Some frustrating things about this pastime

[Zman]

They need to host incall.

When I lived in NYC this requirement really narrowed the field. I preferred if the escort hosted but I almost always had to host. It's very hard and very expensive to live alone in NYC.

[+ Eric Hassan]

OK, you are looking for under 30, olive skin, no or minimal tattoos, fitness model, able to host, dark hair, top, in the neighborhood of 200 lbs., clean cut, in NYC. I looked at Rent.men and without setting any criteria at all other than NYC, found the following guys all on the first page!

 

https://rent.men/CUBANOENLIMA

 

https://rent.men/HotMediterranean

 

https://rent.men/ValentinoX

 

https://rent.men/DRIVERX

 

https://rent.men/THIAGO_vix

 

https://rent.men/muscledtommy

 

https://rent.men/HUNG_FREAK

 

https://rent.men/Avidar

 

Am I missing something regarding your particular criteria? And here is another possibility who just appeared in a separate thread:

 

https://rentmen.com/ErikWest

 

I'm not sure how much "give" the OP has in his preferences, so while every guy on your list has a bodybuilder/model-like physiques, at least 3 of them are well under 200lbs (170-180) and at least three of them have large tattoos.

 

This thread has me thinking about what attracts us to other people. I think most would agree that while looks are part of it, it's not the whole picture - personality, demeanor, ability to hold a conversation, charm, intellect - these all may play a part in rounding out a man and may add or subtract to his appeal. I'm guessing even the OP might relax a criterion here or there if there were something else that wasn't visible in a picture but that was extremely appealing.

[marylander1940]

This reminds me of another thread about "high end escorts..." is also as frustrating as the alleged desperation of the OP for not finding a handsome escort in NYC of all possible places in this world.

 

The problem here is that the OPs of both threads don't like the idea of hiring.

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/buff-beautiful-high-end-escorts-in-new-york-city-non-existent.116891/

 

I'm still brain-dead about the above area.

 

Say you have a few thousand dollars to splurge. Where do you find

exquisitely high-end escorts? By "high end" I mean buff, handsome,

muscular types who might provide a believable boyfriend experience

and (hopefully) some sexual satisfaction. I also don't mean quickie

"oral" or "anal" but those who desire a continuing liaison.

 

This website is terrific when it comes to warnings about fraudsters

and scammers. Are there any specialized websites which cater to

high-end escorts or are they all gone?

[marylander1940]

When I lived in NYC this requirement really narrowed the field. I preferred if the escort hosted but I almost always had to host. It's very hard and very expensive to live alone in NYC.

 

Yet among 400 in the old RB and 500 in RM I'm sure many of them were able to host.

[marylander1940]

The type of man I find sexy isn't particularly unconventional. I like younger guys, early thirties and younger. Dark hair, olive skin. Fitness model build around the 200lbs mark. Masculine. Top. Turn offs include numerous tattoos, or a non clean cut demeanor.

Hiring a woman to my tastes is much easier..

 

 

Excuse me but hiring a woman you'd have the same of more issues, the breasts would be too small or too big, too pointy or the nipples not pink enough...

 

While not unconventional, these are very specific. Ink is very popular with muscle boys and facial hair is in style. Add the hair and skin tone and you are looking at a pretty small subset.

 

I also don't like tattoos yet I see beauty on many guys who have lots them. Lately they they have become popular among escorts and pornstars, but I'm sure there's a lot of them who don't have them. When it comes to facial hair, they can always shave for an overnight with the OP and grow it back in a couple of weeks.

[kewtex]

I am not aware of any male escort agencies operating in NYC. So the number would be zero. Say the number of female escort agencies is X. Since X/O = infinity, there are infinitely more female escort agencies in NYC. Only because you asked.

 

My memory of math (I majored in it for a while) is that one cannot have zero as a denominator. Am I being too literal here?

 

Despardo, your memory has not failed you. There is no mathematical reason to use zero as a demoninator, as the result would be undefined, not infinity.

[+ Eric Hassan]

Despardo, your memory has not failed you. There is no mathematical reason to use zero as a demoninator, as the result would be undefined, not infinity.

