"Performance Issues" and Escorts

[big-n-tall]

Knew I'd flush you out!

 

I don't know what you're talking about.

[+ purplekow]

I did not know at all about these cycles and steroids, I am absolutely ignorant of the gym culture. My sexy curves speak loudly of it. I understand now @BabyBoomer's and others' point. However I would take advantage of the situation to maximize my pleasure rather than saving a few bucks. This is what I would do. I have used this strategy many times and it always worked great. I have shared this before in other threads, so I apologize for repeating myself.

I would make a big deal about it and I would share how frustrated and unsatisfied I feel. I would not call him as soon as I used to. I would try to restrain my impulse to text him as long as I can, the ideal would be to wait for him to text. In my first conversation after the "break" I would address the issue and I would nicely ask to make sure that the next time he takes precautions. I would tell him that I still need a little more time to work out my frustration. A few days, probably a week after that conversation, I would text him and make an appointment. If everything works as it has worked for me overtime, you will have an unforgettable experience.

You may prefer calling instead of texting. I am into the early 20s guys, so we do not talk on the phone.

 

Ah, so your response would have been to be a manipulative bitch.

 

I am not taking the escort's side in the original posting, but your response is reprehensible in my opinion. I was surprised to read it and it is not in keeping with your posts here in general. After sitting on this post for a while and since it was a one time thing, I will forego it but I expect any future posts to be top notch and in keeping with a much higher standard. Please hold off responding until I can gather myself together after the upset that your post caused me.

 

Did I get that right.?

 

Made a big deal of it.

I expressed my frustration and dissatisfaction.

I delayed confronting you.

I held off responding sooner.

I politely asked you do to better next time.

I asked that you leave me alone until I can better deal with your malevolence.

My plan is to reopen this thread in a few weeks and wait for the posting of a lifetime.

 

I am a geezer in my last quarter of life and we do not appreciate power plays.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Ah, so your response would have been to be a manipulative bitch.

 

I am not taking the escort's side in the original posting, but your response is reprehensible in my opinion. I was surprised to read it and it is not in keeping with your posts here in general. After sitting on this post for a while and since it was a one time thing, I will forego it but I expect any future posts to be top notch and in keeping with a much higher standard. Please hold off responding until I can gather myself together after the upset that your post caused me.

 

Did I get that right.?

 

Made a big deal of it.

I expressed my frustration and dissatisfaction.

I delayed confronting you.

I held off responding sooner.

I politely asked you do to better next time.

I asked that you leave me alone until I can better deal with your malevolence.

My plan is to reopen this thread in a few weeks and wait for the posting of a lifetime.

 

I am a geezer in my last quarter of life and we do not appreciate power plays.

 

Oh, please. How do you say in English? Get off your high horse. Talking about manipulative bitches.

[Good Grief]

Ah, so your response would have been to be a manipulative bitch.

 

I am not taking the escort's side in the original posting, but your response is reprehensible in my opinion. I was surprised to read it and it is not in keeping with your posts here in general. After sitting on this post for a while and since it was a one time thing, I will forego it but I expect any future posts to be top notch and in keeping with a much higher standard. Please hold off responding until I can gather myself together after the upset that your post caused me.

 

Did I get that right.?

 

Made a big deal of it.

I expressed my frustration and dissatisfaction.

I delayed confronting you.

I held off responding sooner.

I politely asked you do to better next time.

I asked that you leave me alone until I can better deal with your malevolence.

My plan is to reopen this thread in a few weeks and wait for the posting of a lifetime.

 

I am a geezer in my last quarter of life and we do not appreciate power plays.

 

@purplekow I'm commending you for being able to respond to the post by latbear...etc you quoted. I have to say I'm stymied.

[cmennow]

I experienced that as well with someone that I had just started connecting with. The first time was out of this world so you think, why not go back? Next time was a total flop as far as performance. He was very nice and gave the boyfriend experience but that is not what I wanted. He was paid his normal rate. I think as a way to compensate, he text me about 4 days later just to say hello, and dropped his rate for future appointments. He has since been out of this world the two subsequent times.

[marylander1940]

Years ago I had a late evening appointment with a frequent and prominent visitor to NYC. I was clearly his last client and try as he might he was spent. Instead he fingered my butt while preforming oral on me expertly. The explosion he caused was not what I expected but well worth the fee paid.

 

Good old prostate massage.

 

[mike carey]

Get off your horse.

Lol. Without commenting either way on the conversation, I think you meant, 'Get off your high horse'.

[marylander1940]

Yes.

 

• I went to see my longtime dentist today for two crowns... about $2500 of work in addition to 4 he had already done.
   
