Can you tell if the escort has already bottomed before your encounter?

[oz_carter]

I hired a guy last night. And after I topped him I asked him how his day has been (I was making polite chit chat). He mentioned I was his 3rd client for the day and he bottomed as recently as 3 hours before he came to see me. I was surprised as I really couldn't tell. He was tight when I topped him.

[adannyboy]

Anuses are very resilient

[LivingnLA]

3 hours is plenty of time for the sphincters to tighten back up if the bottom knows what they're doing and they weren't doing some crazy rough fucking with a fist or a beer can thick top or something similar. Oh, and genetics play some role too as some bottoms stay tighter while others gape more easily.

[LivingnLA]

Anuses are very resilient

 

Yes, the anal sphincters are resilient but they're not infinitely so. If they're pushed too far, they could be compromised, possibly even requiring surgery to restore normal function.

[+ bashful]

possibly even requiring surgery to restore normal function.

 

I think it will be a while before I bottom.

[marylander1940]

I hired a guy last night. And after I topped him I asked him how his day has been (I was making polite chit chat). He mentioned I was his 3rd client for the day and he bottomed as recently as 3 hours before he came to see me. I was surprised as I really couldn't tell. He was tight when I topped him.

 

4 guys in a day... was he local or visiting your city?

 

I've heard they see more guys when they travel because they're fresh meat. Besides here in DC (where everybody is a somebody) some clients only hire visiting escort because they're so discreet and important.

[oz_carter]

He was visiting my city. He was staying in a nice upmarket hotel which could explain why he was taking in more clients than normal.

[marylander1940]

He was visiting my city. He was staying in a nice upmarket hotel which could explain why he was taking in more clients than normal.

 

It makes sense for a visiting escort to see 4 guys in one day, I'm still surprised he told you/bragged about it...

[dcguy20]

I also wouldn't want to know that I was someone's third client of the day.

[Whitman]

I also wouldn't want to know that I was someone's third client of the day.

Completely agree. Why would he share that -- let alone that "he bottomed as recently as 3 hours before" he saw @oz_carter? TMI ... and a buzzkill.

[jawjateck]

Years ago, a Vegas provider was rushing to wrap up our 2 hour session. He was chatty (TMI) in the last few minutes and gave me insight into his work day. I was his fifth client, and he had less than 30 minutes to meet his next appointment. While that info did not bother me, it explained his underwhelming performance. He left about 11 PM, the door closed, and I struck him out of my black book.

 

Wish I could have sent an SOS to his next client and saved him some money.

[+ José Soplanucas]

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[oz_carter]

It was kind of a buzzkill. I wasn't expecting him to tell me I was his 3rd client for the day. However he did provide the service I required and that is what's

more important in the end.

[MassageDrew]

I'm not sure if I'm at that comfort level to know I'm his this # of client for the day. Where is the ticket counter? He might as well put up a sign "Served over 1 million customers" or something. Maybe he's trying to say or even impress you as to how tight he is but that just came out all wrong.

[Rudynate]

For me, that would be TMI. Of course, I know that I might not be his first for the day, but I wouldn't want to hear it from him. I like to book early in the day, mostly because I like afternoon play, but also, I think there's more if a possibility that the escort will be rested and ready to go.

[Mydavid]

I had been the number 3 before. And for the worse, he couldn't maintain an erection, so he told me he had already come two times.

He did something else to compensate me, and I felt good.

[+ Keith30309]

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I also wouldn't want to know that I was someone's third client of the day.

 

Exactly. I get that it was a quick hour, but there's something to be said for attempting to make your client feel special... Not like 1 of 100.

[sincitymix]

Years ago, a Vegas provider was rushing to wrap up our 2 hour session. He was chatty (TMI) in the last few minutes and gave me insight into his work day. I was his fifth client, and he had less than 30 minutes to meet his next appointment. While that info did not bother me, it explained his underwhelming performance. He left about 11 PM, the door closed, and I struck him out of my black book.

 

Wish I could have sent an SOS to his next client and saved him some money.

hmmm.. does he escort still and can you tell his name, so one can avoid?

[Epigonos]

For this very reason I tend to avoid hiring visiting escorts. The exception to this is if I know the guy well and he makes me aware of his schedule so we can get together taking it into account. Also I ALWAYS hire for an early dinner and a couple of hours of play times which makes this less likely to happen.

I don't top or bottom thus that isn't a problem. I am very much into oral play and do insist that the escorts I hire get hard and cum thus too many earlier appointments might be a definite problem.

[MikeyGMin]

For this very reason I tend to avoid hiring visiting escorts. The exception to this is if I know the guy well and he makes me aware of his schedule so we can get together taking it into account. Also I ALWAYS hire for an early dinner and a couple of hours of play times which makes this less likely to happen.

I don't top or bottom thus that isn't a problem. I am very much into oral play and do insist that the escorts I hire get hard and cum thus too many earlier appointments might be a definite problem.

I have the same interests as you, but I do hire the travelers. If someone I've been aware of for some time comes through town I'm not going to pass them up. I would miss out on too many great guys.

 

I know they have to see multiple clients to make it profitable, but I definitely like to stick to a don't-ask-don't-tell policy. There have been issues with the cumming, but that's just a minor disappointment and doesn't ruin the whole session for me -- as long as they can get it up.

[Epigonos]

MickeyGMin there are THREE absolute deal breakers for me. If an escort can't or won't do ALL of the following I'm not interested. 1.) French Kiss, 2.) Get and Stay Hard, and 3.) Cum. I'm fortunate living in the Los Angeles area where there are numerous local escorts available who can and do provide all three services.

[corymonroe]

I get that it was a quick hour, but there's something to be said for attempting to make your client feel special...

Some guys just don't pay attention to some of the things they say, especially when naked time is over and everyone gets dressed. It's difficult to tell sometimes whether something was simply blurted out accidentally or if a guy has no sophisticated business skill.

[+ purplekow]

I do not care where I am on the assembly line as long as all the parts are working and they are well greased.

In fact, it can be made into a plus if the escort talks you up, in a deep sexy yearning voice. For example. "I just got fucked by a guy with a big cock but it was not as hard as yours. I really am going to enjoy that hard cock of yours." "He almost got me off, but I know that you are going to get me to unload all over your chest." It does not have to be true, just credible and hot.

[LivingnLA]

I think it will be a while before I bottom.

 

Lol! Context is important. As I said in other posts, it takes aggressive rough fucking by a very large cock (or two cocks, think DP) or something like fisting to possibly compromise the rectal tissues. Genetics play a role. Some people have more resilient tissues and some don't. Assuming you're an average sized male, being fucked by a cock, even one fairly long (up to 9-10") and thick (3" diameter), would be fine assuming the top was patient, considerate, and skilled so as to give your body time to relax and adapt to the penetration. Just don't get into "rosebudding" porn or that kink as it will lead to rectal prolapse in basically every case.