Drugs

[escortrod]

I'm not sure how many responses this will get, but given that there's a degree of anonymity here maybe I will.

 

I have been finding that in NY a lot of my clients want to do drugs with me. I have no problem with anybody else doing whatever they want, but the last few who have brought it up have decided not to meet when I told them that I would not partake.

 

If you like to chemically enhance your sexual experience, is it a requirement for you that the escort is similarly high?

[caliguy]

I'm not sure how many responses this will get, but given that there's a degree of anonymity here maybe I will.

 

I have been finding that in NY a lot of my clients want to do drugs with me. I have no problem with anybody else doing whatever they want, but the last few who have brought it up have decided not to meet when I told them that I would not partake.

 

If you like to chemically enhance your sexual experience, is it a requirement for you that the escort is similarly high?

You should always do drugs with clients. Remember you're here for them. Plus, the time will just fly by. Sometimes 12 hours or more or so I've heard.

[Mydavid]

I'm not sure how many responses this will get, but given that there's a degree of anonymity here maybe I will.

 

I have been finding that in NY a lot of my clients want to do drugs with me. I have no problem with anybody else doing whatever they want, but the last few who have brought it up have decided not to meet when I told them that I would not partake.

 

If you like to chemically enhance your sexual experience, is it a requirement for you that the escort is similarly high?

I never do drugs. And I won't go to an escort who does drugs when meeting me though I don't care if he does in other time.

[+ ArVaGuy]

I don't hire guys who are into drugs. I won't even consider a guy if he has PNP in his profile.

 

Any client who won't hire you because you won't partake is a client not worth seeing.

 

Remain steadfast in your practices and don't chase the financial benefits from such a compromise.

[BabyBoomer]

 

I have been finding that in NY a lot of my clients want to do drugs with me.

 

How do the numbers compare with England?

 

~Boomer ~

[escortrod]

How do the numbers compare with England?

 

~Boomer ~

Well, I can only compare NY, Vegas and London. I'm finding the inclusion of drugs more common in NY than London or Vegas, so far. But it's a tiny sample size.

[+ oldNbusted]

Even though I'm in no way qualified to make such a statement, it's always been my strong belief that an aspect of the pathology of addiction is some degree of intolerance for people who don't join in the behavior, in this case, partaking at the same time. I've never done drugs recreationally, but I was in the party scene in my 20s and noticed that seemed to freak out most of the other people who were seriously in the throws of addiction, only a handful would socialize with me because I wasn't altered in some way. I was apparently still fun enough to get a perpetual party person award at one of those self serving bar awards one year. I thought it was hilarious a person who didn't even drink was getting an award from a bar.

[+ WmClarke]

I was apparently still fun enough to get a perpetual party person award at one of those self serving bar awards one year. I thought it was hilarious a person who didn't even drink was getting an award from a bar.

Or the bar was being sarcastic.

[MikeyGMin]

If you like to chemically enhance your sexual experience, is it a requirement for you that the escort is similarly high?

 

strong belief that an aspect of the pathology of addiction is some degree of intolerance for people who don't join in the behavior, in this case, partaking at the same time

I've done a lot of "recreating" in my day and a fair amount of PNP sex -- only once in an escort situation. It's really not about intolerance or requirements, it's about being on the same page. It can be fun because there are lots of starts and stops and deviations and distractions. All kind of fun if you're on the same page, but completely infuriating if you are not in the same state of mind.

 

PNP needs to be with someone you know and trust, so as an escort, I think you are well-served by avoiding clients who only want that experience. [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] you are probably right. Most PNP experiences go on for hours and most clients who request them probably aren't expecting to pay for all of that time.

 

I am absolutely not a "just say no" kind of guy. I've said yes many many times, but there's a time and a place for everything. If I were an escort, I would avoid clients that can't have fun without enhancements.

[+ nycman]

Just say "no".

 

That bitch Nancy Reagan was right.

 

Trust me.

[LookingAround]

Not that easy. She wasn't right.

[bigvalboy]

Not that easy. She wasn't right.

 

+1

[MartyB]

I'm sure that some of the escorts I've been with did recreational drugs but I did not and I never will. It's a personal choice but I've never nor will I see one who insists on it.

[Mo Mason]

If I have poppers then I like for my companion to join me. It makes me feel awkward and self-conscious if I'm using them by myself. Not a deal-breaker, though. But that's probably not the kind of drug to which you are referring. It's as hardcore as I get.

[+ Topseed]

I've heard from escorts that it's a common request. It's a steep downward slope...I've seen too many lives fall apart from PNP.

[rvwnsd]

Like you, I don't do drugs, so the question is moot. However, given you don't do drugs you have every right to refuse to partake. If a client won't hire you for that reason then you are better off without that client. No one has the right to pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.