  
• His hands were shaking and he was unable to prep and seat them.
   
  
• He said he'd gotten really hammered the night before because it was his regular Tuesday poker night.
  
• He asked me to come back the next day - he would only charge me for a second office visit beyond the $2500 because I was a repeat patient.
  

 

He should have not seen any clients if he was unable to do his job.

If you want to be respected like a professional you have to act like one - be it a dentist or sex worker.

 

if he does it again, he'd better lawyer up.

[+ purplekow]

Oh, please. How do you say in English? Get off your horse. Talking about manipulative bitches.

 

Your post on how to manipulate someone with guilt and a power play may be how you choose to live your life. You are in your 20's now and I expect that you will live a long time or at least it will feel that way with that attitude. You choose to think that my post shows me as being on a high horse and I think that your post shows you acting like a horse's ass. Variety is the spice of life.

[Edward]

I have found recently that many escorts have a hard time getting and keeping an erection. Anyone else encounter escorts having that problem?

[BabyBoomer]

You are in your 20's now

 

@latbear4blk hasn't seen his 20's in 25 years.

 

~Boomer ~

[+ purplekow]

~Boome

@latbear4blk hasn't seen his 20's in 25 years.

 

~Boomer ~

I misread the last line which stated that he was into guys in their 20's and thought it said he was in his 20's. Guess it is time to get the glasses redone. Thanks for the correction.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Your post on how to manipulate someone with guilt and a power play may be how you choose to live your life. You are in your 20's now and I expect that you will live a long time or at least it will feel that way with that attitude. You choose to think that my post shows me as being on a high horse and I think that your post shows you acting like a horse's ass. Variety is the spice of life.

 

Now that you are not telling me what I should do and how I should respond to you, I will take a few seconds to respond to you.

 

Sometimes I manipulate people. Duh. We all do. If you think you do not, double check yourself. Sometimes I am a manipulative bitch. Yes. I am human and my actions are not always led by the highest values. Specially when it is about sex. You are correct on assessing that I am not doing the right thing to do. I am being selfish and I am doing in this particular situation what I think will maximize my sexual pleasure. Touché.

Now saying that because I do that I am choosing to live my life as someone who manipulates others with a power and guilt play, it is your own trip and I will not try to find out what is your own shit that you are projecting. My life is much more than my games with escorts. My games with escorts are much more than the strategy I use in the very specific situation we are discussing here.

Save your melodrama for yourself.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Lol. Without commenting either way on the conversation, I think you meant, 'Get off your high horse'.

 

Thank you, my Southern Hemisphere brother. It is edited.

[Strafe13]

I have found recently that many escorts have a hard time getting and keeping an erection. Anyone else encounter escorts having that problem?

 

Yes. I thought it was just me. But I've had that happen with quite a few professional escorts in the past 2 or 3 years, when that had almost never occurred before in many more years prior. Something new in the water, perhaps? ;-)

[+ José Soplanucas]

Yes. I thought it was just me. But I've had that happen with quite a few professional escorts in the past 2 or 3 years, when that had almost never occurred before in many more years prior. Something new in the water, perhaps? ;-)

 

I noticed also that happened to me more often than in the past. I do not know what you are comparing, I am comparing my interaction with escorts in my 20s and early 30s to my interaction with them in my 50s. During most of my 30s and 40s I did not hire.

The explanation that I came with is that I am less attractive now and therefore some professionals need an extra effort to stay hard. My hirings have always been guys in between 18 y.o. and late 20s.

[+ purplekow]

Now that you are not telling me what I should do and how I should respond to you, I will take a few seconds to respond to you.

 

Sometimes I manipulate people. Duh. We all do. If you think you do not, double check yourself. Sometimes I am a manipulative bitch. Yes. I am human and my actions are not always led by the highest values. Specially when it is about sex. You are correct on assessing that I am not doing the right thing to do. I am being selfish and I am doing in this particular situation what I think will maximize my sexual pleasure. Touché.

Now saying that because I do that I am choosing to live my life as someone who manipulates others with a power and guilt play, it is your own trip and I will not try to find out what is your own shit that you are projecting. My life is much more than my games with escorts. My games with escorts are much more than the strategy I use in the very specific situation we are discussing here.

Save your melodrama for yourself.

 

You made my point with this response, in that you did not enjoy it when in a stepwise manner, I followed the guide you laid out.

Long ago I decided to call out bad behavior when I hear it or see it. Your post fit into that category. If you find that melodramatic, so be it.

As to my own issues, I have them and I have frequently posted on this forum about them.

I will be moving on past this, so should you so choose to post again, you will have the pleasure of the last word.

Portanse y cuidanse bien.