Just had my 1st erotic (?) massage

[LookingAround]

Until he gives us something interpretable to work with I can't say. Here's what he said:

 

"It was very, very weird. I think reviews are censured here. Should I wait until someone asks about the person I got the massage from to advise? It was my first time w/a masseur, but I'm pretty sure it's not common. I'm so sorry if this should be posted in another forum or to a moderator."

 

It's like a projective test. You have an interpretation and I have another. It's up to him to communicate in a sufficiently intelligible light to have a clear idea what he means.

[Good Grief]

I don't think we should trivialize the OP's original post. He sounds concerned, confused....and asking for support.

 

 

Okay, gents. You can call me Miss Pot. I am @Good Grief

 

I'm going to say that I think several of you were a little harsh in your replies to the OP. (imho, for what its worth)

 

His first massage experience, it seems, went awry in his opinion. Wasn't what he expected from what I gather from the posting and was looking, from us, for thoughts, advice, opinions, help...

 

Not what he's getting. Just sayin...

[LookingAround]

How's does it go awry? If the masseur becomes suggestive or touches his penis or balls, he can move the masseurs hand away. If he is held forceably against his will and raped that's a different matter but he never says that.

 

Why is it mean to require that he communicate the issue rather than 20 people generating 20 guesses what happened?

[MikeBiDude]

How does you saying this enable communication?

What? I'm cumming! What happened?

[Good Grief]

How's does it go awry? If the masseur becomes suggestive or touches his penis or balls, he can move the masseurs hand away. If he is held forceably against his will and raped that's a different matter but he never says that.

 

Why is it mean to require that he communicate the issue rather than 20 people generating 20 guesses what happened?

 

Your opinion is appreciated.

[BaronArtz]

I didn't expect interplay plus he rubbed himself off in my ass.

 

Do you mean ON your ass or IN your ass? Was there actual penetration? Did you consent? These are all not so subtle differences ....

 

If you were actually raped, you should go to the cops.

[Dmitri]

@SuperJunior , it would be best if you replied and helped us out with what exactly happened in the situation. Were you held against your will? Did the person force themselves on you? We are not mind readers and can't give advice or help without any more info from you. It looks to me like maybe you have become disgusted with this forum and just left.If that is case, we have no extra info from you to help and give advice. I will say though, that for the majority of us in this forum, myself included, what you described (mutual play, having the masseur cum, etc.) would be a Massage Fantasy .....not a Massage Nightmare ( sounds HOT,with mutual consent of course.)

[LookingAround]

How does you saying this enable communication?

I think sarcasm can make a great point. Do you get what I'm saying with it?

[SuperJunior]

My apologies for the delayed response. I was very sick yesterday. This is the barebones of what happened. I tried booking with Tim, who has great reviews all round. He was unavailable. As I wanted a massage anyway and had decided this was the day it was happening, I booked the man nearest me. Nothing in his reviews on masseurfinder indicated he gave any sort of sensual massage but I thought I’d at least have some kind of experience to settle my extreme nerves about all this. I couldn’t find anything on here about him and he’s not on daddysreviews. His studio room was nice. I was surprised that he was naked, but I sort of thought maybe that was to make me comfortable so that I wasn’t the only naked person in the room. He wiped my back down with a dry towel and spent a long time rubbing my ass. He moved to the head of the massage table and moved my hands onto his legs. All this was great. I thought it was going to be more erotic, which I was not opposed to. He kept saying “Grab me. Grab me.” I was rubbing his legs and ass and he was pretty much holding my hands there. He then climbed onto the table and sat on the back of my legs. He poured a lot of oil into the crack of my ass and started rubbing the head of his dick on my asshole. I told him I wasn’t prepared for that. He said he wouldn’t go in, just wanted to rub it on my great ass. After about half dozen quick thrusts, he came. He got up, wiped himself off, put on some underwear, wiped me off, and continued the massage in a manner that was definitely not inviting mutual touch. It wasn’t that he got off, necessarily, because until he climbed onto my back, I was having fun. I guess I’m not sure what my point is. I didn’t have fun, in the end. I feel like I’ve wasted your time and a post here and I’m very embarrassed. Sorry for all the confusion.

[MikeBiDude]

My apologies for the delayed response. I was very sick yesterday. This is the barebones of what happened. I tried booking with Tim, who has great reviews all round. He was unavailable. As I wanted a massage anyway and had decided this was the day it was happening, I booked the man nearest me. Nothing in his reviews on masseurfinder indicated he gave any sort of sensual massage but I thought I’d at least have some kind of experience to settle my extreme nerves about all this. I couldn’t find anything on here about him and he’s not on daddysreviews. His studio room was nice. I was surprised that he was naked, but I sort of thought maybe that was to make me comfortable so that I wasn’t the only naked person in the room. He wiped my back down with a dry towel and spent a long time rubbing my ass. He moved to the head of the massage table and moved my hands onto his legs. All this was great. I thought it was going to be more erotic, which I was not opposed to. He kept saying “Grab me. Grab me.” I was rubbing his legs and ass and he was pretty much holding my hands there. He then climbed onto the table and sat on the back of my legs. He poured a lot of oil into the crack of my ass and started rubbing the head of his dick on my asshole. I told him I wasn’t prepared for that. He said he wouldn’t go in, just wanted to rub it on my great ass. After about half dozen quick thrusts, he came. He got up, wiped himself off, put on some underwear, wiped me off, and continued the massage in a manner that was definitely not inviting mutual touch. It wasn’t that he got off, necessarily, because until he climbed onto my back, I was having fun. I guess I’m not sure what my point is. I didn’t have fun, in the end. I feel like I’ve wasted your time and a post here and I’m very embarrassed. Sorry for all the confusion.

