Escorts w/ Criminal Records

[LADoug1]

It's good to see that nobody reads deeper into the posts than what they want to get out of them to assume the role of superior.

 

Sorry. I don't know what you mean.

[LADoug1]

Replace the snow with some paint and pieces of furniture and it's very similar.

 

I've been meaning to look for the arrest record so I could get a hold of his booking photo. He didn't get a chance to even wash the paint off so I'm sure it's going to be hilarious. Then I'll send it to him for fun. It's been over 10 years so I'm sure he'll get a chuckle out of my handiwork. I think anyways. Lol

 

Who is the actor? Was he arrested?

[+ José Soplanucas]

Generalizing about black men from the "hood" troubles me. Maybe I'm being overly PC and naive but it smacks of racial bias.

 

Please, read carefully. I said "young black urban boys from the hood", which is still a generalization but significantly more restricted than how you are paraphrasing. You probably do not work closely with at risk populations as I do. By no mean I mean all young urban black boys from the hood hold criminal records, I just imply that you have to get used to those cases if you are engaged with that specific population. I do not even mean that holding criminal records mean that they are criminal, I am just pointing out to a fact common in communities victims of discrimination.

Maybe it is my bad English, but I reread my post and I still do not see anything wrong about it. Peace!

[+ goosh69]

Please, read carefully. I said "young black urban boys from the hood", which is still a generalization but significantly more restricted than how you are paraphrasing. You probably do not work closely with at risk populations as I do. By no mean I mean all young urban black boys from the hood hold criminal records, I just imply that you have to get used to those cases if you are engaged with that specific population. I do not even mean that holding criminal records mean that they are criminal, I am just pointing out to a fact common in communities victims of discrimination.

Maybe it is my bad English, but I reread my post and I still do not see anything wrong about it. Peace!

 

Uhhhhh.... you CLEARLY implied black men have criminal records.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Uhhhhh.... you CLEARLY implied black men have criminal records.

 

At this point I am wondering whether it is my poor writing skills or your poor reading skills.

[+ oldNbusted]

At this point I am wondering whether it is my poor writing skills or your poor reading skills.

 

It's not your writing skills.

[caliguy]

At this point I am wondering whether it is my poor writing skills or your poor reading skills.

"Talking about guys with criminal records...:http://www.blackboyaddictionz.com/home"

 

Your writing is fine. I totally got your meaning.

[+ goosh69]

Yep. You said BLACK escorts have criminal backgrounds:

 

"Everyone deserves a second chance, even if he is a convicted criminal, which is not the case presented by the OP, but even in that extreme case I would consider the circumstances to make a decision. Circumstances are everything.

Specially those of us who like playing with young black urban boys from the hood, you better have an open mind about criminal backgrounds."

 

I've been with plenty of white escorts, and plenty of THEM have criminal records. A few got to three strikes. But I don't recall any of the threads about them (or other criminal white escorts) talking about their race at all.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Yep. You said BLACK escorts have criminal backgrounds:

 

"Everyone deserves a second chance, even if he is a convicted criminal, which is not the case presented by the OP, but even in that extreme case I would consider the circumstances to make a decision. Circumstances are everything.

Specially those of us who like playing with young black urban boys from the hood, you better have an open mind about criminal backgrounds."

 

I've been with plenty of white escorts, and plenty of THEM have criminal records. A few got to three strikes. But I don't recall any of the threads about them (or other criminal white escorts) talking about their race at all.

 

I did not say that Black escorts have criminal records. You did quote what I did say, thank you for that.

 

I think you do have a point in your closing paragraph. My racist bias would be that I am assuming that young black urban boys coming from a poverty background are more likely to have criminal records than young white urban boys coming from poverty. Touché.

[+ José Soplanucas]

"Talking about guys with criminal records...:http://www.blackboyaddictionz.com/home"

 

Your writing is fine. I totally got your meaning.

 

I see you do. You took out of the quote all of the content that make it no racist.

[LADoug1]

Please, read carefully. I said "young black urban boys from the hood", which is still a generalization but significantly more restricted than how you are paraphrasing. You probably do not work closely with at risk populations as I do. By no mean I mean all young urban black boys from the hood hold criminal records, I just imply that you have to get used to those cases if you are engaged with that specific population. I do not even mean that holding criminal records mean that they are criminal, I am just pointing out to a fact common in communities victims of discrimination.

Maybe it is my bad English, but I reread my post and I still do not see anything wrong about it. Peace!

