Kissing as bonding

[arnie]

In neuroanatomy there is a misshapen drawing of a person with the size of the body part proportional to the amount of sensory brain tissue connected to that body part. As I remember face is 1/3, mainly mouth and tongue, hand 1/4, foot 15%. Yup genitals not that much. Also assuming you're naked, you generally have the most body contact embraced. So kissing can get you input to about 3/4 of your sensory cortex. You are also communicating by your grasp and body movements. So while targeted the amount of input you get form just mouth on cock or tongue up ass is maybe 5%

[+ Yellowrod]

Kissing is the one thing that gets me from 0 to 100 in a flash. The feel of soft lips, wet tongue and beard burn.... wow.

[TruthBTold]

I think kissing is more intimate than rimming, maybe that's a perspective that makes sense? Having said that, for me, that intimacy is not a product of how vigorous or deep one goes. It's possible to have meaningful kissing without getting the roto-rooter treatment and I believe not all guys understand that.

 

I can understand this belief and of course everyone has a right to it. However, for me, there is something about rimming that goes far beyond the general conception. I have found it is definitely a skill that has to be studied and expanded (I can hear the snickers already ). I found the more I was with people, saw in porn movies, or even read online the more I incorporated things I wanted to do into my technique and they became part of my rimming. Ironically this included periodic kissing. So rimming can be incredibly intimate.

Edited November 12, 2017 by TruthBTold

[LADoug1]

I see a guy who is in an open relationship. Because we are so into each other he tends to eschew kissing. He’s afraid of “over bonding “ with me. Often quite disappointing for me since for me kissing is often as important as the sexual acts.

[Chuckball]

I prefer kissing to cocksucking. Fortunately the two follow one another.

[+ VictorPowers]

The most amusing situation I encountered was an escort who would not kiss, but he would eat ass! I didn't complain.

[Rudynate]

I can understand this belief and of course everyone has a right to it. However, for me, there is something about rimming that goes far beyond the general conception. I have found it is definitely a skill that has to be studied and expanded (I can hear the snickers already ). I found the more I was with people, saw in porn movies, or even read online the more I incorporated things I wanted to do into my technique and they became part of my rimming. Ironically this included periodic kissing. So rimming can be incredibly intimate.

 

 

If a guy licking another's ass isn't intimate, I don't know what is.

[TruthBTold]

If a guy licking another's ass isn't intimate, I don't know what is.

 

Of course it is intimate. But no more or less intimate than sticking your tongue down a guy's throat. Just holding each other in an embrace and nuzzling a neck is intimate. I am not sure of the purpose of listing them in some sort hierarchy of intimacy. E.g., I had someone who would rim me but not kiss me because he found kissing too intimate. Well, OK. I enjoyed a very good rimming and went without the kissing. Never looked back. To each his own.

[Kody S]

For me, kissing where you connect and really begin to communicate with the other person. You tell a lot by someone's kissing répertoire and the many various ways they express them selves and "talk to you" through how they kiss, where, when, and how. Without kissing, I don't have words to tell someone how I enjoy them, need them, or want them. Well I could go on...

[Traveler North]

Tristan Baldwin used to advertise that kissing took place in all his encounters. That's not on his webpage anymore

 

It may not be on his webpage but rest assured he is still aGREAT kisser.

[TruthBTold]

It may not be on his webpage but rest assured he is still aGREAT kisser.

 

Well, it is always in my TB fantasies.

[big-n-tall]

Tristan Baldwin used to advertise that kissing took place in all his encounters. That's not on his webpage anymore

 

True. He also used to exclaim kissing was his trigger. Well I know for a fact it isn't his only trigger. LOL!!!

Edited November 13, 2017 by big-n-tall

[+ Avalon]

Good for him! Smart man! He knows how important kissing is to many!