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When I first started seeing escorts and the chemistry was right I must admit that it was so liberating that I am/was willing to be very experimental. I worked my way from a newbie with guys gradually which was a good thing. I still won't do certain things but damn I never realized how many erogenous zones I had on my body - what made me hard and what I loved to do with a man. Fucking with a man when it's right is amazing as a top or bottom. Not for everyone but boy is it liberating. Thanks to those escorts who showed me the way. My dick, nips, butt, pits and tongue thank you as well.

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I am with @TruthBTold . I have not surprised myself or being surprised in a very long time. I did have a period of intense experimentation and jumping from one surprise to another, but that stage has been long gone.

I love the feeling of a surprise. I think it is one f the things I find appealing in young men in their 20s. I love that moment of confusion, when pleasure suddenly and unexpectedly overwhelms them.

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On the other hand, I feel as though my imagination and my testosterone fueled brain can lead me to do things I would not have thought of doing, not out of shame or guilt, rather out of lack of insight. Once the testosterone kicks

in my sexual imagination seems jet fueled and allows me to embrace the sexual world.

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Nothing ever surprises me that I'm willing to do. What DOES surprise me sometimes is how good these things really, down deep in the core, feel.

Especially when in a "rhythm" and the other guy feels it too.

 

A long time ago a straight friend asked me in general about guy sex and I replied that at times it was just plain other-worldly or alien that it was so good. Any and all of it!

 

I have learned not to turn down anything which might feel good, Good, GREAT!

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Nothing ever surprises me that I'm willing to do. What DOES surprise me sometimes is how good these things really, down deep in the core, feel.

Especially when in a "rhythm" and the other guy feels it too.

 

A long time ago a straight friend asked me in general about guy sex and I replied that at times it was just plain other-worldly or alien that it was so good. Any and all of it!

 

I have learned not to turn down anything which might feel good, Good, GREAT!

Exactly as how I feel. My nips or pits or butt were never explored by women. The feeling of great gay sex is sensational. My toes curl....

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I like this thread! I will say I'm more vanilla however as I mentioned previously I've become much more excited about butt play, a nice finger or two, lubed of course to start, with playing with me. I've found a number of young men who are eager to please this old man, well of course I like to be kind, and have found a number of ways to do so. I'm not an eager bottom but there are times that this foreplay has made me eager. Sorry to be graphic. And thanks for sharing

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I like this thread! I will say I'm more vanilla however as I mentioned previously I've become much more excited about butt play, a nice finger or two, lubed of course to start, with playing with me. I've found a number of young men who are eager to please this old man, well of course I like to be kind, and have found a number of ways to do so. I'm not an eager bottom but there are times that this foreplay has made me eager. Sorry to be graphic. And thanks for sharing

 

Do not be sorry. Keep talking.

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I do feel I missed out on a great deal during my earlier years; I was almost 40 before I had my first encounter with a guy and that was in DC at Mr P's when I had never been in a real gay bar before and met my first hustler and he said, he was a hustler.

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I do feel I missed out on a great deal during my earlier years; I was almost 40 before I had my first encounter with a guy and that was in DC at Mr P's when I had never been in a real gay bar before and met my first hustler and he said, he was a hustler.

 

Mr. P! It doesn't exist anymore. Only The Fireplace survived in that area.

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I've found the ability to expand my experiences by hiring and its been exhilarating. There have been aspects I've wanted to explore and have hired guys who have taught this old dog more than a few new tricks.

 

Recently, the Palm Springs event resulted in a hire that really expanded my horizons. Years ago, I was too uptight to even consider, much less actually "go there." This escort convinced me to add an element to our session and it was incredible. (BTW, can anyone suggest a good flogger? Asking for a friend. )

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I do feel I missed out on a great deal during my earlier years; I was almost 40 before I had my first encounter with a guy and that was in DC at Mr P's when I had never been in a real gay bar before and met my first hustler and he said, he was a hustler.

Mr Ps exuded sleaze. The owner used to pay young men to hang around the bar shirtless to attract patrons. Miss that place

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I still won't do certain things but damn I never realized how many erogenous zones I had on my body - what made me hard and what I loved to do with a man. Fucking with a man when it's right is amazing as a top or bottom. ...boy is it liberating. Thanks to those escorts who showed me the way. My dick, nips, butt, pits and tongue thank you as well.

 

Last Saturday I was with a retired escort who, at times, still sees some of his former (selective) clients. I truly enjoyed his almost two hours play time and company and hope to see him again when I contact him. :):):)

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I've found the ability to expand my experiences by hiring and its been exhilarating. There have been aspects I've wanted to explore and have hired guys who have taught this old dog more than a few new tricks.