 

I appreciate your thoughtful reply but still stand by what I said.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I appreciate your thoughtful reply but still stand by what I said.

 

I appreciate your respectful confrontation. I do believe that I have racist prejudices (I believe we all do) and it is always healthy to be alert and open to feedback, it is hard to see your own prejudices without others' light. Thanks to you and and others I realize and understand the racist bias in my post. I still do not see how you can read that I am saying that black escorts have criminal records, because I am not. But as I explain in post #60, there is a clear racist bias in my post and I regret it. Even if it was not my intention, I apologize if I offended anyone. No excuses, I am sorry.

 

I could edit my post, but I think it is good to document these conversations.

 

Now let me make a comment to you and everyone else who understood I said that all Black escorts, or somebody even said all Blacks have criminal records, when I clearly said something very different. I suggest you take a serious look at your own racist prejudices. Apparently you do not recognize or understand the wide diversity that exists in Black America, when you are blind to my specific reference to a tiny subculture.

[+ goosh69]

Nope. I posted your ENTIRE quote. EVERYONE but you thinks it was racist. That says all you need to know.

[MikeBiDude]

Nope. I posted your ENTIRE quote. EVERYONE but you thinks it was racist. That says all you need to know.

Don't include me in "EVERYONE" you don't have a clue how everyone thinks. How could you?

[LADoug1]

Nope. I posted your ENTIRE quote. EVERYONE but you thinks it was racist. That says all you need to know.

Don't include me in "EVERYONE" you don't have a clue how everyone thinks. How could you?

 

Perhaps the post should read "most posters" rather than EVERYONE.

[+ goosh69]

Sure. He still sounds racist. Two separate posts where the only way I read it is "black men from big cities have criminal records." I do not by the way. Not even a traffic ticket, ever.

[+ glutes]

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[marylander1940]

Everyone deserves a second chance, even if he is a convicted criminal, which is not the case presented by the OP, but even in that extreme case I would consider the circumstances to make a decision. Circumstances are everything.

Specially those of us who like playing with young black urban boys from the hood, you better have an open mind about criminal backgrounds.

 

I won't go into this argument because we all know you're not a racist.

 

May I simply remind yinz that hiring escorts and escorting (we know why we're hiring them, right) is illegal in all but 2 counties in NV?

 

All of us could easily get a criminal record if we get caught doing one of our favorite hobbies.

[+ azdr0710]

[HastingsChi]

While those sites may help in pointing you in the right direction, they hardly provide anything useful. Go to county or state website and perform court record searches.

 

Definitely excellent advice. The County court clerk sites will yield the most accurate and up-to-date information in many counties for free.

Additionally, some counties will charge you a fee to search their court records online.

Unfortunately, far too many counties (Cook County aka Chicago for example) are not equipped for online searching of court records.

 

Personally, I believe that every county should provide for free online search of court records for one important reason: To protect the rights of individuals that have been acquitted of charges. For example: When someone is arrested and that arrest is covered/sensationalized by the news media, it is rare that the media publishes a follow-up detailing the outcome of that arrest. Since the media didn't report the acquittal or exhortation, when someone Google's your name the sensationalized damning news report of your arrest will be prominently featured.

[+ goosh69]

Hardly anything useful is too much. The Felix searches do in fact turn up many criminal things.

[phraughy]

Yep. You said BLACK escorts have criminal backgrounds:

 

"Everyone deserves a second chance, even if he is a convicted criminal, which is not the case presented by the OP, but even in that extreme case I would consider the circumstances to make a decision. Circumstances are everything.

Specially those of us who like playing with young black urban boys from the hood, you better have an open mind about criminal backgrounds."

 

I've been with plenty of white escorts, and plenty of THEM have criminal records. A few got to three strikes. But I don't recall any of the threads about them (or other criminal white escorts) talking about their race at all.

You get off on the risk and danger factor. You may not realize it but you do.

[phraughy]

Let me flip the script here.

 

What should an escort do if he discovered the client has a criminal record? Does he go ahead and meet a potentially dangerous individual? Or does he decline the business and miss out on the revenue?

 

I wonder how some clients would react if they learned an escort performed a background check and learned similar sensitive information.

Depends on the crime. But if the escort goes for the revenue rather than declining business, the consequences are on him. I expect to be vetted but most rarely do.

[+ goosh69]

You get off on the risk and danger factor. You may not realize it but you do.

 

I don’t.

[phraughy]

I don’t.

Well I dont know you so I really can't say. But if you hire escorts with violent criminal records with no regard to the crime you are really throwing caution to the wind.