[tanman4u]

How do you define "drugs"? Is weed on that list? Poppers? It's pretty clear (check the Avatar) where I stand. I'm not into any other drugs, but am completely tolerant of anything another guy wants to do, IF, and that's a strong "IF" performance isn't affected. If I'm hiring I'm only hiring a top and don't want him to have crack dick and not be able to get it up. If I'm hooking up with a bottom boi I don't care what he's doing. If it helps him get off on getting off with a guy my age, bring it on.

 

And poppers? Love 'em if I'm bottoming. If I'm planning on being a top I am generally taking the little blue pill so I try to not even inhale second hand poppers. That's why, even though I'm completely versatile I maintain two separate A4A profile, one as a complete top and one as a total bottom.

 

Am I rambling now? Well once again, check the Avatar. G'night all.

[+ Keith30309]

It seems that most stories of sessions gone horribly wrong include drug use by one or the other party. I've unintentionally hired meth guys and it never ends up well; I imagine the same would be true of drug-using clients.

 

Whatever risks there are in being alone with someone are amplified greatly when they're using post-arrival. Even though I enjoy some recreationals with friends I'd never put myself in the position of accepting something from someone I didn't know. Even being with someone who is using and who's behavior you don't know is asking for trouble. If you open the door to a Tina toy you may end up with a bath salt guy tearing the place apart.

 

People rave about the sexual experience on E but I'd never take anything if I didn't know where it came from. I did that once at a party about 25 years ago and it was a very bad time - never again.

[+ honcho]

Well, the person-of-process in me points out that my interpretation or restatement of the question that Escort Rod asked was "If you are a client and you use , is it important to you that your escort also uses, during the session?".

 

Since I never take pleasure chemicals, I wouldn't have attempted to answer that question. As a rare-occasion client who likes to incorporate some S/M play in my sex life, it is important to me that the escort and I both be completely sober and in our senses, but that's not the question that I think Escort Rod asked ...

[beachboy]

I guess that as someone who doesn't do drugs, I don't really have a right to join in. But when did that stop any of us?! I did unknowingly hire a party boy once but whatever he was on had a very deflating effect on his manhood-no fun. When I'm romping with a hot naked escort I want both of us to be completely aware & in the moment. That produces the best 'high' & if there's a good connection, both mental & physical,no chemical enhancements are needed:)

[Mydavid]

Well, the person-of-process in me points out that my interpretation or restatement of the question that Escort Rod asked was "If you are a client and you use , is it important to you that your escort also uses, during the session?".

 

Since I never take pleasure chemicals, I wouldn't have attempted to answer that question. As a rare-occasion client who likes to incorporate some S/M play in my sex life, it is important to me that the escort and I both be completely sober and in our senses, but that's not the question that I think Escort Rod asked ...

Good explanation!

[+ oldNbusted]

Or the bar was being sarcastic.

 

Ha, true, that never occurred to me. I guess I was young, tall, thin, blond, and a dancing fool who was there all the time, so I guess I thought it was for real.

 

Having said that, I feel like I didn't fully communicate my feeling about addiction, that's it's an illness, not a moral failing or any of that judgmental crap. I was fortunate to have had a true friend once in my life, I mean a person who was like an extension of myself, even though we were not romantically involved, it seemed deeper than that, if you know what I mean. It was very special and I'm glad it happened, so I could know what that feels like. But he was also an alcoholic and a drug addict who went though all the cycles multiples times, detox, rehab, near death, the whole deal. One time he was living with me and got bad and I had to put him out, it was painful, but I knew as much as I loved him, I had to protect myself first, or I might not be there the next time. But that was no reflection on his special qualities as a person. And he was not the only person I've known who went through all that, just the closest. So even though I have an opinion about addict behavior, I don't want it to seem like I am passing judgement on people in that situation.

[Rudynate]

If I wanted to do drugs during a meeting with an escort, I imagine I would want him to, because I would want it to be a shared experience. However, if that were the case, I would specifically look for a guy who did PnP. The question is moot , though, since I don't PnP.

[+ WmClarke]

Ha, true, that never occurred to me. I guess I was young, tall, thin, blond, and a dancing fool who was there all the time, so I guess I thought it was for real.

Glad you took that in jest. I should have put a smiley on my post.

 

Having said that, I feel like I didn't fully communicate my feeling about addiction, that's it's an illness, not a moral failing or any of that judgmental crap. I was fortunate to have had a true friend once in my life, I mean a person who was like an extension of myself, even though we were not romantically involved, it seemed deeper than that, if you know what I mean. It was very special and I'm glad it happened, so I could know what that feels like. But he was also an alcoholic and a drug addict who went though all the cycles multiples times, detox, rehab, near death, the whole deal. One time he was living with me and got bad and I had to put him out, it was painful, but I knew as much as I loved him, I had to protect myself first, or I might not be there the next time. But that was no reflection on his special qualities as a person. And he was not the only person I've known who went through all that, just the closest. So even though I have an opinion about addict behavior, I don't want it to seem like I am passing judgement on people in that situation.

Nicely put.

[LADoug1]

My fuck- buddy likes to smoke weed before sex. He always wants me to smoke too so we're on the same plane. Sometimes I resent it.