked at the start.

[Capitano]

I used to get hard while face down when I hear the elastic waist band of my masseur taking off his underwear but now I just like getting naked with him at the start. Sometimes my hands are hanging down and I feel unknown hairy parts of him brush me as he passes and when my hands are at my side palms open I sometimes get a handful. But I like it when the masseur is at my head and I can see through the hole in the face cradle where he is and reach up and stroke each of his naked butt cheeks. I never interrupt his pace by my casual touching here and there and its not to get him hard. It just adds to the overall intimacy of the massage. So yeah, I like my masseur naked at the start.

 

I am less sensual in the face down stage, but I totally agree with you on the pleasantness of the level playing field that is created if we are both naked. I enjoy an occasional brush while my hands are on the table and if they are hanging down, I may gently stroke the masseur's calf muscle if the position is right. It creates contact, warmth, and intimacy. When face up, things can but don't have to become more sensual if the chemistry is there and things are, again, mutual and the playing field level. I absolutely hate it when the masseur wants to stroke me while unwilling to be naked with me (I call this "American hang-up") or if he expects me to "finish myself" while allowing me to touch him (I call this "Eastern European hang-up"). Sorry, not interested. If anything, it's a major mood killer, and I would then prefer it if they wouldn't try or advertise sensual or "relaxing" massage. But then, I guess, it would be tough to justify charging anything more than $80-100 an hour. I pay $80 for top notch professional masseuse (yeah, she is a woman, but super strong and EXCELLENT in taking care of issues) next door.

 

My most recent example of ridiculousness is this dude being naked but wearing a sock over his package, which is what I realized when I turned around. I mean, why even bother? Does that work for ANY of his clients?

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/thebestmassage.shtml

Edited February 4, 2018 by Capitano

[Spikeseven]

I am less sensual in the face down stage, but I totally agree with you on the pleasantness of the level playing field that is created if we are both naked. I enjoy an occasional brush while my hands are on the table and if they are hanging down, I may gently stroke the masseur's calf muscle if the position is right. It creates contact, warmth, and intimacy. When face up, things can but don't have to become more sensual if the chemistry is there and things are, again, mutual and the playing field level. I absolutely hate it when the masseur wants to stroke me while unwilling to be naked with me (I call this "American hang-up") or if he expects me to "finish myself" while allowing me to touch him (I call this "Eastern European hang-up"). Sorry, not interested. If anything, it's a major mood killer, and I would then prefer it if they wouldn't try or advertise sensual or "relaxing" massage. But then, I guess, it would be tough to justify charging anything more than $80-100 an hour. I pay $80 for a top notch professional masseuse (yeah, she is a woman, but super strong and EXCELLENT in taking care of issues) next door.

 

My most recent example of ridiculousness is this dude being naked but wearing a sock over his package, which is what I realized when I turned around. I mean, why even bother? Does that work for ANY of his clients?

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/thebestmassage.shtml

For $130 he better do a whole lot more than wear a sock!

[+ Funguy]

All of my masseurs start with the sensual/erotic stuff while I am face down, so that's pretty much in the first 15-20 minutes of a 90 minute massage.

As soon as that starts, and I always let him start first, I think it's fair game to reciprocate and none have turned me away. Even before I turn over, everything is in play!