Thanks for communicating your experience. You are not wasting our time. Don't give up on massage, or on "us", this is a good place.

[gallahadesquire]

Welcome Aboard, SuperJunior! Please hang around ... the guys here are a hoot.

 

Now: Some guys would serio9usly get off on what happened to you. Assuming he's an average masseur, you must have stellar ass to get that kind of a response out of him!

 

Or, he's just a jerk. Remember to say "no", and ask if your next massage is therapeutic or sensual.

 

My apologies for the delayed response. I was very sick yesterday. This is the barebones of what happened. I tried booking with Tim, who has great reviews all round. He was unavailable. As I wanted a massage anyway and had decided this was the day it was happening, I booked the man nearest me. Nothing in his reviews on masseurfinder indicated he gave any sort of sensual massage but I thought I’d at least have some kind of experience to settle my extreme nerves about all this. I couldn’t find anything on here about him and he’s not on daddysreviews. His studio room was nice. I was surprised that he was naked, but I sort of thought maybe that was to make me comfortable so that I wasn’t the only naked person in the room. He wiped my back down with a dry towel and spent a long time rubbing my ass. He moved to the head of the massage table and moved my hands onto his legs. All this was great. I thought it was going to be more erotic, which I was not opposed to. He kept saying “Grab me. Grab me.” I was rubbing his legs and ass and he was pretty much holding my hands there. He then climbed onto the table and sat on the back of my legs. He poured a lot of oil into the crack of my ass and started rubbing the head of his dick on my asshole. I told him I wasn’t prepared for that. He said he wouldn’t go in, just wanted to rub it on my great ass. After about half dozen quick thrusts, he came. He got up, wiped himself off, put on some underwear, wiped me off, and continued the massage in a manner that was definitely not inviting mutual touch. It wasn’t that he got off, necessarily, because until he climbed onto my back, I was having fun. I guess I’m not sure what my point is. I didn’t have fun, in the end. I feel like I’ve wasted your time and a post here and I’m very embarrassed. Sorry for all the confusion.

[PaulM]

SuperJunior....thanks for sharing.....do stick around. Your experiences can only improve from here! Sounds like the masseur was pretty selfish or ur just to hot for him to control himself, but I think I would have been a little pissed too since ur the paying customer.

[Jim_n_NYC]

While what you just posted seems like a review, you are telling us your experience because you need our input about what happened. Not to mention, you aren't even telling us who this is. If this had been your been your first post in the thread it would have helped a lot!

 

IMO, no masseur or escort should ever do anything the client doesn't want. Period. Since this is your first experience, I can understand your situation. One thing I would definitely recommend is to never, ever go with someone with no reviews, esp as a newbie. I will never do it...you never know if the guy will try to rob you, scam you, or worse. Wait til they get some reviews from other brave souls, then give them a try.

 

My advice is to do your best to get past what happened. Luckily, it doesn't sound as bad as some of us assumed...he basically got off on your butt, then turned cold for the rest of the massage. Once you feel like you can handle another session, try to book one with someone with a lot of good reviews and post here in the forums to get guys' opinions. If a few guys here tell you the guy is good...you'll be good to go...and hopefully have a blast (so to speak ).

[stop]

This is one of the funniest and surprising threads I have ever read. I would love more guys popping up sharing they felt the masseur crossed the line as a bad thing.

Of course it is a bad thing if you were abused, but the topic is absolutely unusual in this forum.

 

http://33.media.tumblr.com/647f76d85a6112a1059626f12b439e47/tumblr_nkyj1cZcNs1qgf1i8o1_500.gif

 

 

Sorry for the sidebar but this is the most fucking adorable pic/meme of Jeremy Remer! I love it.

[SuperJunior]

While what you just posted seems like a review, you are telling us your experience because you need our input about what happened. Not to mention, you aren't even telling us who this is. If this had been your been your first post in the thread it would have helped a lot!

 

IMO, no masseur or escort should ever do anything the client doesn't want. Period. Since this is your first experience, I can understand your situation. One thing I would definitely recommend is to never, ever go with someone with no reviews, esp as a newbie. I will never do it...you never know if the guy will try to rob you, scam you, or worse. Wait til they get some reviews from other brave souls, then give them a try.

 

My advice is to do your best to get past what happened. Luckily, it doesn't sound as bad as some of us assumed...he basically got off on your butt, then turned cold for the rest of the massage. Once you feel like you can handle another session, try to book one with someone with a lot of good reviews and post here in the forums to get guys' opinions. If a few guys here tell you the guy is good...you'll be good to go...and hopefully have a blast (so to speak ).