 

You can always ask Siri what zero divided by zero equals. She's got an answer

[+ WilliamM]

Are there any male escort agencies with good reputations left anywhere in the U.S., not just New York City? Fifteen years ago an agency may not have solved OP's problem, but at least there were other ways to find guys.

[kewtex]

You can always ask Siri what zero divided by zero equals. She's got an answer

 

That Siri is one sassy, saucy broad.

 

Pertinent to the OP dilemma, I am drawn to 20-30 year-old, smooth, toned, uncut Hispanic bottoms. That really limits the choices on RM. However, simply using the search criteria of uncut bottoms for the LA market, the first name to pop up is Sean Zevran, Not too shabby.

[Seamusss]

I think it's because a minority of the male population are gay, so there are fewer men who are willing to sleep with other men for money vis-a-vis women who are willing to sleep with men for money. How many lesbian escorts are there? I, too, have been surprised at the paucity of attractive male escorts in New York City.

[Despardo]

I'm not sure how much "give" the OP has in his preferences, so while every guy on your list has a bodybuilder/model-like physiques, at least 3 of them are well under 200lbs (170-180) and at least three of them have large tattoos.

 

This thread has me thinking about what attracts us to other people. I think most would agree that while looks are part of it, it's not the whole picture - personality, demeanor, ability to hold a conversation, charm, intellect - these all may play a part in rounding out a man and may add or subtract to his appeal. I'm guessing even the OP might relax a criterion here or there if there were something else that wasn't visible in a picture but that was extremely appealing.

I was thinking that at least 1 or 2 out of 9 would float his boat. He didn't say NO tattoos, so one tasteful one on the shoulder might be OK. Also, unless the OP travels with a bathroom scale in tow, weight should be relative to height and bone structure. All the guys I found are quite muscular and fit (not to mention amazingly well hung.) I totally agree with you regarding other factors like animated features, personality, kindness, humor--the things that make someone sexy as opposed to just good looking.

[Despardo]

While not unconventional, these are very specific. Ink is very popular with muscle boys and facial hair is in style. Add the hair and skin tone and you are looking at a pretty small subset.

Dark hair and olive skin tone are not a small subset in New York City, which has managed to absorb about half the population of Puerto Rico, Colombia, Cuba and Brazil, not to mention Italy, Spain and the Middle East.

[Despardo]

When I lived in NYC this requirement really narrowed the field. I preferred if the escort hosted but I almost always had to host. It's very hard and very expensive to live alone in NYC.

I have that problem in Seattle.

[+ glennnn]

When it comes to fnding and hiring an escort, it helps to be a slut, or should I say a romantic? I've been with a handful now, and they are very different physically. Although I have fantasy preferences, I dont have a hard and fast, must-have body type, cock size, hair color, etc. I just want to play with a naked man. Take me into a coffee shop and I'll find two men I want in five minutes. It's an hour or two of sex, or less if the coffee shop guy is in a hurry. I could pick 50 in NYC from RM, easily.

 

What all my escorts have in common, other than wonderful male equipment and the skill and talent to use it well, is their ability to connect with me, to make me hot to know more about them, to want to meet them and interact, as well as to fuck them. Its called sex appeal and, I find, it comes in all sizes, shapes and colors, and a wide range of ages.

 

My problem is too many men to hire, not too few. I'm especially chasing one or two highly sought after escorts that ring all my bells, but I always find a half a dozen on line I want, plus I'm always ready for a return engagement with each of the escorts I've already been with. So far, not one has let me down. So many men, so little time, I say!

[LADoug1]

I'm not sure how much "give" the OP has in his preferences, so while every guy on your list has a bodybuilder/model-like physiques, at least 3 of them are well under 200lbs (170-180) and at least three of them have large tattoos.

 

This thread has me thinking about what attracts us to other people. I think most would agree that while looks are part of it, it's not the whole picture - personality, demeanor, ability to hold a conversation, charm, intellect - these all may play a part in rounding out a man and may add or subtract to his appeal. I'm guessing even the OP might relax a criterion here or there if there were something else that wasn't visible in a picture but that was extremely appealing.