 

Recently, the Palm Springs event resulted in a hire that really expanded my horizons. Years ago, I was too uptight to even consider, much less actually "go there." This escort convinced me to add an element to our session and it was incredible. (BTW, can anyone suggest a good flogger? Asking for a friend. )

Since were on the subject I never realized how much I crave and love my nips squeezed hard and not. I find it amazing what I can tolerate. Plus I'm wired from my nips to my dick. Thanks men for helping me discover my "pervy" side. Among many others. Lol

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I can remember starting out as only a top who didn't even like having a guy stick a finger up my butt.

Then, after a couple failed attempts at bottoming I found a top who knew what he was doing and I discovered I love bottoming.

I can remember having on my profile(s) that I don't get into rimming either getting or giving

Then, after being presented with one of the prettiest tightest asses I've ever seen I discovered I loved to rim (the right ass).

I can remember thinking how can anyone get into getting pissed on or pissing on another guy

Now I don't mind doing the pissing if he's really into it. I haven't been pissed on yet but you never know. I don't picture myself EVER swallowing piss.

I guess the fact that my guy-on-guy times are limited to a few times a year when I'm traveling means I probably won't be very experimental with anything else but who knows....................

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I can remember starting out as only a top who didn't even like having a guy stick a finger up my butt.

Then, after a couple failed attempts at bottoming I found a top who knew what he was doing and I discovered I love bottoming.

I can remember having on my profile(s) that I don't get into rimming either getting or giving

Then, after being presented with one of the prettiest tightest asses I've ever seen I discovered I loved to rim (the right ass).

I can remember thinking how can anyone get into getting pissed on or pissing on another guy

Now I don't mind doing the pissing if he's really into it. I haven't been pissed on yet but you never know. I don't picture myself EVER swallowing piss.

I guess the fact that my guy-on-guy times are limited to a few times a year when I'm traveling means I probably won't be very experimental with anything else but who knows....................

The two things I'm not open to are water sports and fisting. Everything else depending on the man chemistry and heat I'm up for it. I've learned that we have elements of sexuality that when exposed and opened make the experience amazing.

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When I first started seeing escorts and the chemistry was right I must admit that it was so liberating that I am/was willing to be very experimental. I worked my way from a newbie with guys gradually which was a good thing. I still won't do certain things but damn I never realized how many erogenous zones I had on my body - what made me hard and what I loved to do with a man. Fucking with a man when it's right is amazing as a top or bottom. Not for everyone but boy is it liberating. Thanks to those escorts who showed me the way. My dick, nips, butt, pits and tongue thank you as well.

 

When I started hiring I was versatile. I enjoyed both top and bottom but over the years I have become strictly a bottom. I see two escorts twice s year who have become my friends. And I enjoy others from time to time. But there is one who. I try to see as often as possible for whom I have developed an affection from the first time I met him. While I enjoy sex with all the guys, being with him is always pleasure and sex with him, because it involves deep feelings, is always very special, or I might say fabulous.

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I've always been up for just about anything - just need the right circumstances. Fisting is my only (probably - ha ha) limit. I came close recently, I was in ecstasy when there was 1 finger; then 2 fingers - oh god!; then 3 fingers - Jesus!; 4 fingers and I went ballistic. That's as far as we got.

 

I thought the same with water sports but as I have "matured" I seem to enjoy it - always get a good laugh with it. Also had a piss enema for the first time - that was an experience and a half!

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anything as long as its safe... also no blood, no fisting not my thing, a finger or 3 is nice though :p

some pain is nice ;) but not too much pain, what I'm trying to say is most things are good but in moderation hehe :D

 

I'm pretty vanilla, with some spackles of caramel and chocolate ;) Im really a romantic, love to kiss, cuddle, hold and make love to a client ;)

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Surprises, perhaps regrets, include

 

Getting revved up and carried away at the now defunct Campus Theater in San Francisco .... and giving head to a dancer moving through the audience. It wasnt the sexual act that caused concerns... it was the wondering and disgust about what i might have picked up from the multiple, sequential mouths on that dick before mine. Ugh!

 

I have gotten drunk and frisky in the dim lighting of a gay bar, and then stepped outside to daylight, only to regret and be surprised about the guy i was playing with once i saw him in the light. (Im a little ashamed to share that)

 

Didnt happen often, but I made frustrated escort selection decisions with my crotch rather than my head. Learned from those mistakes

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