 

Sorry. I was trying to err on the side of caution in my first post. He does have reviews, but they're all on masseurfinder. I'm going to try to book Tim next weekend.

[SuperJunior]

Welcome Aboard, SuperJunior! Please hang around ... the guys here are a hoot.

 

Now: Some guys would serio9usly get off on what happened to you. Assuming he's an average masseur, you must have stellar ass to get that kind of a response out of him!

 

Or, he's just a jerk. Remember to say "no", and ask if your next massage is therapeutic or sensual.

 

Well, now that I have some distance, I'm thinking maybe he was just really horny. I do have a stellar ass, but I wanted something mutual. I don't think he's a jerk, but I needed a different ending. Thanks.

[+ Funguy]

Well, now that I have some distance, I'm thinking maybe he was just really horny. I do have a stellar ass, but I wanted something mutual. I don't think he's a jerk, but I needed a different ending. Thanks.

 

Very simple. Now that you know he is open go back but let him know you want more mutual contact. Not as bad as you thought originally. A lot of guys here would have loved it!

[+ HornyRetiree]

My apologies for the delayed response. I was very sick yesterday. This is the barebones of what happened. I tried booking with Tim, who has great reviews all round. He was unavailable. As I wanted a massage anyway and had decided this was the day it was happening, I booked the man nearest me. Nothing in his reviews on masseurfinder indicated he gave any sort of sensual massage but I thought I’d at least have some kind of experience to settle my extreme nerves about all this. I couldn’t find anything on here about him and he’s not on daddysreviews. His studio room was nice. I was surprised that he was naked, but I sort of thought maybe that was to make me comfortable so that I wasn’t the only naked person in the room. He wiped my back down with a dry towel and spent a long time rubbing my ass. He moved to the head of the massage table and moved my hands onto his legs. All this was great. I thought it was going to be more erotic, which I was not opposed to. He kept saying “Grab me. Grab me.” I was rubbing his legs and ass and he was pretty much holding my hands there. He then climbed onto the table and sat on the back of my legs. He poured a lot of oil into the crack of my ass and started rubbing the head of his dick on my asshole. I told him I wasn’t prepared for that. He said he wouldn’t go in, just wanted to rub it on my great ass. After about half dozen quick thrusts, he came. He got up, wiped himself off, put on some underwear, wiped me off, and continued the massage in a manner that was definitely not inviting mutual touch. It wasn’t that he got off, necessarily, because until he climbed onto my back, I was having fun. I guess I’m not sure what my point is. I didn’t have fun, in the end. I feel like I’ve wasted your time and a post here and I’m very embarrassed. Sorry for all the confusion.

 

You are certainly not wasting anyone's time - everyone is free to skip your post - - Did he release you at the end? or just take care of his own need to ejaculate?

[Jim_n_NYC]

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/dragonatl.shtml

 

This Tim? Holy s...! But he only has 2 reviews, so get guys opinions here first.

 

Edit & off topic: About Jeremy Renner, there's a scene in some civil war movie where he gets shot and they dump his body in a pit. When they roll his body in, it comes out of the sheet and he ends up face down naked. OMG! I think I looked online and found that it was really him in that shot!

[SuperJunior]

You are certainly not wasting anyone's time - everyone is free to skip your post - - Did he release you at the end? or just take care of his own need to ejaculate?

In the end, her poured extra oil on my dick and put my own hand there, but it was too late. I'd lost any excitement.

[SuperJunior]

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/dragonatl.shtml

 

This Tim? Holy s...! But he only has 2 reviews, so get guys opinions here first.

 

Edit & off topic: About Jeremy Renner, there's a scene in some civil war movie where he gets shot and they dump his body in a pit. When they roll his body in, it comes out of the sheet and he ends up face down naked. OMG! I think I looked online and found that it was really him in that shot!

 

Yes, that Tim. He's had lots of good comments here.

 

That Renner film is The Assassination of Jesse James By the Coward Robert Ford. I think.

[+ HornyRetiree]

In the end, her poured extra oil on my dick and put my own hand there, but it was too late. I'd lost any excitement.

 

YOUR own hand??? Damn he was selfish and and totally after his own sexual pleasure.

[+ Keith30309]

Yes, that Tim. He's had lots of good comments here.

 

Highly recommended

[+ nycman]

I just wanted to thank Super Junior for sticking with us and providing more details.

 

Sounds like the dude was a selfish jerk. Chalk it up to experience.

 

Glad to hear you're looking to get back in the saddle again.

 

I promise there are some amazing guys out there. Just think with your

big head next time and pick someone you've done a little more homework

on. You'll be having fun in no time.

 

PS...you realize that your story made all the tops here REALLY want to see your ass...right?

[+ HornyRetiree]

PS...you realize that your story made all the tops here REALLY want to see your ass...right?

 

and the Top/versatiles - Topped exclusively until in my 40s when I began to wonder what I was missing out on as all these bottoms came back for more! One day I was with a guy who had an average length very slender cock and I gave it a try -- found out what I had been missing and enjoy bottoming IF the cock is not massive!