I agree whole heartedly about personality etc. Hard to glean that from an ad. Requires direct communication.

[+ DickyF]

I think the OP has to accept that the combination he wants is very narrow. Each criterion has a large Venn diagram circle but so many circles will yield a very small intersection.

 

I imagine there are escorts who are available for very wealthy clients but I have no idea where to find them. I suspect you'd need to be part of the group

 

As a side note: I watched a great netflix documentary on Hollywood costume designer Orry-Kelly which included his early relationship with Cary Grant in NY - Cary worked as an escort to wealthy women in those days. 1920s

[gallahadesquire]

Randomly: My "type" [as I was told] is "Tall, blond, muscular, and a little chunky around the middle."

My two best hires in my life: about 5'8" (slightly shorter than me); darker hair (no more than medium brown); long-term athletically muscular (swimmer and runner); and sweet as all hell.

 

So much for tastes.

[MikeBiDude]

Randomly: My "type" [as I was told] is "Tall, blond, muscular, and a little chunky around the middle."

My two best hires in my life: about 5'8" (slightly shorter than me); darker hair (no more than medium brown); long-term athletically muscular (swimmer and runner); and sweet as all hell.

 

So much for tastes.

I discovered about ten years ago that deviating from my "type" caused many many varied fun encounters, one of which even developed into a longer term arrangement. My "type" still causes my eyes to snap to attention, but second looks at "not my types" has provided great satisfaction

[realeasymoney]

This thread points out the problems a lot of people have with finding people on the Internet. Physical appearance is only the starting point. Everything else must be evaluated face-to-face. I may have a physical type, but I also have a personality type. The few experiences I've had hiring guys off the Internet have been mediocre at best because the guys may have been my physical type but definitely weren't my personality type. For me, interacting with bar hustlers is by far the best way of making any decision on desirability.

[+ glennnn]

This thread points out the problems a lot of people have with finding people on the Internet. Physical appearance is only the starting point. Everything else must be evaluated face-to-face. I may have a physical type, but I also have a personality type. The few experiences I've had hiring guys off the Internet have been mediocre at best because the guys may have been my physical type it definitely weren't my personality type. For me, interacting with bar hustlers is by far the best way of making any decision on desirability.

 

 

Never picked a guy up, but it is a favorite fantasy. Just the words "bar hustler" makes me ooze a little precum.

[MikeyGMin]

Randomly: My "type" [as I was told] is "Tall, blond, muscular, and a little chunky around the middle."

My two best hires in my life: about 5'8" (slightly shorter than me); darker hair (no more than medium brown); long-term athletically muscular (swimmer and runner); and sweet as all hell.

 

So much for tastes.

 

I hear you! My general type is brown skinned Latinos or taller-than-me men with dark hair. My current, and very favorite escort is average height (although very muscular) and light skinned even for a white boy.

 

I've been in love twice. One was a 5'7" strawberry blonde and the other was a 5'9" beauty with light brown hair. Sometimes you just can't explain what makes you weak in the knees.

[BabyBoomer]

My current, and very favorite escort is average height (although very muscular) and light skinned even for a white boy.

 

 

 

~ Boomer ~

[Mocha]

Turn offs include numerous tattoos

 

Well, it's becoming rare...without one you're almost considered a square if you're my age. Until I get one, I'm starting to realize I can only date non tattooed guys. That's how mainstream it's become.

 

 

http://shoulditattoo.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/14/2012/02/Tattoo-Stats-by-age-300x285.jpg

[+ Funguy]

Interestingly, what would the numbers be if you just searched Daddy's Reviews which goes a long way to weeding out the fakes and gives you the most "reliable" way of judging expectations?

[Meo]

I discovered about ten years ago that deviating from my "type" caused many many varied fun encounters, one of which even developed into a longer term arrangement. My "type" still causes my eyes to snap to attention, but second looks at "not my types" has provided great satisfaction

Well said. I have come to accept that while I think I have a type, but it is chatting and the interpersonal stuff that really decide. My two favorite workers on here that I think of as "my type" are Dominiking and Brian Kevin, but I don't think anyone else would group them together--it's their posts as well as their looks that get my attention.